She has 23 years of experience working with adults dealing with issues of loss, depression and anxiety, relationships, and life transitions, and has a sub-specialty consulting with parents
experiencing difficult child - related dilemmas.
Not exact matches
In 2012, while pregnant with her second
child, she was pursuing consultant work, but found it
difficult to get a full - time contract — despite having deep
experience in risk analysis and microfinance, and an impressive list of previous employers including Goldman Sachs and Credit Suisse.
Difficult circumstances such as prolonged illness, the birth of a handicapped
child, a divorce, an accident, or a death are a part of nearly everyone's
experience.
I happened into a job on an inpatient psychiatric unit at a
children's hospital, and couldn't believe how directly it used my skills — counseling, leading small groups, helping kids process
difficult emotions and
experiences, teaching, working with a team, etc..
We begin to formally educate a
child at the age of six, and twelve years later frequently find we have failed, not because school material is intrinsically
difficult (the task of learning a new language is much more so, yet the
child masters it in thee years); we find failure because we have ignored the fact that the developing personality has a natural sway, to and fro, which Whitehead says results in a «craving» to be continually refreshed by the
experience of starting anew.
The reason
children require a number of years to develop mastery of certain basic concepts, according to some
child psychologists, is not that they are slow in learning the words — they actually know the words quite early — but that they have to start
experiencing the world in a new, more simplified way that corresponds with the classifications suggested by these words.4 For example, young
children may know the words spoon, teaspoon, silver, knife, and metal but find it
difficult for several years to apply them appropriately to objects in their environment, the reason being partly that these words form multiple and overlapping classifications.
But other times in our lives can be just as
difficult, or even more so — for instance, the
experience of losing a
child.
After all it is not
difficult to understand the value of gift dimension for people who know the growing
experience, for example of a
child.
The
child who is older than three can retrieve memory of
difficult experiences and with the help of a sympathetic ear, resolve and mitigate these stressful
experiences.
The various aspects of attachment theory help us understand why the break up of the family can usually be such a profound and
difficult experience for mothers, fathers, and especially
children.
Having a
child is a wonderful and life - changing
experience, but it can also raise a number of
difficult questions.
Shared
experiences and advice that help fathers teach
difficult lessons while helping their
child develop.
Women who had an amazing
experience breastfeeding their first
child, may find it
difficult to nurse with their second
child.
Every mother
experiences this, more than once, while navigating the
difficult task of raising
children.
Whilst for many fathers, welcoming a
child into the world is a happy
experience, for others it may be
difficult, upsetting or traumatising.
She considers it the most
difficult part of the whole pregnancy and birth
experience, but feels really good that she was able to carry through for her
children.
For example, high levels of father involvement protect against adult
experience of homelessness in the sons of manual workers; and against later mental health problems in
children in separated families; and fathers» active care of «
difficult - to - raise» pre-schoolers is related to fewer problems in these
children later (Flouri 2005).
Picking out a name for your
child is part of the bonding
experience and some parents find that waiting until the day they are born can be
difficult.
With loving guidance you can support a
child through a new, albeit
difficult experience, to a greater sense of her own self as a competent, lovable person.
With five years of clinical
experience and nearly ten years of
experience supporting individuals with developmental disabilities of all ages, Melanie offers a unique approach to addressing
difficult behaviors, as well as the physical, emotional, and sensory regulation challenges that are often a big part of a
child's life.
Heating milk before serving it to your baby may seem a lot more
difficult than just pouring it into a sippy cup and serving it, but it may make a big difference in the success of your
child's weaning
experience.
After talking with other parents about my
experience, I learned that some of their
children found it so
difficult to sip from toddler straw cups with spill - proof valves that they were turned off from using straws altogether.
Unfortunately, by the time
children reach grade school this approach can often backfire, causing
children to lose important social power and denying them the opportunity to develop the skills and
experience to negotiate these
difficult social waters themselves.
The goal is to give your
child opportunities for rewarding social
experiences that will leave her wanting more rather than feeling pressured to do something she finds
difficult.
If your
child chooses adoption for his or her baby, we understand it can sometimes be
difficult for parent and other family members as they will also
experience a loss.
Having an abortion after
experiencing a traumatic birth (and especially after the birth trauma is related to
child loss) is often even more
difficult.
And while both
experiences were rewarding,
difficult, and the right thing to do, what ultimately struck me is how very little difference either choice made when it came to my relationship with my
children (or, for that matter, my partner).
You want to give your
child opportunities for rewarding social
experiences that will leave him wanting more rather than feeling pressured to do something he finds
difficult.
Have you had any
difficult experiences on planes with your own
children and if so, how did you cope with them?
Some
children do become more resilient as a result of growing up in
difficult environments — but many others are simply worn down and worn out by the
experience.
I asked Dr. Elizabeth Harstad, a developmental pediatrician at Boston
Children's Hospital, to offer some guidance for parents who may be
experiencing this
difficult moment.
Play therapy helps
children (4 - 16 yrs) recover from
difficult life
experiences such as bereavement and loss, parental separation, abuse, bullying and developmental delay.
Children and people of all ages have benefited from addressing
difficult feelings,
experiences and behaviours through creative therapy.
Visit Waimea Valley Depending on the age of your
children, yanking them away from the beach may be a
difficult task (you may also find yourself struggling with the notion when you've been enjoying the bliss of these peerless coasts), but if you're hoping to
experience a bit of inland Kauai, there is no place more fit for an afternoon than the Waimea Canyon.
Divorce creates inner and outer turmoil for both parents, making it
difficult to concentrate on the needs of
children and the turmoil they are
experiencing.
If a parent feels out - of - control, either with anger or shame or any number of feelings that these
experiences may provoke, it is very
difficult to help a
child regulate his feelings.
If a mother waits until a
child is crying, it will be much more
difficult to latch the baby to the breast and a frustrating
experience for both baby and mother.
It's too
difficult and mind bending for some people to see that homeschooled / unschooled
children have a great opportunity to
experience the world and learn through a lot of different channels.
Below is just a piece of what we've
experienced with our
children at school, and our hope that our
children can overcome these sometimes
difficult situations to better understand their food allergies, yet not be defined by them.
Billy's mother did not find it easy to listen to her
child be demanding, and it was
difficult for her to allow him to
experience being upset.
Without having
experienced infertility,
child loss or a miscarriage, it can be
difficult to know how to support a loved one who's expecting a rainbow baby.
There was not much difficulty stopping BF (breastfeeding), or rather, this process was not perceived as a
difficult one, since mothers just less worried about how their
child was
experiencing this fact, did not see any psychological trauma in it, and rarely thought about the childhood traumas.
However, the American Academy of Pediatrics reminds parents that permitting your
child to sleep with you increases the probability that she will
experience problems falling asleep alone, and transitioning to her own bed may prove
difficult.
Experienced parents know that the time when a
child is born is more
difficult.
Parents who already have their own
children won't find it
difficult to raise a newborn baby since they have already gained
experience.
If a parent takes a close look at
difficult interactions with their
children, my own
experience is that underneath much of it lies ungrieved loss in some form or another.
However, birth grandparents can find themselves in a
difficult position: wanting to support their
child to make a decision they feel good about; while at the same time
experiencing strong feelings about the choices their
child is facing.
Over coffee yesterday, I opened up about my
experience with a new girlfriend and she shared that her sister went through a
difficult time after the birth of both of her
children and how it really helped to hear my story since she was concerned she too might suffer from postpartum depression.
When a
child experiences a trauma that teaches him that he can not trust or rely on that caregiver, however, he's likely to believe that the world around him is a scary place and all adults are dangerous — and that makes it incredibly
difficult to form relationships throughout their childhood, including with peers their own age, and into the adult years.
Go to the library and pick out books that address feelings, especially related to anger, frustration, rejection, isolation, sadness, or any other
difficult emotion your
child frequently
experiences.