While transitioning an hour into labor I did sign to get
an epidural because I thought with first baby this labor was going to last 12 hours and I couldn't take the pain for that long.
Some women are unable to choose
epidural because of spinal injury and IV pain medications can be ruled out due to allergies or addition problems in the past.
Later, several people even speculated about whether I got
an epidural because my provider pressured me, I was not allowed to labor at home, or I didn't get to relax in a whirlpool.
My mom has had two very easy births and one «sunny - side up» one where she got
an epidural because she wasn't progressing due to the pain.
Women were sometimes disappointed not to have experienced
an epidural because they were too advanced in labour.
He said the headache wasn't from the botched
epidural because I wouldn't be able to sit up if it was.
I gave birth without
an epidural because pain meds and anesthesia in the past has made me really sick and feel awful for days.
I've always thought I couldn't do it without
an epidural because my pain tolerance is pathetic but after your story, I think I'm more open to trying to push through as long as possible.
Needing
an epidural because you've been in physical agony for hours and you just can't take it anymore is traumatic — because you were in agony for hours, not because you got the epidural.
The contractions were very strong at this point and when I did get checked, the nurse asked me if I was planning on getting
an epidural because if I was then it was too late!
I was determined not to have
an epidural because I was more afraid of the epidural than the pain of child birth.
Good thing I had
an epidural because otherwise I can not vouch for what I would have done in that hormonal state.
So you would be happier if doctors did not offer choices, but required all their patients to have
epidurals because that's what they would want?
Not exact matches
I couldn't feed him right away,
because they had topped up my
epidural so much that I could barely speak or keep my eyes open.
This is good news
because epidurals, despite having made labor more bearable for scores of women, have their pitfalls: they can lead to prolonged labor and an increase in vacuum and forceps deliveries.
This feeling that you were less of a woman
because you had an
epidural has simply got to stop.
I now recommend the book, «Natural Birth the Bradley Way» to all my pregnant friends, even those planning on an
epidural,
because it has by far the best descriptions of what to expect from labor that I found (had not come across Birthing from Within), as well as offering techniques for managing early labor which are helpful all the way through, or pre-epi if that's the option someone has chosen.
I'm certainly not saying that
epidurals don't have their place or that nobody should have one, but I think one should educate one's self before taking on the risks that are involved in receiving one and not get it just
because that's what «everybody» does.
Because my baby was presenting back to back and I was made to lie flat on my back for many hours, I felt completely unable to cope and accepted an
epidural, which I have never regretted (though I realize it could have contributed to the many complications that later occurred).
Other pain relief methods exist, but the
epidural is generally the preferred method
because it presents the fewest risks to the baby while leaving the mother alert.
Is there an «informed consent» for women who enter a hospital to birth regarding Pitocin, AROM,
epidurals, catheters, the 5:00 PM C Section
because your provider wants to go home?
Had to get one
because of my
epidural.
Rupturing your membranes also puts you on a clock, has a greater chance of cord prolapse meaning emergency, increases your risk of infection and takes away your baby's buffer to the strong contractions caused by Pitocin, your
epidural can slow labor, making you unable to move and / or push effectively, doesn't allow for proper fetal descent, you will most likely have a catheter placed to your bladder, increasing risk of bladder infections, and if all else fails, at 5PM, you will have a C / S at 5PM before your baby gets too tired or sick to continue laboring (
because the doctor is tired of waiting).
Drugs she needs mostly due to unnecessary interventions like induction...
Because of the
epidural, the woman hardly feels the contractions, contractions slow down, more drugs... which leads to more pain killers and many times to a c - section.
My birth was nothing like I had hoped, labored in bed on my back
because they couldn't monitor the babies if I moved, had to have pitocin and later an
epidural (I could stand the pitocin, it was the fact that no one does a breach delivery any more that, just in case Twin B didn't turn after Twin A was born), puking in the operating room
because I couldn't even have a single drop of water on my tongue while laboring strapped down (talk about understanding what hell is like!)
Many women who have home births get transferred to a hospital anyway, usually
because the labour is taking too long or
because they need pain medication such as an
epidural.
My daughter is alive
because she had jaundice and I was so out of it dealing with a botched
epidural which resulted in them tapping my spinal fluid.
So, after a 20 hour labour with pethidine and the stitch - up from hell (1 1/4 hours of stitching with a local anaesthetic that didn't work, and no
epidural available
because it was «out of hours» - women in that situation are not seen as a high priority for pain relief!)
My partner knew me well enough to know that I was refusing an
epidural not
because it's what I really wanted, but
because it's what I thought I had to do.
Epidurals are not available in birth centers
because these centers have a philosophy that natural childbirth is the best option and drugs can affect the fetus.
The idea of someone telling me I didn't bond as well with my babies
because I had an
epidural is offensive.
To those women who haven't really given birth
because they've had a C - section, to those women who gave in to the pain and got an
epidural, to anyone who doesn't understand that only breastfed babies are truly bonded to their mothers...
I had someone claim that my inability to initially bond with my child directly after he was born, was
because I had an
epidural and not a drug - free birth.
Of course they give in and get an
epidural at the drop of a hat
because they don't realize that there's a difference between good pain and bad pain.
She views
epidurals as disempowering
because they limit movement and sensation, yet there are many women who find them empowering
because they eliminate pain.
My sister had a really rough recovery after her first birth
because of the
epidural (headache so severe she had to say flat on her back).
it's that it CONCENTRATES the crazy and turns into a contest to see who is the most hardcore - so maybe you are a reasonable person who is afraid of needles and would like to avoid an
epidural, so you google unmedicated childbirth, and you find a message board, and before you know it, you're delivering your baby while swinging from a trapeze over a bed of knives
because you trust birth that much and everyone else is a big fat poser.
Also,
because contractions are so much more painful, the need for an
epidural (anesthesia to numb the pelvic area) increases.
Some women have more trouble with this
because of the
epidural medications and numbing or
because of damage done to the bladder with the bladder catheter.
Why do you conclude that her c - section was only necessary
because of the induction and unsuccessful
epidural?
And I think the reason
epidurals can be a problem is
because of midwives who insist pain is good for you.
This might as well have been written by a blogger at age of autism
because the understanding of anything related to
epidurals is just as poor as the understanding of science in general.
Even Rixa Freeze once said that the reason she gives birth at home is
because she knows that if she were at a hospital she'd ask for an
epidural,
because, you know, that the absolute worse thing that can happen.
I want an
epidural, but I know now that I don't want anything like Demerol
because of the effect it had on me during my first daughter's birth.
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Because labor may have progressed so much that getting an
epidural just isn't a possibility.
A failed
epidural (or the denial of an
epidural is frightening to a mom in labor
because many women hold on to the hope of an
epidural to give sweet relief — physically and mentally.
I am strong
because my
epidural stopped working when it became time to push at 30 + plus hours, and I had all back labor with the baby posterior.
While I believe giving birth should be a natural experience (
because of the number of unnecessary inductions for convenience, Pitocin augmentation that led to early
epidural that ended with a C - S for failure to progress) I would have to say that the thought of an unassisted birth at home is the scariest thing I have heard lately.
I am Strong
because I had two extremely intense contractions during the administering of the
epidural, but managed to stay still enough with the help of my husband so as to not incur any nerve damage.
I am strong
because after 32 hours of labor, I decided to get an
epidural even though it was against my birth plan.