Children need to believe in themselves and to develop the self - confidence required to become successful leaders, but if you gush every time they put pen to paper or kick a ball (the «
everyone gets a trophy» mentality), this creates confusion and false confidence.
As noted in a Fortune article, this isn't about coddling the «
everyone gets a trophy» generation.
«I want to play and show everyone that I can help the team and I want to win trophies and help
everyone getting trophies and get a good season.»
Today, we don't want to hurt any child's fragile feelings so
everyone gets a trophy.
Sounds to me more like the «
everyone gets a trophy even though we're not competitive» syndrome, to which I do not subscribe.
But this isn't a lovey - dovey «
everyone gets a trophy» party.
The idea that
everyone gets a trophy is nice in theory but it's not reality.
Not exact matches
One of the NFLs stronger arguments could be that the prejudice against concussions is actually a symptom of participation
trophy culture where
everyone gets a healthy brain - by coddling our kids mental health we're actualy doing them a disservice and leaving them ill - equipped for the real world when their brains eventually stop working altogether.
I read or hear people saying we should respect him like hes a world leader or he discovered the cure for AIDS or maybe hes feeding
everyone in Africa, this man was paid for doing his job unlike we the fans, no one has paid me or any of your for supporting the team all we ask for is good football that brings
trophy and that is difficult to
get these days from Arsenal.
mistakes are made by
everyone else but him, he is perfect and deserves the salary he
gets without delivering a single EPL title for 14 years, let alone the real men's
trophy..
In an interview he said he chose Arsenal coz Arsenal gives chances to youngsters,
everyone comes coz they can play, grow then leave to
get trophies somewhere alse, they don't say I chose Arsenal coz they win
trophies and I wan na be part of that.
I personally think fans respect of wenger is at an all time low, we will do the usual be in the top 6/7 by jan, buy a panic buy,
get fourth and
everyone's happy, there will be hundreds of rumours in the summer transfer window and we will be here again, until wenger leaves this is the cycle, we need to be aware players like Sanchez want to compete for
trophies, he wasn't extatic with just the FA cup, if this carries on he will leave and I for one won't blame him.
When Samuel commented on why it was wrong to sell Lucas Perez you brought up stats between Walcott and Perez and in that you proved using the stats why Walcott is better.If Wenger didn't have blond love for some of his players then why did he keep benching Perez when he was performing yet the average guys always
got a look in the squad.So if there are stats which prove Walcott is better aren't there stats which also prove Perez is better?Think about that.You also said Perez is not as good as some of us make out.The funny thing is yesterday we had an argument on Giroud and I also tried to imply that Giroud is not as good as we make out and you opposed.You always kept bringing stats up to defend him.Do you know if Bendtner or Chamakh had scored 25 goals for Arsenal in any season they'd still have been regarded as average.You know why?Because quality has nothing to do with stats and is just a kind pf talent or state.It seems to me that you think you know it all.You also denied the fact that Wenger likes French players and that if Perez was French he wouldn't have been out in one season stating other players as examples.It seems to me that you deny things which are clear for
everyone to see.If you think you know better than
everyone go and teach Wenger how to win the
trophy this season.
maybe you don't understand that Wenger's words are simply an attempt to recover some of the market value that was lost due to the way they have mishandled his contract negotiations, which means that
everyone, once again, knows that we have little to no leverage when it comes to negotiating a transfer... much like we did with RVP, when we sold the EPL
trophy to ManU for less than $ 25 million... any reputable team with a sporting director would never have allowed this situation to occur again and if they had heads would roll... if handled correctly the worst case scenario would have seen us
get a minimum of $ 65 million for a player of his ilk in the present economic climate and we could have used those funds to purchase the best available striker in the early days of the transfer window... just imagine what outsiders must think about the state of our team if all you did was read the headlines... sadly, things might just might be worse than they think
Like I said its time to stop the in house arguing, of which I am also guilty of, and collectively
get behind the team and manager, this can be used as a major reason to kick on now, an «us against
everyone» mentality could be just the tonic to see us make a fight for
trophies.
This year, with the Time's Up campaign in full swing and the Women's March events happening this weekend, the SAG Awards decided to quietly make a statement of its own by having women present all of the awards, creating a casually political vibe that
everyone who
got on stage seemed refreshingly comfortable with (right down to Morgan Freeman pointing out that the SAG
trophy is clearly a specific gender).
It has become commonplace to complain about youth sports where kids play without keeping score and
everyone gets a participation
trophy.
Now that they are on tv
everyone will want to be a espots pro soon is going to be cod all over
getting xgames
trophy's because you can use aim assist while a true athlete that trained for years
gets kicked to the curb.