You and your potential matches get to see one another in a variety of poses clothing, attire and situations and vet both the physical and
emotional side of things before you've ever met.
On
the emotional side of things, I thought, «Oh shit.
Any guidance on
the emotional side of things?
The emotional side of things may take longer still.
I've (so far) been able to circumvent
the emotional side of things by focusing on logistics: booking movers and plane tickets, getting Willie and Finn prepped and ready with their own passports (contrary to what I wish they would be, a pet passport is NOT adorable and small with a paw print and a photo.
There's also a known link between emotional and physical closeness, so if you are driving a wedge on
the emotional side of things then this could affect things between the sheets.
Tackling
the emotional side of things goes a long way to improving your physical intimacy too.
But it doesn't make it easier on
the emotional side of things.
If you can find a good EFT therapist, they will be able to really validate both of
your emotional sides of things and hopefully help you both feel safer and freer to be open with one another about your fears.
Supporting
the emotional side of things requires special training that most attorneys, mediators, financial advisors, real estate professionals, and many involved in the court system, do not have.