Let's start with why you shouldn't
feel guilty about saying no.
Starting out with «
I feel guilty about saying this...» might help me be a little more honest with other moms.
Sometimes parents
feel guilty about saying no.
So rather than
feeling guilty about saying «No» to everything I just proactively taken on one or two things in the beginning of the year and those are my roles.
Gone are those days of
feeling guilty about saying «no.»
Not exact matches
«I always knew I got some of my best ideas and sources of inspiration when I was having fun away from the business, so I had to get over
feeling guilty about being away,» she
says.
One so they can perform during the day and the other to knock them out at night,» he
says, making me
feel less
guilty about my own coffee and wine routine.
«I always
felt a little
guilty about the fact that I don't eat any animals processed in slaughterhouses, but I feed them to my animals,» he
says.
«Most people are deadline - prompted and
feel a tad bit
guilty about leaving the team,» he
says.
The same way no one should
feel guilty about,
say, wanting to hurt others, stealing money, or raping women.
While recognizing the dangers of extracting lines from their context, Morson
says that we should not
feel guilty about indulging an «aesthetic of separability.»
If you want to
say that engaging in gay s e x is a choice, yes, that's true, just like engaging in hetro s e x is a choice and you can choose to remain celibate if that's your thing or if someone made you
feel so
guilty about your preference at some point.
Not every way of communication honors the truth: sometimes the manner in which something gets conveyed subverts reality, as when a preacher
says all the right words
about God's love but in a tone of voice and with a concluding string of «oughts» (therefore we ought to do this and we ought to do that) that makes you
feel guiltier than ever.
Most important, the church school teacher should avoid
saying those things which might cause the child to
feel guilty about his
feelings.
None of the things I
say or write
about are intended to make people
feel guilty or like they are not living up to their full potential, or like they are disappointing God, or not doing everything they should be doing as a follower of Jesus.
In Walking on Water, Madeleine L'Engle
said, «I've long since stopped
feeling guilty about taking beingtime; it's something we all need for our spiritual health, and often we don't take enough of it.»
Instead, the reader will maintain his integrity if he learns he need not
feel guilty if, after questioning the Bible for what it
says and implies
about the universe, he concludes that our scientific data are more reliable.
Thank you... I was just
saying to my husband that vegan eating is so awesome because you can just eat everything and not
feel guilty about it being unhealthy Keep on gobbling!!!!
I wanted to
say guilt free, but I don't like to use that expression, cause I don't want to imply that anybody should
feel guilty about having any food
We just
said, okay, we want to do this thing, and we want to do it really well: mill our own grains and give people food they can eat every day without us
feeling guilty about it.
He doesn't want to Spend on what we really need, Yet, he
says that he
feels guilty about last season and how this season's team performance will determine his future at the club!?
Arsenal's Mathieu Debuchy
said that he
felt guilty about the season he has had, having only played 14 games.
I'd like to
say I
felt guilty about it, but I didn't.
He appears to be serious
about me and wants to have sex with me but the problem is two times after we kissed and started to become intimate, i started to
feel guilty immediately because the value system i have grown up in
says it's wrong to have sex outside marriage and now he does not talk to me and is acting cold with me
saying i have rejected him.
She
said over and over to not
feel guilty about it.
What Parents
Say about Family Vacations You need a vacation now more than ever, and you shouldn't
feel the least bit
guilty.
I don't want my kids to
feel guilty about what I might
say if they eat Snickers ice cream bars at a birthday party, and I don't want them worrying
about their health if they stop at McDonald's with their uncle.
«There's so much discussion
about bonding with a new baby that mothers often
feel guilty if they don't
feel some incredible attachment to their new baby immediately,»
says Edward Christophersen, a pediatric psychologist in Kansas City, Missouri.
Thanks for
saying what so many of us
feel too
guilty to blog
about and thus lighten the guilt for each other.
I
say if you feed your kids garbage, go ahead and
feel guilty about it!
So, what you are
saying diyanasal, is that I have to
feel guilty about my decisions to be a good mom?
Then you will
feel guilty about it,
say you have «fallen off the wagon» and throw your entire plan out the window!!
It's your prerogative to
say no to visitors and turn down social invitations, and you shouldn't let anyone make you
feel guilty about that.
Amen to not
feeling guilty about breastfeeding!My baby boy and I struggled and suffered breast feeding for 2 months before my Doc
said enough was enough and actually encouraged me to stop.
All moms that did this method
say «it was hard but...» or «I
felt guilty but...» If you
feel guilty about something that is your body and spirit telling you it's wrong.
They nonchalantly
said things like, «breast is best,» which made me
feel super
guilty about having to use formula.
And still, we
feel bad: In that same poll, 79 percent of moms who'd stopped nursing
said they
felt guilty about it.
Its comforting to know im not the only one, I was set to be induced with my fifth child on jan 1, went to hospital at 5 am, put on pittosin at 6, dialed slowly, and had painful contractions, Dr broke my water at 11, contractions even more painful, got the epidural at 12, labor did not progress, was dialated 3 cm all day, @ 8 pm,, Dr took me off pittosin for an hour to see if I would progress if we started over again, at 9 they hooked me up again, all night and just progressed to a 4, that next morning, still nothing, finally Dr
said we need to do a c section, since my water was broken earlier the previous day, he was worried
about infection, finally went to operating rm, it was so cold, I was shaking and crying, I was so scared, btw my previous 4 children were vaginal births, I
felt so
guilty, thinking it was my fault my labor did nt progress.Finally I had her, when the Dr held her up for me to see, I started bawling, she was perfect, it was very emotional, she weighed 6 lb 4oz and 18in, Im very proud of her, and myself
The best way to retaliate is to
say that breastfeeders are abusing their children, or worse, (my personal non-favourite): that your attempt at sharing facts
about breastfeeding / milk, is a personal attack on person xyz, or an attempt to make them
feel guilty.
At Mommyish, Lindsay Cross wrote
about how she «
felt so
guilty at the thought of not breast - feeding» that she
says she would have even experimented with prescription drugs to try to increase her milk supply:
The most important thing my wonderful IBCLC
said to me was...» it's not your fault» and «any amount of breastmilk you can give your baby is good, don't
feel guilty about the rest.»
They also
said lactation consultants in baby - friendly hospitals could be more careful
about how they talk
about breastfeeding — and avoid making mothers
feel pressured into breastfeeding or
guilty if they have trouble breastfeeding.
Donald Trump is leading the Republican presidential race by so much — and at so little cost — that he
feels «
guilty»
about it, he
said on CBS» «Face the Nation,» boasting: «Look, I was going to have $ 35 or $ 40 million spent by now.
So today, let's talk
about why not to
feel guilty when you
say no to coming in on Saturday, coordinating the preschool fun fair for the third year in a row, or loaning your pickup truck to your friend who's moving this weekend.
A likely explanation, she
said — one that's backed up by a great deal of past research — is that some people react badly and get defensive when they're told they should
feel guilty about something, making them less likely to follow a desired course of action.
«If somebody came to me and
said, «I think I have high - functioning depression,» chances are not only would I hear
about mood symptoms, but I'd probably hear something
about being kind of perfectionistic,
feeling guilty a lot,
feeling self - critical,» he
says.
Treat yourself, try not to
feel guilty about it (I know, it's easier
said than done), and go back to your usual diet afterwards.
«To
say you will never
feel guilty again
about something silly would be ridiculous,»
says Whitbourne.
Do certain things you (or others)
say about foods you eat make you
feel guilty and ashamed?
You know when you eat something you know is super good for you but while you're inhaling
said food, you stop and almost
feel guilty about it?