In her view, these were essential tools to support and demonstrate the impact of social and
emotional learning not only on children's learning and development but also on school functioning and practice.
Not exact matches
Since I can't see everything, it's better for me to
learn to create the best life I can with what I have, which means developing the social and
emotional skills internally to create the best life I can.
Indeed, for Torenberg, it wasn't until he found out that people he admired within the tech startup community struggled with depression that he
learned to be okay with his own
emotional lows.
Becoming a «flipnotist» isn't as easy as
learning a few rote behaviours that you can incorporate around the office, as when some salespeople lean slightly toward their clients to signal both an
emotional connection and subservience.
He then coined the term «LQ» («love quotient») in discussing that people will always win over computers, as computers can have high IQ (intelligence quotient), i.e.,
learn and
not forget, but they will
not be able to master EQ («
emotional quotient») or LQ — all ultimately critical to success.
I didn't
learn about
emotional intelligence until well into my 30s.
[01:10] Introduction [02:45] James welcomes Tony to the podcast [03:35] Tony's leap year birthday [04:15] Unshakeable delivers the specific facts you need to know [04:45] What James
learned from Unshakeable [05:25] Most people panic when the stock market drops [05:45] Getting rid of your fear of investing [06:15] Last January was the worst opening, but it was a correction [06:45] You are losing money when you sell on corrections [06:55] Bear markets come every 5 years on average [07:10] The greatest opportunity for a millennial [07:40] Waiting for corrections to invest [08:05] Warren Buffet's advice for investors [08:55] If you miss the top 10 trading days a year... [09:25] Three different investor scenarios over a 20 year period [10:40] The best trading days come after the worst [11:45] Investing in the current world [12:05] What Clinton and Bush think of the current situation [12:45] The office is far bigger than the occupant [13:35] Information helps reduce fear [14:25] James's story of the billionaire upset over another's wealth [14:45] What money really is [15:05] The story of Adolphe Merkle [16:05] The story of Chuck Feeney [16:55] The importance of the right mindset [17:15] What fuels Tony [19:15] Find something you care about more than yourself [20:25] Make your mission to surround yourself with the right people [21:25] Suffering made Tony hungry for more [23:25] By feeding his mind, Tony found strength [24:15] Great ideas don't interrupt you, you have to pursue them [25:05] Never - ending hunger is what matters [25:25] Richard Branson is the epitome of hunger and drive [25:40] Hunger is the common denominator [26:30] What you can do starting right now [26:55] Success leaves clues [28:10] What it means to take massive action [28:30] Taking action commits you to following through [29:40] If you do nothing you'll
learn nothing [30:20] There must be an
emotional purpose behind what you're doing [30:40] How does Tony ignite creativity in his own life [32:00] «How is
not as important as «why» [32:40] What and why unleash the psyche [33:25] Breaking the habit of focusing on «how» [35:50] Deep Practice [35:10] Your desired outcome will determine your action [36:00] The difference between «what» and «why» [37:00]
Learning how to chunk and group [37:40] Don't mistake movement for achievement [38:30] Tony doesn't negotiate with his mind [39:30] Change your thoughts and change your biochemistry [40:00] The bad habit of being stressed [40:40] Beautiful and suffering states [41:50] The most important decision is to live in a beautiful state no matter what [42:40] Consciously decide to take yourself out of suffering [43:40] Focus on appreciation, joy and love [44:30] Step out of suffering and find the solution [45:00] Dealing with mercury poisoning [45:40] Tony's process for stepping out of suffering [46:10] Stop identifying with thoughts — they aren't yours [47:40] Trade your expectations for appreciation [50:00] The key to life — gratitude [51:40] What is freedom for you?
It is mindblowing that we do
not learn more about
emotional intelligence during school, and that all businesses focus on «IQ» when hiring,
not «EQ.»
One critical thing he
learned was that unlike in marriage, «
not being very
emotional is very useful in the investing world.
You must have
not learned that in school that
emotional Maturity is defined as: the ability to express one's own feelings and convictions balanced with consideration for the thoughts and feelings of others.
Institutional care wasn't a lovely benign place particularly in the 19th century: there was physical and sexual and
emotional abuse, bullying, deprivation, and kids
learned to survive any way they could.
A healthy personality utilizes these three modes of security operations, which might also be classified as
learned modes of responding,
not only to seek and maintain levels of
emotional stability.
We responded with a tentative laugh, having
learned not to commit ourselves hastily to
emotional outbursts with this sardonic man.
Throughout the book, the authors stress that by focusing on behaviors and
not labels, parents will be able to better understand the whats, whys, and hows of a child's
learning and
emotional challenges.
If your daughter gets blown off in the cafeteria by her best friend Kayla and you run right over to «talk it over with the girls» or even worse tell your daughter «to forget about Kayla, she's a terrible friend,» then you're
not allowing your daughter to
learn the
emotional components that can buffer failure.
Research confirms that teaching kindness in schools increases the well - being of
not only the students but the teachers as well AND when you combine it with Social and
Emotional Learning (SEL) and mindfulness, the outcome could be quite astounding!
Kids with
Learning or Behavioral Disabilities When your child doesn't fit in with his peer group for some
emotional, behavioral or physical reason, I think you have to find an organized way as a parent to work with them step by step, to show them how to manage their daily lives.
However, just what those soft skills are has
not yet been determined in the wider world, and you can find other, well - researched lists of skills from the World Economic Forum, the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and
Emotional Learning, or the Yale Center for
Emotional Intelligence.
Now she attends a kindergarten that we chose because testing does
not drive the curriculum, the kids get three recesses a day, and the philosophy encompasses both project - based
learning and social -
emotional awareness.
It is a combo app where children can
not only have fun but they will
learn many different things such as cognition and knowledge of math, science, social studies, language and literacy as well as social as well as
emotional development.
There seems to be an increase in the world and it may have something to do with our digitalized universe that we're now immersed in but it basically is mild form of autism is or Asperger's syndrome is people are
not be involved with others, that they feel comfortable on their own, that they have difficulty picking up social cues,
emotional cues from others, that they have a harder time imagining what the other person might feel and they oftentimes just need to be trained or especially early that this is what's going on so that they can begin to compensate and
learn about the other person and how they might be feeling.
, but you have helped me
learn that a person may be better positioned to problem solve and tackle a challenge when you're
not grinding against the
emotional brakes.
Start with the teacher's worry (it's easier to
learn a new
emotional intelligence skill when it's
not about you): the worry side says, (in a funny voice): «Oh no!
As your child
learns self - control and expands their
emotional vocabulary, play therapy may be a tool to implement any time they are feeling down, angry or stressed —
not just when you're in a therapist's office.
Here is an age-wise guide to how kids play, and to the toys that
not only thrill but also help kids understand the world,
learn social and
emotional skills, and stimulate a developing brain.
• The need to exercising self - compassion as you process emotions •
Emotional purging in a conscious way to move to an easier parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time • Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
Emotional purging in a conscious way to move to an easier parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of
emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time • Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time • Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive,
not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence,
not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles •
Learning how
not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that look like?
We are
learning that trauma from high impact experiences during childbirth is
not only stored as nonverbal memories within newborns, it impacts their life at a critical time in their development, affecting short and long term physical and mental health — their entire neurological system, from their
learning capacity to mental orientation,
emotional stability and stress management.
It is
not a punishment but a place to
learn emotional intelligence followed by
learning better behavior.
Children who don't
learn to read well may have
emotional and behavioural problems later in life.
Learning how to come up with realistic expectations is vital to successful your child's
emotional growth and development,
not to mention your own sanity!
Boys are different from girls, but the benefits of
learning emotional literacy are
not gender specific.
Infants and children whose basic physical and
emotional needs are neglected
learn not to expect normal caregiving and comfort from their caregivers.
Kids who are parented this way
learn to «control» their emotions because they have a healthy
emotional life,
not because they've been told
not to feel, punished, or shamed for their feelings.
I personally find that this type of interaction helps me remember that this is a
learning experience for the child, and does
not have to be an
emotional experience that leaves me super frustrated or mad.
There is little help with the
emotional aspects, and often friends and family do
not understand what you must go through while
learning how to keep your child safe.
Stacey Ferguson, Justice Fergie [«Cheer for Your Cheerleaders»] Kristin Shaw, Two Cannoli [«You Know Your Child Best»] Aviva Goldfarb, The Scramble [«Always the Potential for Good»] Margo Porras, Nacho Mama [«Your Kids Will Do What You Do»] Emily McKhann, The Motherhood [«You Are Courageous»] Jane Maynard, This Week for Dinner [«Savor Even the Hard Seconds»] Mary Ann Zoellner, producer at NBC's TODAY [«Play Like a Dad»] Lian Dolan, Oprah.com [«Life is Serious Enough»] Maria Bailey, Mom Talk Radio [«Take Time to Celebrate You»] Christie Matheson, Stroller Traffic [«Nothing Better Than Coming Home»] Carla Naumburg, Psychcentral.com [«You Are
Not Your Thoughts»] Jenny Lee Sulpizio, JennyLeeSulpizio.com [«I'm
Not Above Mom Jeans»] Kimberly Coleman, Foodie City Mom [«Follow Your Own Inner Voice»] Missy Stevens, Wonder, Friend [«Nice Things Are Still Just Things»] Rachel Jankovic, Femina Girls [«It's
Not Supposed to Be Easy»] Megan Brooks, Texas Health Moms [«The Love Language of Listening»] Carissa Rogers, Good
N Crazy [«Here's to Embracing Change»] Dina Freeman, BabyCenter [«
Learn to Swim in the Deep End»] Elizabeth Grant Thomas, Elizabethgrantthomas.com [«It's Easier to See Light in Darkness»] Wendy Hilton, Hip Homeschool Moms [«They Want to Make Us Happy»] Renée Schuls - Jacobson, Rasjacobson.com [«Beware of
Emotional Vampires»] Shannon Lell, ShannonLell.com [«Don't Be Afraid to Sparkle»] Bunmi Laditan, Honest Toddler [«What Makes You a Writer»] Erin Dymoski, Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms [«What I'd Tell My Younger Self»] Lyss Stern, Divamoms.com [«Those Who Matter Don't Mind»] Debra Shigley, In Deb's Kitchen [«Feeling Bad?
Many educators have
not been trained in social
emotional learning, or character development.
Some are critical of social and
emotional learning initiatives within a classroom setting, arguing that schools are
not an appropriate venue for
emotional education.
You posted a guest post on this blog,
not only for your own
emotional need to vent but for others to
learn from.
But until the focus moves away from getting the end result immediately through programs that emphasize academic achievement and social and
emotional learning, children will
not have the psychological rest they need that frees their curiosity, their natural love of
learning and the growth of their capacity to integrate well with others.
Not only is playtime a fun activity, play contributes to your child's
emotional, physical and cognitive growth and helps them to
learn about themselves and the world around them.
Helping children
learn to recognise and cope overwhelming emotions is an ongoing process that certainly doesn't stop when they enter primary or elementary school, in fact I would say
emotional regulation becomes even more important in the vast social network of school.
One can
not give what he does
not have, and for example, if the father I described above wants to become truly emotionally sensitive to others, he has to
learn how to
not have his entire world colored by the guilt that he couldn't make his mother happy and that would require meeting that unresolved
emotional need head - on, working through it, and healing.
Survivors of childhood sexual abuse delivered an
emotional appeal to state senators Wednesday after they
learned that the Senate did
not put the Child Victims Act into their budget plan.
Learning about vital issues like sex, consent and
emotional literacy is undoubtedly good for boys, but it's overwhelmingly girls and women who are on the receiving end of abuse and rape from men who've got their sex education from online porn and
not had consent explained and reinforced.
Also my
emotional fragility having just
learned that my husband had throat cancer which was immediately life threatening — there was no understanding that I didn't want us to be in different hospitals at the same time.
Survivors of childhood sexual abuse delivered an
emotional appeal to state senators today after they
learned that the Senate did
not put the Child Victims Act into their budget plan.
While strangers do smile to your randomly on the street, you will
learn that most smiles you will be granted are actually a sort of formality and do
not carry the
emotional meaning you are used to associating such actions with.
If it is true that epigenetic changes to genes active in certain regions of the brain underlie our
emotional and intellectual intelligence — our tendency to be calm or fearful, our ability to
learn or to forget — then the question arises: Why can't we just take a drug to rinse away the unwanted methyl groups like a bar of epigenetic Irish Spring?
You can't
learn nonverbal
emotional cues from a screen in the way you can
learn it from face - to - face communication,» said lead author Yalda Uhls, a senior researcher with the UCLA's Children's Digital Media Center, Los Angeles.