I feared that this night marked
the end of nursing my baby.
Not exact matches
In the dark, in the wee hours, in the early light,
nursing in the corner
of the couch, the
end of an episode
of Gilmore Girls while the rest
of the house sleeps and I lightly pat a
baby's diapered bottom into blissful sleep.
It really is sad how
nurses who are not experts in this area
end up influencing so many
of our lives so severely with this - supplementing our
babies with formula.
At the
end of my pregnancy, I remember every night I would lay down for some quiet, cuddle time to
nurse Ava before bed, she would hold onto
baby (put her hand on my belly), and I would wonder if it would be our last night together just the two
of us before her
baby brother would join us.
You can continue to feed your
baby as much as you are able, and add in formula at the
end of every
nursing session.
Instead
of capturing that milk in a lightweight container, like the Haakaa, milk from the breast my
baby wasn't
nursing on
ended up all over my sheets.
Not only did I
end up
nursing my two oldest children much longer than expected, I also struggled greatly with the idea
of giving my
babies a bottle.
Gourley also notes that your
baby may be
nursing differently so their gums rub on your breast to help relieve teething pains, or one
of you may be breaking suction at the
end of a feed by just pulling your nipple out, which causes friction, instead
of releasing suction first.
Nursing, changing diaper, changing spit - up clothes (baby's and yours), made a cup of tea, spent an hour trying to get in 10 minutes of Tummy Time so the baby won't be a dolt, spent 40 minutes getting the baby down for a nap which ended up lasting 20 minutes, made lunch and spilled half of it on the baby's head, clothing changes all around, nursing, found now - cold cup of untouched tea and drank it anyway, more nursing, baby falls asleep on you but wakes up if you try to move him so you just stay slumped on the couch with one leg forward and the other bent uncomfortably under you because this kid needs to sleep or we'll all diiieeee, nursing, realize you forgot about the weekly mothers» meeting which was your only adult outing dammit and now who will be your
Nursing, changing diaper, changing spit - up clothes (
baby's and yours), made a cup
of tea, spent an hour trying to get in 10 minutes
of Tummy Time so the
baby won't be a dolt, spent 40 minutes getting the
baby down for a nap which
ended up lasting 20 minutes, made lunch and spilled half
of it on the
baby's head, clothing changes all around,
nursing, found now - cold cup of untouched tea and drank it anyway, more nursing, baby falls asleep on you but wakes up if you try to move him so you just stay slumped on the couch with one leg forward and the other bent uncomfortably under you because this kid needs to sleep or we'll all diiieeee, nursing, realize you forgot about the weekly mothers» meeting which was your only adult outing dammit and now who will be your
nursing, found now - cold cup
of untouched tea and drank it anyway, more
nursing, baby falls asleep on you but wakes up if you try to move him so you just stay slumped on the couch with one leg forward and the other bent uncomfortably under you because this kid needs to sleep or we'll all diiieeee, nursing, realize you forgot about the weekly mothers» meeting which was your only adult outing dammit and now who will be your
nursing,
baby falls asleep on you but wakes up if you try to move him so you just stay slumped on the couch with one leg forward and the other bent uncomfortably under you because this kid needs to sleep or we'll all diiieeee,
nursing, realize you forgot about the weekly mothers» meeting which was your only adult outing dammit and now who will be your
nursing, realize you forgot about the weekly mothers» meeting which was your only adult outing dammit and now who will be your friend?
When you
nurse from only one side, your
baby will get foremilk at the beginning
of the feeding and continue on that same side to get the high - calorie, filling hindmilk at the
end of the feeding.
And, when your
baby nurses longer, he'll be able to get to that creamier, higher - fat hindmilk at the
end of the feeding.
Nursing moms have formed a close bond with their babies that revolves around the nursing experience, and when that comes to an end, you may feel as though you're losing a part of your relationship with you
Nursing moms have formed a close bond with their
babies that revolves around the
nursing experience, and when that comes to an end, you may feel as though you're losing a part of your relationship with you
nursing experience, and when that comes to an
end, you may feel as though you're losing a part
of your relationship with your
baby.
It's best to leave your
baby's favorite
nursing session until the very
end of the partial weaning experience.
I once met another stay - at - home - mom who was at her wits
end, because she was
nursing her
baby every couple
of hours and pumping every hour after he was finished.
ROBIN KALPAN: For our Boob Group Club Members, our conversation will continue after the
end of the show as we will discuss: «How an over abundant milk supply can sometimes cause a
baby to go on a
nursing strike and how to overcome it.»
So that was a great visit it felt a little awkward at first because that lactation consultation its designed for little
babies, its designed for the new kids and here he was 10 months old and crawling but we still needed help and if I hadn't gone in it probably would've been the
end of our
nursing, I had to use ointments I had a lot like, it was really painful and uncomfortable.
I think for me the con was just when I was
nursing my girls and sometimes we did tandem
nursing, I wasn't one
of those who could do
nursing while
baby wearing so I would
end up taking one out and there was a lot
of transferring.
When I first had my
baby I stocked up on a bunch
of nursing bras and tops but after
nursing for a few months I
ended up just using the bras and saving the tops for either sleeping or days when I just didn't want to leave the house.
And when you pick up the
baby and
nurse at the
end of a work day, you and she are immediately a couple again.
(Tip: if you were making them switch breasts after a certain amount
of time, start letting the
baby decide (unlatch) when they're done with one breast and then switch sides, and / or start each
nursing session on the breast they finished with the last time, so they have a chance to get all the fatty milk that usually comes at the
end of a
nursing session.)
Or how my supply slowly dwindled from no
baby nursing and from mastitis from the incomplete emptying
of my breasts with even a high -
end hospital - grade pump.
The antenatal test showed that the
baby was fine, but the
nurse - midwife told me that my amniotic fluid was on the «low
end»
of the scale.
And there are those that don't want to take on the massive commitment
of nursing a
baby at all hours
of the day and night for months on
end.
Also be alert: Biting usually happens toward the
end of a feeding, so if you can tell that your
baby is almost finished
nursing, remove him from the breast before he clamps down.
Margaret would express and freeze all the milk left at the
end of her
nursing sessions, so that when the
baby was hungry and she wasn't available, Bob had a ready bottle
of breast milk on hand.
MARIE BISHOP: With my first he actually dealt with it really well considering that he was six weeks preemie I was kind
of shocked by that whereas my full term
baby she has a lot
of clicking and coughing and every once in a while a little bit
of choking and we mainly deal with it, just we do a lot
of side lane
nursing which is besides that I get to lay down but it is what it is I feel like I can't really control it's when the letdown comes and the other side I have to push my hand really hard on the other side or I'll
end up soaking myself because both sides are really strong
When we say that those flutter sucks at the
end of a
nursing session are «just pacifying,» we forget that a mother may have another «letdown» late in a feeding, and the
baby may get more milk.
Navon
ended her complaint with this statement: «Imagine — I am sitting and
nursing a
baby only days old, and two women are standing in front
of me discussing my «great hutzpah in
nursing a
baby in a public place.»»
I don't recommend trying to watch TV or play video games while
nursing (though I did beat FFXII with my oldest), because there's too much temptation to continue the feeding «just to the
end of this show / level» long after the
baby has stopped eating.
Oh and I missed lunch because I had to
nurse TWO
babies and lunch was served at the other
end of the floor for 20 minutes.]
I knew when I couldn't hear my
baby swallowing very much, he
ended nursing sessions very quickly and after a few minutes I felt the * lovely * chafing sensation
of him «dry
nursing.»
Thanks so much for sharing this, I thought I was the only one who has had these ups and downs and couldn't find anyone who has
nursed as long as I have or didn't absolutely love it every day (most days it's my saving grace;) my «
baby» is 3 and shows no signs
of stopping at this point... this helps me realize that there is still joy and a light at the
end of the tunnel!!
Still, rest assured that your
baby is not going to
end up drunk if you have a few glasses
of eggnog before
nursing her to sleep.
When affection is withheld from
baby, when they're regularly left to cry alone, when the bonding act
of nursing is absent, we
end up with far more children with learning and behavior problems.
I was scolded (lovingly) by the lactation consultant at the hospital at the
end of my
baby's first day because I had only attempted to
nurse twice.
While the
end of maternity leave marks a transitional period for mother and
baby, a strong
nursing relationship can be maintained by carefully preparing for this changed and remaining dedicated to the desire to nourish
baby with mother's milk.
One
of my friends not only brought food and a gift, but she called from the drugstore to see if I needed anything (indeed, I did need
nursing pads for those leaky boobs no one warned me about) and started putting away all
of the odds and
ends that belonged in the
baby's closet that I couldn't reach because
of my c - section.
At the
end of your child's bedtime routine, rock or
nurse your
baby until he or she is drowsy, and then put your
baby into the crib before he or she dozes off in your arms.
I know that if I had listened to the lactation consultant, I would have HAD to stop
nursing, because it was either I get the
baby's weight up, or he winds up in the hospital, and that would have been the
end of any hope
of getting my
nursing back on track.
I have no way to really know if that wouldn't have happened if they had left me alone, but I was no longer able to move, it was harder to manage my pain, I
ended up on drips
of pitocin which made the pain worse, I started having trouble staying relaxed and breathing, and next thing you know it was teams
of hysterical
nurses rushing in over drops in
baby's heart rate and signing a consent form for a C Section.
For some
babies that may
end up being every 3 hours, but for some they may
nurse every couple
of hours in the daytime, then evening comes they cluster feed eating every hour, then at night sleep 5 hours.
Glider chairs offer the ideal solution for
nursing mothers, whether for feeding
baby, having a quiet cuddle or simply relaxing at the
end of the day.
«The Last Drop: Grieving the
End of Breastfeeding» by Sierra Godfrey If you have any similar
nursing stories, why not share them with us and help encourage more mums to breastfeed and support those who
nurse their
babies.
What I
ended up doing was a combination
of a) having my caregiver bring the
baby to me; b) bringing the
baby to work when possible (I was lucky that it worked with my schedule and my bosses were amenable to the idea); and c)
nursing a lot when I was not working.
The most my body would make was 1 oz at a time... a total
of a whopping 2 oz pumped in one day — and, oh yes,
baby was
nursing a minimum
of every two hours and I was pumping after
nursing and we saw a lactation consultant (good latch, good sucking, etc - no probs on that
end).
Unfortunately, some new moms who have every intention
of nursing their
babies end up switching to formula within the first few weeks
of their
babies» lives.
Instead
of waiting until after your
baby is born to purchase your
nursing bras, you should actually purchase your
nursing bras towards the
end of the third trimester.
I
ended up with an ovarian blood clot at 4 days PP (rare complication), was being assessed in the ER literally as my milk was coming in, supplemented with formula almost immediately because I was so pumped full
of drugs I could not coordinate
nursing a little tiny sleepy
baby, suffered from low supply due to the meds I was put on for my blood clot, did kangaroo care for hours and hours every day for weeks on
end, shared sleep, took herbal supplements, pumped frequently,
nursed almost constantly, hand expressed the milk into her mouth at every feeding because she was too sleepy to latch well, struggled with massive guilt......................
«And you still look like Jennifer Aniston at the
end of your fantasy, when you grip your partner's hand, smile at the doctors and
nurses in the sterile room, and push your
baby out into the world.
It's a fantastically efficient system: By the time a second
baby arrives, a mother no longer has the luxury (ok, probably not the right word)
of never -
ending nursing sessions.