You have a better chance getting your partner to respond to these expressed
emotions than anger.
Not exact matches
In fact, if you're not protecting your consumers
than you may have another
emotion to deal with:
anger.
Anger is indeed a powerful
emotion that, left unchecked, can do considerable harm to the angry man himself no less
than to the objects of his wrath.
well i get where you come from but i wouldnt call it less passionate but more practical, i just do nt like to be butthurt ^ ^ i am fan of arsenal to enjoy the time i spend on football but if it ends in failures i try to get over its and be constructive about it, and i am not a fan of people who cant control their
anger pains and have to project their frustrations onto the people who could be held responsible but not in this scale, in my opinion of the society humans should be able to control their
emotions a bit and never stoop as low as to be abusive and i do think that a lot of comments on justarsenal were abusive and sorry but i do nt think of it as passionate an extreme example would be ultras you could call them muuuuch more passionate
than me but in my opinion they are just scum of football, but of course i do nt want to compare the JA - commenters to ultras xD i just tried to illustrate my opinion ^ ^
If you've witnessed examples of extreme, unresolved
anger for more
than two weeks, seek the help of a mental health professional who can provide one - on - one assistance and help your child work through these difficult
emotions.
Managing anxiety in order to tackle a big project, managing
anger to work through a marital conflict, managing fear to apply for a job — the ability of a human being to manage his or her
emotions in a healthy way will determine the quality of his life in a much more fundamental way
than his mental IQ.
Researchers discovered that we pay more attention when an
emotion (such as happiness, sadness or
anger) is expressed through vocalizations
than we do when the same
emotion is expressed in speech.
But, interestingly, they found that angry sounds and angry speech both produced ongoing brain activity that lasted longer
than either of the other
emotions, suggesting that the brain pays special attention to the importance of
anger signals.
More importantly, the researchers have also discovered that we pay more attention when an
emotion (such as happiness, sadness or
anger) is expressed through vocalizations
than we do when the same
emotion is expressed in speech.
Though Gattaca does an admirable job of creating a mood, it also raises the hope that one day, genetically - engineered screenwriters will dream up characters who can have more
emotions than happiness,
anger, fear, and surliness.
So the next time you feel
anger, rather
than taking it out on yourself through suppression, or on others through aggression, ask yourself what is the purpose of this generally unwelcome
emotion?
Inmates are more likely to be dealing with negative
emotions — anxiety, fear, despair,
anger, depression, and trauma —
than a practitioner not behind bars.
Human
emotion encompasses more
than extremes of grief, joy, romance, and
anger, which is about all most major Hollywood productions seem capable of conveying.
In I Take Up the Way of Letting Go of
Anger, Zen teacher Diane Eshin Rizzetto helps us look at how we relate to an emotion like anger and, rather than suppress it, she marks a clear pathway we can follow to awaken in its presence a
Anger, Zen teacher Diane Eshin Rizzetto helps us look at how we relate to an
emotion like
anger and, rather than suppress it, she marks a clear pathway we can follow to awaken in its presence a
anger and, rather
than suppress it, she marks a clear pathway we can follow to awaken in its presence and...
This is because «the right side of our faces can express
emotions more accurately and more intensely
than the left, including
anger.»
In Getting Over Mad, Judy Ford suggests that there is a healthier way to deal with
anger, identifying the pain at the heart of the
emotion and providing tools to deal with it in a way that aids intimacy rather
than hurting it.
The
anger, sadness, and other negative feelings that come with divorce can do more
than just create stress; these
emotions may also stretch out the divorce process.
Maternal minimizing / punitive responses were associated with maternal perceptions of children's low attentional control and high negative affect, as well as children's tendencies to escape rather
than vent
emotion when
angered.
Defend the practice of allowing the hurt partner to express
anger, insecurity, resentment, fear and feelings of rejection, rather
than down - regulating their expression of
emotion.
Research by James McNulty, Ph.D., of Florida State University indicates that honestly expressing difficult
emotions, such as
anger, may be healthier for a relationship
than simply showing forgiveness while still harboring resentful feelings.
Now, instead of leading with
anger, I can lead with my softer
emotions, and this brings my partner closer, rather
than makes my partner want to hide or defend.
As long as we can not accept all of our human experience, including the full gamut of human
emotions, from assertive
anger, to the pain of disappointment, from the sadness of loss, to our need for closeness, we will always fall short of realizing our most precious project: to become who we are, not more
than who we are.
Research performed by
emotion - focused psychologists Leslie Greenberg and Jeanne Watson, has actually found a greater connection between depression and
anger,
than depression and sadness.
While we can not control the
emotions that we experience, we can control our behaviors, and work to find appropriate and healing expressions of
anger, rather
than destructive ones.
Unfortunately, primary
emotions hang around longer
than secondary
emotions do because until we get to the primary
emotion causing the secondary emotional reaction, we can't resolve the source of the
anger.
Harboring feelings of
anger can cause more harm to you
than others, especially when your
emotions go unexpressed.
There are several goals in couples therapy: 1) understand how prior relationships provide the framework for how adults view self and partner in close relationships, and and how relationship patterns («the dance») occur; 2) create a secure relationship where partners are emotionally available, genuinely involved and responsive in a sensitive and caring way; 3) establish trust and a sense of safety and comfort, especially during difficult times and distressing
emotions («fight fair»), 4) change the dance — learn constructive communication and conflict - management skills so that partners respond to one another's needs and
emotions with empathy, understanding and support, rather
than with
anger, rejection or withdrawal; 5) experience a secure relationship with the therapist, who models attunement, support, self control, patience and appropriate boundaries.
Divorces will always involve some level of stress, but the real issues arise when the participants allow
emotions of pain,
anger, and anxiety to run the show, rather
than logic or common sense.
Do you react rather
than respond when communicating disappointment, frustration,
anger or another difficult
emotion?
Even if you're still frustrated after identifying your
emotions, you'll be better able to address the specific issues at hand rather
than allowing your
anger to dictate where your argument goes.
While we have not always found working on our marriage to be an easy or pleasant process (digging up painful
emotions and
anger) we have always felt that we were on the right track to making our marriage not only successful, but better
than most.
We hypothesised that patients with BN would show lower emotional regulation functioning, expressed by higher levels of positive
emotion and reduced
anger than healthy controls, which might improve after remission.
For
anger, mothers reportedly were the more active
emotion socializing agents; they used Reward, Magnify, and Override more
than did fathers.
In most Western countries, women are expected to express more internalizing
emotions like sadness and anxiety
than men, whereas men are expected to express more disharmonious
emotions (e.g.,
anger) that assert one's own interests over others» (Brody 2000; McIntyre and Pope Edwards 2009).
We were able to confirm our first hypotheses in that patients with BN did show higher levels of implicit positive
emotion and reduced implicit
anger than healthy controls, and BN recovered patients had an intermediate response.
Parents reported that they engaged in significantly less
emotion coaching for
anger, M = 19.53,
than for fear, M = 20.96, Wald χ 2 (1) = 3.62, p <.001, or for sadness, M = 20.96, Wald χ 2 (1) = 4.33, p <.001.
Although this finding was consistent across the AD and non-AD groups, it suggests that parents may find it more challenging to
emotion coach
anger than fear or sadness.
In particular,
anger played a more consistent role
than the other
emotions in aggressive behavior.
Similarly, both the AD, Wald χ 2 (1) = 6.46, p <.001, and non-AD groups, Wald χ 2 (1) = 4.33, p <.001, were significantly more likely to show
emotion regulation for
anger than sadness.
Both AD, M
anger = 17.84; Wald χ 2 (1) = 8.92, p <.001, and non-AD children, M
anger = 21.27; Wald χ 2 (1) = 3.92, p <.001, were significantly more likely to show
emotion regulation for
anger than fear.