He has found that
even good attachment repair techniques won't work for a couple if there's not a good friendship bond in the background.
Not exact matches
A break in one connection, such as
attachment to a stable community, puts pressure on other connections: marriage, the relationship between parents and children, religious affiliation, a feeling of connection with the past,
even citizenship, that sense of membership in a large community which grows
best when it is grounded in membership in a small one.
Over a 35 - year period, the Minnesota Longitudinal Study of Risk and Adaption (MLSRA) revealed that the quality of the early
attachment reverberated
well into later childhood, adolescence, and adulthood,
even when temperament and social class were accounted for.
Whether you're drawing inspiration for your own style from
attachment parenting, free range parenting, or
even helicopter parenting, you can feel confident that you're settling into what works
best for you.
I have one La Leche League leader and mentor in particular who I kind of go to for all things
even beyond breastfeeding, and she's sort of my
attachment parenting,
well, everything.
Nurturing touch is not only powerful in the beginning chemistry of
attachment, including bonding and breastfeeding, but also in gently moving
even the most obstinately detached parents toward an
attachment - based family dynamic — courtesy of oxytocin, the hormone responsible for that intoxicating feel -
good state of mind that comes with Kangaroo Care.
There are huge correlations between a child's
attachment style in that first year and what they'll be like in kindergarten, how
well they'll get along at camp with peers,
even how likely that child is to graduate or drop out of high school.
The
Attachment Parenting Movement has grown up with the technology able to demonstrate that children's brain development depends on the consistently loving interactions between parent and child, as
well as the technology able to provide education and support to
even the most rural of households.
Editor's note: This post was originally published on Oct. 24, 2008, but it echoes a sentiment many
Attachment Parenting parents have heard from
well - meaning friends, family members and
even strangers to take some time away from our infants and toddlers, without realizing that ample presence with our children may be exactly what gives us balance.
The
good news is, I've seen plenty of different spacings that work out really
well for each family,
even attachment parents.
Psychologists who have studied
attachment have found that when human kids have that same kind of licking and grooming - style bonding with their parents, especially in the first year of life, it gives them all sorts of psychological strength, confidence [and] character that, when they reach school age and
even into adulthood, will make a huge difference in how
well they do.»
These sets usually include a carrier as
well as other useful items, like a hood, blanket, drool pad, zipper pocket, and sometimes
even extra
attachments that can allow you to convert your carrier to something else.
A child who has been co sleeping for too long may
even develop such an
attachment to sleeping in the same bed with you that staying in the same room with you isn't going to be
good enough.
It helped me have the courage to stay true to my
attachment - parenting instincts in the face of skepticism and
even criticism, and my now 10 - year - old extremely
well - adjusted daughter thankfully proves me right.
I remember reading a chapter about that once... the writer said that it's
even harder for those of us who identify ourselves as
attachment parents, those of us who've read all of those books and who've talked with our friends about wanting to be the
best parent possible.
There's the same emotional
attachment to individual teachers and local schools,
even the ones that don't work very
well, so the governor's attacks make people feel protective.»
Even better, there are six different
attachments for regular floor use, pet hair, fabric and furniture, dusting, brushing away tough messes, and getting into tight spaces.
Even better, the authors also provide useful action plans to help people build emotional strength no matter what their
attachment style.
Of course, we also see more in each of the other characters: Peeta (Josh Hutcherson) has learned to play to his audience and is so
good at it that he
even surprises Haymitch (Woody Harrelson); Haymitch continues to show a facility for diplomacy and pragmatism, as
well as growing
attachment to his charges; and
even Effie's (Elizabeth Banks) cheerful façade begins to crack.
Bousdoukos (who co-wrote the script) enters the film as an amiable slob with a vague
attachment to a business that has become a matter of routine, but
even as he makes plans to join his journalist girlfriend in China, where she has jumped as a choice opportunity, the transformation of his business from a glorified cafeteria with sleepy clientele to a social of young patrons, energetic music and magnificent cuisine (courtesy of a mad - dog chef with a tendency to end conversations with a
well - thrown knife) stirs a new passion in him.
Even in schools that make forthright efforts to teach students
good social skills, there is a premium on what can be thought of as «vocational citizenship» — with its emphasis on learning socially desirable behaviors not as part of an
attachment to community or nation but for the practical benefits they will provide to the individual student.
Our findings on school
attachment provide another important lesson for school leaders, policy makers, and
even survey designers — namely, that students are the
best evaluators of school climate.
yes because black ops have alot more stuff in the game, and the gameplay is
good enouph to have fun, but the problem in this game is the weapons, i don't feel that they choosed the right weapons, only few weapons are
good, i mean the weapons not the
attachment or perks or anything else... they should put more weapons, it will be alot
better if they put weapons, i
even going to buy the dlc if it have weapons and they should put the old maps in cod 4 for free, they are the
best maps in cod (in my opinion)... i didn't play the single player, i still don't want too, i just want to play the multiplayer:)..
Would be
even better if you could start one that would explain the rankings and xp required to unlock perks and
attachments.
Each of the games were noted to play
better, not require the annoying circle pad pro
attachment, and
even allowed for us to find ourselves laying back in 3D while never once losing enjoyment of the systems newly implemented 3D upgrades.
Even better, ask your parents about installing a bidet
attachment.
Another responded that the expected document review rates on projects he had worked on were
well above 100 per hour,
even on «the most difficult cases» and «regardless of
attachments.»
Even if you do use DokDok to search your inbox for email
attachments, it's still a
good idea to download and store copies of the documents that you have sent back and forth.
In short, they're
attachments sold separately from the phone that connect through the Z2 Play (or any other Moto Z)'s magnetic pins and add functionality like a
better camera or
even a gamepad.
So if your emailed resume or CV has a filename that's unclear at
best or incomprehensible at worst, recruiters aren't going to bother spending
even 6 seconds on it, and if they do actually download the
attachment, they're more likely to overlook it later.
If your emailed resume or CV has a filename that's unclear at
best or incomprehensible at worst, recruiters aren't going to bother spending
even 6 seconds on it, and if they do actually download the
attachment, they're more likely to overlook it later.
Even better, the authors also provide useful action plans to help people build emotional strength no matter what their
attachment style.
Focusing on the subtleties of adult
attachment and secure functioning, as
well as skillful use of countertransference, can help
even the most «difficult» couples learn to function in the here and now in a fair, friendly, and mutual way.
(3) Early accounts emphasized the need for selective
attachments to develop during a relatively brief sensitivity period with the implication that
even good parenting that is provided after that watershed is too late.
Sroufe has found that
even though these children lead unstable lives, if they had a secure mother - infant
attachment they were likely to be self - reliant into adolescence, have lower rates of psychopathology, enjoy successful peer relationships through age 16 and do
well in school - especially in math - at all ages.
The approach is linked with important developmental advantages, like the forging of secure
attachment relationships, stronger social skills, and maybe
even better self - control.
Some of the genuinely
good pop - psychology fun comes from essays on such topics as Dobby and self - mutilation; Lord Voldemort and antisocial personality disorders; the romantic
attachment styles of Ron, Harry, and Hermione; and, yes,
even Harry Potter therapy (step - by - step instruction on «learning to cast positive spells of thought instead of negative»).
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and
Attachment Theory recognize that couples are often doing the
best they can to be emotionally attached to each other
even in the midst of conflict and disconnection.
Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) recognize that in our relationships, many of us are often doing the
best that we can to be close and attached to each other
even in the midst of conflict and disconnection.
As adults in romantic relationships, it is not uncommon for people with this
attachment style to withdraw from the relationship,
even if it is going
well.
Even though most of us do «the
best we can» and most parents have their children's
best interest in mind, this third of all parents suggests that their own history of non-optimal
attachment - of having non-attuned caregiving as their early set of experiences - is being passed on to their own children.
I was driven to try to understand why parents who made sense of memories of
even horrible child
attachment experiences in their early life were proven in research studies to have relationships with their own children that were secure and their children did
well.
And most psychologists have leaned toward specialization in their own past practices, which also discounts their «expertise» as a know - everything generalist and means that for the most part they are little
better than laypersons — a few courses in graduate school do not an expert make in substance abuse, domestic violence, parenting capacity (or
even what constitutes «
good parenting»), child sex abuse, family systems, psychometric testing, infant
attachment, personality disorders, child development, breastfeeding, sibling relationships, child education, medical decision - making, communications, marital relations, and so forth.
And (6)
even if these predictions can be confirmed, it is theoretically, as
well as empirically, not clear, if the
attachment to the romantic partner suffers from the
attachment bonds to the siblings depending on sibling type (i.e., the
attachment to the romantic partner is strongest to the non-twin siblings, but less strong to DZ and MZ twins; MZ < DZ < NT).
Results of hierarchical multiple regressions indicated that sibling
attachment uniquely influenced conflict and cooperation in the sibling relationship
even after controlling for the effects of
attachment to mothers, fathers and peers, as
well as the reported warmth between siblings.
In other words, effective emotional regulation, promoted by a mother who is able to mentalize
even in conditions of increased arousal as
well as in the context of negative and ambivalent mental states, mediates the relationship between
attachment security and mentalization ability.
It has capacity for extra memory and
attachments, as
well as a color screen that's readable
even under direct sun.