Again, it's important to remember that the adoptee's adoption
experience as an adoptee is separate than that of the child being adopted.
It is stronger to me than DNA, our shared
experience as adoptees.
Marikathryn has a lifetime of adoption
experience as an adoptee through closed adoption and as a birthmother who placed a child through open adoption in 1993.
Again, it's important to remember that the adoptee's adoption
experience as an adoptee is separate than that of the child being adopted.
From
my experiences as an adoptee, my suggestion would be to make it feel safe for your adopted child to ask questions and to deserve answers as a worthy human being.
Not exact matches
I wanted to talk about how much I have learned from reading the writings of adult
adoptees, and how their
experiences of loss and isolation inform me
as a parent, and also break my heart.
As a transracial Korean
adoptee, Robyn's personal participation in post-adoption services including teen groups, mentor & mentee programs, living abroad in Korea, navigating birth family search & reunion
experiences, and DNA testing have all deeply influenced and informed much of her professional perspectives.
As an
adoptee in the closed era of adoption, I've always listened intently when birthparents talk about their
experiences via open adoption.
Grade school kids are led by a team of adult
adoptees who bring with them years of
experience in the adoption community
as well
as experience leading youth groups.
Expat
Adoptee Mommy The author of a memoir about about her adoption and reunion writes about her
experiences as an ex-pat mother.
It is refreshing to hear from someone who had wonderful
experiences both
as an adoptive parent and an
adoptee.
Playfully approaching the grand canyons of personal trauma and the emotional ruptures of global adoption politics through popping aural ellipses and jarring jump cuts, Jensen deftly handles a sensitive issue, based on her own
experience as a Danish
adoptee returning to South Korea to find her birth mother.
However, if you are nervous about a reunion situation happening with your adoptive child (which I don't blame you, and can be hard for the
adoptee, adoptive parents and birthparents and I personally didn't want to
experience that with my children
as an adoptive mom either), having a closed adoption does not help prevent that from happening, having an open adoption does.
Viewing the question this way, there are some awesome first parents and
adoptees (
as well
as adoptive parents) giving voice to their own
experiences with OA.
Finally,
adoptees were classified
as experiencing contextual environmental risk using the presence of two or more adverse factors in the adoptive home (e.g., adoptive parent psychopathology)
as the cutoff.