I think for a lot of us raised in the romantic West, if we don't feel «chemistry» when we first meet a new man,
especially via online dating, then we pretty much write off the date.
Some of these differences include: the ability to search from a deep pool of potential partners outside of one's existing social networks; the ability to communicate
online or
via email prior to arranging for a face - to - face interaction; and matching algorithms that allow users to filter potential partners based on pre-existing criteria.3 Other research has indicated that the efficiency of
online dating and the size of the potential
dating pool compared with traditional methods make the process
especially useful for people (such as gays and lesbians, or middle aged heterosexuals) who may have limited options for meeting people within their immediate geographic area or social circle.4 Still others have speculated that the rise of
online dating has encouraged young adults,
especially men, to forego marriage because they can always find women to
date and that lowers their interest in committing to long term relationships.5
Similarly, college graduates and the relatively affluent are
especially likely to say that they know someone who has met a spouse or long - term partner
via online dating — and once again, nearly every major demographic group is more likely to know someone who has done this compared with eight years ago.