Not exact matches
He saw how the values
of a culture, as these are incarnated in the attitudes and behavior
of parents, are internalized
by children as they
experience these values in the rewards punishment, praise - blame responses
of their
parents.
Some people, including pastors and other church people, may be reluctant to raise the issue
of children's
experience of divorce because they don't want to add to the guilt or shame felt
by divorced
parents.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on discipline and advice; to allow a child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and disciplining (negatively), since the child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interes
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere
of mutual respect; to communicate on levels
of fun and recreation as well as on discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is,
by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to
experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment
of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold
of what the
parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the
parents know and do well and are interes
parents know and do well and are interested in.
Etiologically speaking, the
parent who does not feel accepted,
by himself and others, is unable to give his
child the warm, vital
experience of being accepted.
For example, when a
parent structures his perceptual field
by being attuned to a possible cry from a new - born
child, the infant is the source
of the physical, causally efficacious feelings
of the
parent's
experience.
In certain forms
of Christianity, it is similar to the groveling
experience of a
child who is driven back to a harsh
parent by an intense fear
of abandonment To be healing, reconciliation must be like the
experience of the Prodigal who comes to himself in a breakthrough
of self - awareness and realizes that the
parent's love has never left him, even in the far country
of rebellion.
TRIP REPORTS: Trip reports are first - hand accounts
of travel
experiences provided
by parents who've traveled with their young
children.
Turned off
by the alienation that many
of us
experienced as babysat, latchkey, single -
parented kids
of the 1970s and»80s, my generation is choosing to raise our
children differently
by attempting to integrate family, professional and social life into one seamless web.
As the
parent of a
child who has received a Montessori education, I'm amazed
by his growth and the way he has been shaped
by his
experiences.
It is up to
parents to do whatever they can to make sure that their
child's coach does not continue to convey the message to athletes that there will be negative consequences to concussion reporting
by removing them from a starting position, reducing future playing time, or inferring that reporting concussive symptoms made them «weak», but, instead, creates an environment in which athletes feel safe in honestly self - reporting
experiencing concussion symptoms or reporting that a teammate is displaying signs
of concussion (and reinforcing that message at home)
Children are most influenced
by the people around them,
by their
experience and they spend most
of their time with their
parents.
I had the honor
of being guided through this
experience by Mary Hartzell, a longtime early childhood educator whose approach acknowledges the toll
of this
experience, often more for the
parent than
child.
But with increasing dissatisfaction over the high - stakes testing currently consuming mainstream education; the growing recognition
of the many benefits a
child receives through
experiences with art, movement, and nature; a concern over a reliance on technology
by younger and younger students; and the news that leaders in the high - tech industry are touting the lifelong benefits
of low - tech Waldorf schools in educating their own
children, more and more
parents and educators are taking a closer look at the Waldorf approach and what it has to offer.
Don't Start Too Early «The idea that
parents should hurry reading, spelling, writing, or math ahead
of children's normal development is not supported
by a single replicable research study in the world or
by any clinical
experience in history...» - so read this to find out what you should do, when and how to start.
-- Discover what eurythmy reveals about human development — Work your way through the development
of the
child by means
of exercises appropriate to each developmental phase — See how the Waldorf curriculum comes to life through movement and gesture — Learn about the interplay between eurythmy and academic
experiences — Acquire the language and understanding to talk about eurythmy to Waldorf
parents in a valuable way — Work, play, laugh, and have fun!
Linden Waldorf School's Buttercup
Parent /
Child Playgroup is a treasured
experience for families where young
children — accompanied
by a caregiver and guided
by a Waldorf teacher — enjoy a rhythmic morning
of song, movement, organic snacks, storytelling, puppetry, nature walks, and free play.
These benefits include but are not limited to the power
of the human touch and presence,
of being surrounded
by supportive people
of a family's own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment
of home, feeling less inhibited in expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions
of comfort, being intimate with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired, expressing or practicing individual cultural, value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all
of which can lead to easier labors and births, not having to make a decision about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use
of the cascade
of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include
children (who are making their own adjustments and are less challenged
by a lengthy absence
of their
parents and excessive interruptions
of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood
of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and birth
experience.
A longitudinal study
by the National Institute
of Child Health and Human Development concluded in 2007 that «although parenting was a stronger and more consistent predictor of children's development than early child ‐ care experience, higher quality care predicted higher vocabulary scores and more exposure to center care predicted more teacher ‐ reported externalizing prob
Child Health and Human Development concluded in 2007 that «although
parenting was a stronger and more consistent predictor
of children's development than early
child ‐ care experience, higher quality care predicted higher vocabulary scores and more exposure to center care predicted more teacher ‐ reported externalizing prob
child ‐ care
experience, higher quality care predicted higher vocabulary scores and more exposure to center care predicted more teacher ‐ reported externalizing problems.
Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy principally involves PLACE - creating a Playful, Loving, Accepting, Curious, and Empathic environment in which the therapist and
parent attune to the
child's «subjective
experiences» (feelings, and thoughts) and help the
child make sense
of them
by reflecting back and validating those
experiences to the
child by means
of eye contact, facial expressions, gestures and movements, tone
of voice, timing and touch.
Developed
by the National Alliance for Youth Sports (NAYS) and Athletic Business magazine, the award recognizes programs that are doing superior jobs
of conducting diverse activities with a focus on providing safe and positive
experiences for all participants, including
children,
parents and coaches.
In working with this population she acquired the
experience, instinct, and passion for educating young mothers about infant and
child development, working one - on - one to enhance the lives
of both
parent and
child by helping to foster the natural bond between them.
As
parents, many
of us have
experienced getting our own emotions triggered
by our
child's.
However, the challenges
of raising a
child of a different race weren't really discussed
by experienced parents or social workers.
Afremow suggests that
parents look for ways to help their
children have
experiences in which they accomplish something to feel proud about
by engaging in a variety
of activities that are challenging and doable.
Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your
Children Live Together So You Can Live Too by Adele Faber This wise, groundbreaking book gives parents the practical tools they need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for children to experience the joys of their special relat
Children Live Together So You Can Live Too
by Adele Faber This wise, groundbreaking book gives
parents the practical tools they need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for
children to experience the joys of their special relat
children to
experience the joys
of their special relationship.
We have members with a variety
of experiences... infertility challenges, single motherhood
by choice, divorced moms, those living the «sandwich generation,» adoptive
parents, those raising an only
child, those with special needs
children, etc..
Research has shown that when a
child is seen
by age one or the eruption
of the first tooth and a dental home is established, the information the
parents get from the pediatric dentist and staff helps them to avoid or significantly minimize their
child's decay
experience.
NAYS
Parent Orientation has set a standard for parent orientation programs by providing a video - based training which offers a simple, effective way to make youth sports parents aware of their roles and responsibilities, as well as ways they can make their child's experience more enjoyable and pos
Parent Orientation has set a standard for
parent orientation programs by providing a video - based training which offers a simple, effective way to make youth sports parents aware of their roles and responsibilities, as well as ways they can make their child's experience more enjoyable and pos
parent orientation programs
by providing a video - based training which offers a simple, effective way to make youth sports
parents aware
of their roles and responsibilities, as well as ways they can make their
child's
experience more enjoyable and positive.
By studying campers»
experiences and camp's impact on the lives
of young people, ACA provides
parents with the knowledge to make good decisions, to thoughtfully guide their
children, and to offer opportunities for powerful lessons in community, character building, skill development, and healthy living.
Getting informed about OCD, particularly as it is
experienced by children, is the essential first step that every
parent of a
child with OCD should undertake to become an effective advocate for their
child.
Depressed mothers are often overwhelmed in the
parenting role, have difficulty reading infant cues, struggle to meet the social and emotional needs
of their
children, and are less tolerant
of child misbehaviour.7 Offspring
of depressed mothers, particularly if they are exposed to depression in the first year
of life, are more likely to be poorly attached to their caregivers,
experience emotional and behavioural dysregulation, have difficulty with attention and memory, and are at greater risk for psychiatric disorders throughout childhood.8 Home visiting focuses on fostering healthy
child development
by improving
parenting and maternal functioning.
In support
of this model, multiple studies have shown the association between infant negative reactivity and later psychosocial outcomes such as problem behaviour and self - regulation to be moderated
by parental behaviour, so that highly reactive
children fare better than others when they
experience optimal
parenting but worse than others when they
experience negative
parenting.41 - 46 Further support is found in studies indicating that interventions targeting parental attitudes and / or behaviours are particularly effective for
children with a history
of negative reactive temperament.47, 49
As Dr. Bornstein notes, «when interactions with caregivers fall out
of attunement
by becoming mistimed or mismatched,
children and
parents both
experience distress» (2015).
I learned that most
of us grew up in «dysfunctional» families and the way that we
parent our
children is influenced much more strongly
by what we subconsciously learned from our own
experiences in childhood, than
by what we now consciously learn from books.
Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam have in the past responded to families who report
experiencing problems with their
child - care guidance
by suggesting that the
parents in question should have used the ideas in «Babywise» more flexibly and with a dose
of common sense.
Rather than advocating a vice-like grip on the umbilical cord
by projecting your own unmet and unfulfilled needs
of childhood onto the
parenting experience, the end - goal
of attachment
parenting has always been growing and nurturing your
child to healthy, timely, age - appropriate independence.
Birth
parents can continue to love their
child, and can hopefully move past the grief
by letting go
of what might have been, to embrace a broader
experience of acceptance into a new extended family that they have helped to create.
The book opens at the turning point: A psychologist puts together a center where 10
children are raised collectively
by 19
parents (1 is a single
parent and all the rest are heterosexual couples) from birth without
experiencing the concept
of a nuclear family.
I Camp Kesem to serve a portion
of the millions
of children who are affected
by their
parents cancer each year, and to provide these
children with a loving, supportive community
of campers who are
experiencing the same feelings at home.
One
of the abstracts says «If
parents experience young
children's night awakenings as a problem, teaching the
children to fall asleep
by themselves usually solves this problem quickly».
A
parent might have had other
experiences of being «not seen» perhaps
by a spouse, co-worker or
by her own
parents, that makes her particularly vulnerable to getting upset about not being «seen»
by her
child.
He follows this
by saying, «We understand how frustrating it is to listen to and watch your
child experience the pain and discomfort
of teething, and we appreciate how it affects
parents.
Amiga is perhaps the saving grace
of this whole
parenting experience, battling loneliness and boredom
by guiding your
child to playmates who keep them (mostly) happy, and guiding you to other adults who keep you (mostly) sane.
Some
of the many benefits a Postpartum Doula provides for you and your baby include: Better infant care skills Positive newborn characteristics Breastfeeding skills improve A healthy set
of coping skills and strategies Relief from postpartum depression More restful sleep duration and quality Education and support services for a smooth transition home A more content baby Improved infant growth translates into increased confidence A content baby with an easier temperament Education for you to gain greater self - confidence Referrals to competent, appropriate professionals and support groups when necessary The benefits
of skin to skin contact Breastfeeding success Lessen the severity and duration
of postpartum depression Improved birth outcomes Decrease risk
of abuse Families with disabilities can also benefit greatly
by learning special skills specific to their situation Families
experiencing loss often find relief through our Doula services Improved bonding between
parent and
child.
Jones, Claudia
PARENTS ARE TEACHERS, TOO: Enriching Your
Child's First Six Years Williamson, 1988 Includes hundreds
of specific ideas and problem - solving techniques that can be used to encourage your
children to achieve their full potential
by turning everyday events into spontaneous learning
experiences.
When the time comes for a
child to transition to her own bed, make sure that the transition is gentle and that
parents respond to any feelings
of fear or upset
experienced by the
child
A clue is provided
by research which compared outcomes for
children in single
parent families, on the one hand, with those
of children in «intact» families
experiencing high levels
of conflict, on the other; it found the
children in the intact families fared less well.
«Where other industries nurture their most
experienced employees
by accommodating and being mindful
of pressures which issues such as having caring responsibilities for
children, grandchildren or elderly
parents can bring, this is clearly not the case in teaching.
Haunted
by her
parents» harrowing
experiences in Nazi concentration camps in World War II, she was troubled as a
child by images
of piles
of skeletons and barbed wire, and, in her words, «a floating sense
of danger and incipient harm.»
Younger
children, between two and nine years old, who had persistent nightmares reported
by parents had up to one and a half times increased risk
of developing psychotic
experiences.