You avoid
emotional upset by being realistic about your expectations of a person you find on a dating site.
Not exact matches
Thus, the burden of the
emotional trauma generated
by the
upset loss seems to fall on black defendants.»
[01:10] Introduction [02:45] James welcomes Tony to the podcast [03:35] Tony's leap year birthday [04:15] Unshakeable delivers the specific facts you need to know [04:45] What James learned from Unshakeable [05:25] Most people panic when the stock market drops [05:45] Getting rid of your fear of investing [06:15] Last January was the worst opening, but it was a correction [06:45] You are losing money when you sell on corrections [06:55] Bear markets come every 5 years on average [07:10] The greatest opportunity for a millennial [07:40] Waiting for corrections to invest [08:05] Warren Buffet's advice for investors [08:55] If you miss the top 10 trading days a year... [09:25] Three different investor scenarios over a 20 year period [10:40] The best trading days come after the worst [11:45] Investing in the current world [12:05] What Clinton and Bush think of the current situation [12:45] The office is far bigger than the occupant [13:35] Information helps reduce fear [14:25] James's story of the billionaire
upset over another's wealth [14:45] What money really is [15:05] The story of Adolphe Merkle [16:05] The story of Chuck Feeney [16:55] The importance of the right mindset [17:15] What fuels Tony [19:15] Find something you care about more than yourself [20:25] Make your mission to surround yourself with the right people [21:25] Suffering made Tony hungry for more [23:25]
By feeding his mind, Tony found strength [24:15] Great ideas don't interrupt you, you have to pursue them [25:05] Never - ending hunger is what matters [25:25] Richard Branson is the epitome of hunger and drive [25:40] Hunger is the common denominator [26:30] What you can do starting right now [26:55] Success leaves clues [28:10] What it means to take massive action [28:30] Taking action commits you to following through [29:40] If you do nothing you'll learn nothing [30:20] There must be an
emotional purpose behind what you're doing [30:40] How does Tony ignite creativity in his own life [32:00] «How is not as important as «why» [32:40] What and why unleash the psyche [33:25] Breaking the habit of focusing on «how» [35:50] Deep Practice [35:10] Your desired outcome will determine your action [36:00] The difference between «what» and «why» [37:00] Learning how to chunk and group [37:40] Don't mistake movement for achievement [38:30] Tony doesn't negotiate with his mind [39:30] Change your thoughts and change your biochemistry [40:00] The bad habit of being stressed [40:40] Beautiful and suffering states [41:50] The most important decision is to live in a beautiful state no matter what [42:40] Consciously decide to take yourself out of suffering [43:40] Focus on appreciation, joy and love [44:30] Step out of suffering and find the solution [45:00] Dealing with mercury poisoning [45:40] Tony's process for stepping out of suffering [46:10] Stop identifying with thoughts — they aren't yours [47:40] Trade your expectations for appreciation [50:00] The key to life — gratitude [51:40] What is freedom for you?
• As early as the 1960s, Gordon & Gordon (cited
by Brockingon, 2004) found that involving the babies» fathers in a two - session ante-natal intervention that addressed the realities of postnatal experience, was more effective in preventing postpartum «
emotional upsets» than just working with the mothers
So began an
emotional rollercoaster and the
upset was exacerbated
by conflicting advice.
They sought to determine whether parents involved in the study (mostly mothers) shaped their children's later behavior
by offering food to make them feel better when they were
upset (
emotional feeding), and whether parents whose children were easily soothed
by food (those who calmed when given food) were more likely to offer them more food for comfort at a subsequent time.
«Our research adds to this knowledge
by showing that children who are more easily
upset are at highest risk for becoming
emotional eaters.»
«Heterosexual men really stand out from all other groups: they were the only ones who were much more likely to be most
upset by sexual infidelity rather than
emotional infidelity,» said David Frederick, Ph.D., and lead author on the study.
According to the findings, heterosexual men were more likely than heterosexual women to be most
upset by sexual infidelity (54 percent of men vs. 35 percent of women) and less likely than heterosexual women to be most
upset by emotional infidelity (46 percent of men vs. 65 percent of women).
The ENS may trigger big
emotional shifts experienced
by people coping with irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and functional bowel problems such as constipation, diarrhea, bloating, pain and stomach
upset.
Our findings mirror those of a study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior which examined
upset over sexual versus
emotional jealousy among 63,894 gay, lesbian, bisexual, and heterosexual participants.2 They were asked if they would be more hurt
by their partners having sex with someone else (but not falling in love with them) or their partners falling in love with someone else (but not having sex with them).
Being developmentally vulnerable in the
emotional maturity domain may mean children have problems managing aggressive behaviour, are easily distracted, usually not inclined to help others and get
upset when left
by a parent or carer.
Are you
upset by the
emotional distance between you and the people most important to you?
That is, a bisexual man may be more distressed
by his female partner's sexual infidelity than her
emotional infidelity, but if he is dating another man, a case of
emotional infidelity would likely
upset him more.
The actual statistics from the largest study on infidelity to date show that 54 % of men are most
upset by sexual infidelity (as compared to 35 % of women), and that 65 % of women are most
upset by emotional infidelity (as compared to 46 % of men).
When young men cheat, for example, it is often not because of lost love, but because they struggle to deal with competing desires for recreational sex and monogamy.3 In a large meta - analysis (which is a statistical summary of the results of many research studies), men and women were similarly
upset by emotional infidelity, more so than sexual infidelity.4 But what does infidelity really mean?
School refusal refers to severe
emotional upset experienced
by a child at the prospect of attending school that can result in significant school absence1.
Evolutionary psychologists have used this forced - choice paradigm to show that men are more
upset by sexual infidelity, while women are more distressed
by emotional infidelity.2
Emotional upsets,
by contrast, result from difficult or poorly - managed conflicts.
Instead of telling him how hurt and
upset you are, consider being on the quiet side and giving him the space to talk
by providing
emotional safety — no anger, judgment or tears.
Rather than allowing yourself to get
upset by the accountant's email, you can read it with
emotional awareness and pull the pertinent information from it.
Aggressive behaviour Conflict with peers and / or difficulty making and keeping friends Social withdrawal Tantrums and excessive / intense
emotional upsets Low mood or persistent sadness Frequent stomachaches, headaches or other physical complaints School refusal Reduced academic functioning and / or significant
upset at school Excessive accommodation
by parents Increased family stress