His «magic ratio» is five positives for every negative,
even during a disagreement.
As Gottman puts it, health couples find ways to repair and build their relationship —
even during disagreement.
It's about acknowledging the bid and responding through respect, which can happen successfully
even during disagreement.
Witnessing conversations that cover deeply emotional topics while maintaining mutual respect
even during disagreements
Not exact matches
You begin by coming from those rights and discussing within those rights what a safe environment looks, sounds and feels like; what a respectful environment looks, sounds and feels like; and what it feels and sounds like to have a learning environment where we support one another — and that includes everything from noise level to reasonable sharing
during class discussion and
even allowing healthy
disagreement.
I do believe the sisters cared very deeply for each other, as only siblings can,
even during the times of
disagreement and discord.
Confirming an important point conceded by Deputy SG
during last Term's oral arguments, the Government's Gall brief states repeatedly that policy
disagreements with the Guidelines can be a valid basis for a variance —
even though many circuit have held otherwise (like the Tenth Circuit in a split ruling yesterday) and
even though many lower court briefs filed by the Government have argued otherwise.
Whether you're arguing over chores or fighting about finances, the ways you and your partner talk (and listen) to each other
during disagreements is
even more important than the topics that trigger them.
For example, when couples are «hostile» toward one another, there's a good chance that any recent wounds (
even everyday cuts and abrasions) will take longer to heal than if partners maintain a more civil and responsive tone with one another
during disagreements or other conversations.1 On the other hand, good relationships, and not just those we have with our romantic partners, generally benefit our overall health.
It turns out that these fights —
even the small snarl - free ones — can take their toll on us, and how couples behave
during disagreements matters,
even on the cellular level.
Even when upset or angry, happy couples tend to work hard to respect their partner, have a sense of humor, and listen to a different point of view
during a
disagreement.
By restructuring and refocusing toxic communication patterns, and by learning the importance of maintaining loving connection
even during periods of
disagreement, hostile communication can be minimized, and differences of perspective can
even become a springboard for
even greater appreciation and respect for oneanother.