Tying core
emotional needs to a sustainable vision for the relationship, i.e. establishing a «value road map» for relevant life arenas, (parenthood, social group,
among families and relatives, in their professional careers etc.)(4.2).
Among them are a particular sensitivity to the role of traumatic or neglectful
ties with early caregivers; the fundamental importance of affect regulation to successful therapy; the importance of establishing relationships with clients characterized by close, intense,
emotional, and physical attunement; and the ultimate goal of recreating in therapy an attachment experience that makes up, at least to some degree, for what the client missed the first time around.