But if we scrutinize and examine our choices, our priorities, the pros and cons, and we come away truly feeling like we can
feel good about the decisions reached (or at the very least live with them), that burden of need someone else to approve of it is lifted somewhat, and it seems to me it frees us up for discussion the facts.
While it may
feel as though the walls are crumbling around you, and
reaching out can sometimes be scary, clients who begin working with me at this point are able to push pause, catch their breath, sort through their pain, and make the
best decisions about what to do next.