If I'm honest, now I struggle to fit it in but I don't
feel guilty about it as I know I will get there again.
My life has been so frenetic since this poor kid was born eight weeks ago, and I've been
feeling guilty about that as well as overwhelmed with the amount of crap I need to do.
There are enough things to
feel guilty about as a parent without having the food nazís on your back.
Not exact matches
Yes, but
as I wrote a few weeks ago, that's not something to
feel guilty about.
In fact Eat Stop Eat does not involve binging,
guilty feeling about food, or using fasting
as a form of punishment.
It's
as though they are looking for a way to avoid having to give their money to help the poor, and to avoid
feeling guilty about not doing it either.
But religious leaders spend almost
as much time making you
feel guilty about actually thinking, than they do raising money from the non-thinkers.
They see this
as bad and
feel guilty about this control.
Not every way of communication honors the truth: sometimes the manner in which something gets conveyed subverts reality,
as when a preacher says all the right words
about God's love but in a tone of voice and with a concluding string of «oughts» (therefore we ought to do this and we ought to do that) that makes you
feel guiltier than ever.
I doubt if such a presentation of the Christian gospel is other than a palliative for those who are insecure,
as well
as offering a sort of reassurance to people who have been induced (often by quite dubious techniques) to
feel enormously
guilty about themselves.
None of the things I say or write
about are intended to make people
feel guilty or like they are not living up to their full potential, or like they are disappointing God, or not doing everything they should be doing
as a follower of Jesus.
Just
as we kids always
felt guilty and bad
about ourselves in his presence, the parishioners were always uneasy and
felt guilty in relation to him.
«I don't know,» she replied, «except that I have always
felt guilty about being
as happy
as I am.
Hi Liz, thank you I love to nibble on it throughout the day it's great
as I don't
feel too
guilty about it with all the healthy add ins
I don't even
feel too
guilty about letting family members munch these
as breakfast!
These make a great snack for mid morning
as they are not overly sweet, so you don't need to
feel to
guilty about anything.
If you
feel guilty about eating «donut holes» for an afternoon snack,
feel free to think of them
as cinnamon bliss energy balls instead.
Adding the extra ingredients won't even make you
feel guilty about passing them off
as your own!
I'm
guilty of using a lot of refined sugars when I bake, but I tend to bake for gatherings or meetings, so I don't
feel as bad
about it.
I don't
feel quite
as guilty about this
as I should,
as I managed to share some of the orange cake with a friend
as well
as CT and there is still a substantial quantity left.
So happy your site is not so much
about making us all
feel guilty as much
as it is
about good food, smart ideas and fun!
As I wait for the late rush, I'm
feeling guilty about how I treated Waffle House employees when I was a snotty teenager.
Finally I would point out that other clubs like Chelsea and Man United are much more
guilty for what we might call cheating, so I am not going to
feel bad for Pulis
about Arsenal, especially
as he was in charge of Stoke when they rightfully earned the tag of being a rugby team, are you?
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and nurses telling new moms that formula is «just
as good» and «not to
feel guilty», women getting «the look» for nursing in public, or
feeling weird
about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it
as little
as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
Other suggestions: spend some time alone with your baby just holding her and letting her fall asleep on your chest, which can be incredibly relaxing, talk to your wife even if you are concerned
about upsetting her
as you are a team, keep in mind that your anxiety is driven by your desire to be a good father - this you should be proud of and not
feel guilty about, and read up on anxiety so you know what you are dealing with (my personal favorite is Dale Carnegie's How To Stop Worrying, a classic).
my baby fell off the bed one time while i was there on the bed with her, since that day i never put her on my bed ever again accident can happens anytime but if it'll happen more than ones or twice it'll be hard to consider it
as an accident anymore sorry but this is one of the reasons why co sleeping with an infant is not advisable maybe wait tell the baby gets older for co-sleeping but for now sounds like you need to put your baby in a safe place for him to sleep in, please do not wait until something bad happens to your baby before you do something in my own opinion letting baby fall off the bed 5 times is not acceptable, my baby fell off the bed when she was 7 months that was 5 months ago and until now i still
feel guilty about it.
The boy «has come to
feel ashamed and
guilty about breastfeeding
as a result of his being removed from his mother's care due to their nursing.
So if we aren't
feeling this way
about our pregnancy, we're made to
feel guilty, like we're a terrible person and something is wrong with us Surely we're going to be a bad mom
as well then?
I had pumped earlier that day and had some breast milk stored already that we could alternate with formula
as my son transitioned into bottle feeding, so I
felt less
guilty (still plenty
guilty though)
about giving up.
Somehow the thinking seems to be that if we don't talk
about it, mothers who apparently «choose» not to breastfeed will not
feel guilty,, and healthworkers who don't know how to help mothers breastfeed can continue to suggest formula - feeding
as an easier alternative.
Everyone seems so obsessed
about not making mothers
feeling guilty about formula feeding
as opposed to those who want to breastfeed but are undermined by free formula.
We can combine mothering through breastfeeding with all of these work activities but we will always
feel guilty about it, so you mine
as well stay positive, look in the mirror and pat yourself on the back.
I
feel guilty about not having more milk but will continue to pump and let her nurse
as much
as she can because I know that every little bit of breast milk helps her.
They don't have to
feel guilty about making these mistakes
as many signs of labor can come some days earlier.
And because we're talking more
about «survival» rather than «good nutrition» during endurance exercise, you don't have to
feel guilty if you use candy
as fuel.
And while I
feel guilty about a whole lot of things
as a mother —
as Jong admits she also does in her essay — I don't
feel one iota of guilt
about my decision to breastfeed or spend plenty of time with my kids.
They
feel guilty, a failure, a bad parent enough
as it is without comments
about them having «excuses» to stop breastfeeding.
This confession comes off
as feeling super
guilty, but thankful that no one really knows
about what goes on behind the scenes at camp.
Any excuse I have to
feel guilty about something, I certainly take it up, and,
as we know, mothering is the mother lode of guilt.
You may also consider putting your children into nursery or getting a childminder for short periods of time when they are a bit older; you shouldn't
feel guilty about doing this
as it will allow you to re-charge your batteries, have some time to yourself and get everything sorted.
In the end now at 10 months I am finally willing to try controlled crying, but I am still
feeling guilty about it,
as I never thought I would end up in this position.
It's easy to
feel guilty about opting for formula when breastfeeding is presented
as not only the best method, but far, far superior to formula feeding.
While parents have been happy
about learning things they can do differently to make life better for their children and themselves, they have also
felt frustrated and
guilty (
as did I) that they didn't have this information before they had their children.
As for promoting guilt, when we pussyfoot around
about making women
feel guilty, we are patronising them — how can anyone make an informed choice if information is deliberately withheld?
As mothers, we tend to stress and
feel guilty about so many things.
When I first read this clipping from People magazine that talks
about how many toys Americans have, I
felt guilty as charged.
I know exactly how it
feels to be overwhelmed and even
feel guilty about not spending
as much time with your first child
as you did before.
In the meantime, get
as much help
as possible, sleep when the baby sleeps and don't
feel guilty about making your own rest a priority.
Also, we have not
felt guilty about making love in our infant's presence, and
as she gets older, we will make love quietly under the covers
as we've done on camping trips with his 9 yr old daughter in the tent.
And
as long
as you keep doing what's best for your kids and learning from your mistakes, you really have very little to
feel guilty about.