Sentences with phrase «favored parent»

Thanks Cindy, The association captures the nuances of the favored parent.

So so many tactics are used, you didn't mention guilt for having left the favored parent for the weekend and making the child feel they are crucial to their happiness and therefore the targeted parent has to be dismissed.

And, as court is adversarial and costly, some parents opt out of multiple court appearances (to enforce the out - right defiance of the favored parent).

The child is both internally motivated from the emotional roller coaster of the favored parent and externally motivated by fear of abandonment.

Because parental alienation does not include situations of physical abuse or neglect, the parent - child relationship will remain (with the favored parent).

Should valuable workshops that offer services to severely alienated children offer programs for the favored parent?

The child needs to make make sense of the lies thus it seems easier to align with the favored parent.

Assignment of minimal importance to possible parenting deficiencies in a favored parent 5.

Seemingly wholesale acceptance of a favored parent's perspective 7.

Rather, the children themselves contribute their own scenarios in support of the favored parent.

My experience has been that in about 80 to 90 percent of cases the mother is the favored parent and the father the vilified one.»

I wish to take this opportunity to address this concern for «labeling» the pathology of the allied and supposedly favored parent.

The Court will then have two choices, either order the child's protective separation from the allied and supposedly favored parent during the active phase of the child's treatment and recovery stabilization period, or abandon the child to psychopathology.

The child's symptom display directed toward the targeted parent represents a set of specific narcissistic and borderline personality traits that are being acquired by the child through the distorted pathogenic parenting practices of the allied and supposedly favored parent.

Throughout the literature, many discussions ensue regarding if the favored parent's tactics are intentional, or unintentional.

Rather than viewing both parents, as fallible human beings, the rejected parent is viewed with contempt, while the favored parent is viewed in an angelic light.

Sixth is known as, reflexive support for the favored parent.

Therapists who lack an adequate understanding and competence in dealing with parental alienation may be too quick to accept at face value the favored parent's and child's representations of events.

In severe cases, research indicates that temporarily suspending contact with the favored parent may be necessary.

Respondents to the survey were divided about whether the rejected parent shares blame when the favored parent engages in alienating behaviors, what I call divorce poison.

Ironically, when the favored parent seeks help, to enforce orders that should be followed to begin with, they are deemed as «high conflict.»

Parental alienation is when a child allies himself or herself strongly with one parent (the preferred or favored parent) and rejects a relationship with the other parent (the alienated or rejected parent).

When the favored parent's behavior contributes significantly to the children's negative attitudes, leading authorities in the field label this emotional abuse.

She stated, «If psychological health is defined as the absence of internal distress or internal conflict, the favored parent appears healthier; however, this appearance is misleading.»

A formal definition of parental alienation, provided by Dr. Bernet, a psychiatrist from Vanderbelt University is, «when a child allies himself or herself strongly with one parent (the preferred or favored parent) and rejects a relationship with the other parent (the alienated or rejected parent).

In their study, when the rejected parent would go to pick the child up, neither the favored parent, nor the child would be home.

In their eyes, the lies of the favored parent are true, after all they did not «see» Mom or Dad.

Regardless if one is in private practice, or works in an agency setting, it is likely that one will be faced with alienated child, alienated adolescent, favored parent, or rejected parent.

It provides ammunition for the favored parent to solidify his or her scheming antics, «See, your mom / dad does not care if you spend time with him or her.»

Alienated children, due to negative input by the favored parent, behave guilt free.

Definitely the teen was still somewhat blinded by the favored parent, but a seed was planted.

Third, the rejection must be in part, a result of the favored parent's influence.

The key point is not whether the child is strongly aligned with a favored parent, or how strongly the child has rejected the other parent — but rather, why.

What if the favored parent is authentically trying to protect the child from an emotionally or physically or sexually abusing narcissistic parent, and the narcissistic targeted parent is manipulatively using the allegation of «parental alienation» against the favored parent to nullify the favored parent's authentic efforts to protect the child from abuse?

The rejected parent is left with the task of «pointing out» that the favored parent refuses to follow parenting plans, decree etc..

The Gardnerian PAS diagnostic criteria, while possibly accurate for identifying cases of «parental alienation» in which the narcissistic parent is the allied and supposedly favored parent, do not sufficiently differentiate cases when the targeted parent is the narcissistic parent.

Protection of children 100 % of the time when the supposedly favored parent is the narcissistic parent.

When I inquire about the favored parent, on the other hand, the child provides a uniformly positive critique of the allied and supposedly favored parent, free from parent - child troubles.

From our position advocating for the construct of «parental alienation,» achieving synthesis involves expending the necessary effort to define the construct of «parental alienation» from entirely within standard and established professional constructs, so that we can develop strong diagnostic indicators that are both sensitive AND specific, and that can be used in 100 % of the cases to accurately differentiate when the narcissistic parent is the targeted parent and when the narcissistic parent is the supposedly favored parent, so that we can protect 100 % of the children 100 % of the time.

I will not participate in or collude with the pathology of a narcissistic parent, whether that parent is the allied and supposedly favored parent or whether that parent is the targeted parent.

Severely alienated children are best treated with traditional therapy techniques while living primarily with their favored parent, 10.

The prevalence of such denial has prompted surveys addressing the issues of whether children can reject a parent whose behavior does not warrant such rejection, and whether the rejection can be due in part to the influence of the favored parent.

Today we see many mothers who have become the «rejected parent» and many fathers who have engaged in alienating behaviors and have become the «favored parent.»

When a child has not seen a parent for a long time, or is somewhat resistant to seeing a parent, the PCC prepares the child during the sessions with the favored parent and child.

My concern is that creating a diagnosis of parental alienation disorder will create a presumption that it is one parent (the «favored parent» or «preferred parent») who has «caused» the child to be resistant to the other parent.

When I have won changes of custody because of false allegations or child alienation, the child has violated the order (run away to the favored parent's house) and / or the favored parent has run away with the child.

After having said all this, experts could be very helpful to attorneys and courts if we focused on descriptions of behavior, including the child's, the favored parent and the rejected parent's rather than jargon or psychobabble.

Parental alienation is the term used to describe the overall problem of children being encouraged by one parent — the favored parent — to unjustly reject the other parent — the targeted parent The specific behaviors that they engage in are referred to as parental alienation strategies.

That is, they reject the targeted parent without justification; their relationship with the targeted parent is based on the emotional manipulation of the favored parent rather than based on the actual experiences with the targeted parent.

They will express most if not all of the 8 behavioral manifestations: (1) campaign of denigration of the targeted parent (2) weak, frivolous, or absurd reasons for the rejection of the targeted parent; (3) lack of ambivalence towards both parents in which one is viewed as all good and the other as all bad; (4) lack of remorse for the poor treatment of the targeted parent; (5) reflexive support for the favored parent; (6) use of borrowed scenarios; (7) the «independent thinker» phenomenon; and (8) spread of animosity towards the friends and family of the targeted parent.