Gumbinner's feed is also full of political news and information she finds important, making
her feel like every other mom who is staying involved to try to ensure a better world for our kids.
Not exact matches
On smaller scales, children often develop similar
feelings for
other activities that family members or special friends particularly enjoyed,
like fishing with Dad, baking with
Mom, or football with your brothers.
I relate to ALL your posts, but this one...... seriously, ROLLING ON THE FLOOR!!!!! I
feel like I wrote this!!!! Passing it to every
other mom like me I know!
You may
feel like you're getting benched, not allowed out on the field with these
other competitive
moms who are humble - bragging at the coffee shop about their six - year - old playing Chopin and speaking Mandarin.
Or even the fact that I know so many
other wonderful
moms who stopped nursing earlier than I but I
felt like I had to lie about my own situation to not seem weird.
And because I
liked feeling like I was doing the right thing, and
liked having a community of
other moms to tell me I was doing the right thing, I went for it full gusto, giving myself a little pat on the back every time I accomplished one more thing on the «AP laundry list.»
Some
moms have lots of family and friends surround them,
others go all out decorating with flowers and
other things that make them happy or
feel like celebrating.
Some nursing
moms prefer to pick a time that
feels like it's best for their babies while
others wait for their children to signal them that it's time to start breastfeeding.
For the longest time, being a
mom — and being an actual adult, really —
felt like something
other people did, but not me.
Like other moms» stories, my bond was really suffering because I felt like every time I held her she wanted to eat, and I DREADED breastfeed
Like other moms» stories, my bond was really suffering because I
felt like every time I held her she wanted to eat, and I DREADED breastfeed
like every time I held her she wanted to eat, and I DREADED breastfeeding.
I think it's a completely wonderful thing, but the more I read about it, the more I talk to
other moms, the more I take critical looks at breastfeeding studies, I
feel like something going on is very wrong.
How would you
feel if a breastfeeder said «when I fed my kids a bottle of formula in the hospital, I
felt it was
like committing a sex act on my child, but I support and celebrate
other moms who want to do it.»
Sometimes it can
feel that way and then again I am
like another
mom said I in two different groups I have a lot of teachers and friends that I know through my older kids and then
others that know me strictly through my younger kids so that is a little weird.
We crave information and testimonials and rely heavily on hearing
other moms» experiences to
feel like we are doing the right thing for our children.
This isn't to say I'd be thrilled to join
other pumping
moms in a communal Mothers» Room, but if work culture continues to skimp on providing supportive environments for raising a healthy family, including flex time, paid leave, subsidized quality care and just the basic humanity that allows us to see each
other as more than just workers boosting a bottom line, I'd take the company of
other moms like me so I wouldn't
feel so alone as a working parent.
At least 20 % of all new mothers suffer from postpartum depression and / or anxiety, and sometimes the best medicine for
feeling better is being around
other moms that are struggling just
like you.
So don't let photos of
other moms» stashes make you
feel like you're not doing enough to nurse successfully.
Yeah, and I know I've had several
moms that say that «once I got going,
like I was just going to go for a walk, but once I got home, I picked up the little weights I had and started doing,» so I know it can just lead to
other things and
feeling better and stuff.
I wish
others knew that some FF
moms don't have another choice, and it hurts when everything around you alludes to the fact that BF is best, because you
feel like you're failing your baby by not giving him what's «best».
Thanks for sharing, I too struggled with the baby stage but kept it to myself for the most part because the looks or comments I got from
other moms when I admitted it made me
feel like I had three heads or they acted as if I had just said I didn't
like my baby (which wasn't at all what I was saying!).
Like many
other first - time
moms, when my first baby was born, l
felt totally confused and stressed because I didn't know which cries meant what.
Everyone has told me that boys love their mommy and I'm sure he does but I wish he didn't do that because
like the
other moms on this site, it really hurts my
feelings.
Due to a few judgmental comments and watching how
other moms treated each
other, I
felt like I was in a race.
When I'm out and about, a lot of
moms do a double take when they see
other moms breastfeeding, I
feel like if they saw images
like this when they're out and about it wouldn't make it so weird or taboo.
No matter how easy
other moms make parenthood look, there is one common truth: we all
feel like we aren't good enough.
I personally struggle with this: how do you just do your thing without making
other moms feel like you're judging what they're doing?
My son just turned 3, I have tried everything to get him to go, occasionally he will go pee - pee, but refuses to go poop, I
feel like a failure, especially when you hear
other moms saying how well their child goes to the potty.
In
other words, there are many ways that social media can make you
feel like a really crappy
mom because there are near - infinite platforms upon which
other moms can show you how crap they aren't being.
Additionally, my
mom just found out she has breast cancer (non-invasive) and I've read how breastfeeding is a protective factor against breast cancer and since I have several
other risk factors (started my period early, had my first baby over 30, family history), I
feel like I should breastfeed as long as possible.
Here's a creative discipline approach, one that I've used on my own kids and has been «stolen» by
other moms looking for a more fun yet effective way of promoting positive behavior without
feeling like a brute.
It's funny you mention the emphasis on bonding and not allowing too many visitors, because on the
other side of things I
feel like there is sometimes an assumption that new
moms should want or need a «break» from the baby.
Well, because for some reason (society's unrealistic expectations),
moms everywhere
feel like they don't measure up to
other moms.
While in many cases, this is very true,
other times, contractions actually
feel like a completely different experience than what is the
mom - to - be expected.
I have
felt like the worst
mom ever and have even been called so by
other moms.
I
felt bad for the
other moms who looked
like the walking wounded in the hospital.
My postpartum depression actually manifests more as anxiety and what I found, my medication has not been sufficient in helping with that sleep is key and everyone will tell you that and it kind of
feel validated sometimes when I tell
other moms, yeah I just really need to sleep
like «oh, honey everyone does» and you'll get used to functioning on you know little sleep.
And we all know
like this parenting thing it is not a one size fits all and what works for you, does not necessarily works for me and I
feel like that... usually when I am posting stuff on Facebook or people are asking for my opinion on stuff, that is usually how I phrase it... I actually had a twin
mom yesterday reach out to me and it wasn't regarding breastfeeding but it was her babies kept hitting each
other.
Robin Kaplan: Yeah, absolutely so obviously with what Dan and Heidi were talking about the need for supplementation obviously breastfeeding does not have to be all or nothing and I would imagine that you would definitely agree with that so continuing Rose, what do you say to
mom who come to you who are needing a supplement and
feeling like they are not breastfeeding
moms because they need to offer something
other than their breast milk in addition for their baby to continue to gain weight?
Why should an already arduous task become even more burdensome when we don't
feel like we fit in with
other moms?
Now even new
moms can actually keep up with what
other people are reading and
feel like part of the human race!
I had been doing it and picking up after him and a lot of
other things and it was making me
feel more
like his
mom than his wife.
I write publicly as a personal sacrifice — of privacy, of the illusion of protection — in order to help
other loss
moms feel less alone in what can
feel like the lonely of the lonely, the lost of the lost.
Comparing your baby to
others may
feel like human nature when you become a
mom.
At first I was happy to see
other moms felt like this was a pretty daunting task.
As a new
mom there was nothing more discouraging than hearing
other moms tell me that their babies were sleeping through the night at 2 wks old... I
felt like a FAILURE!
Many
moms told us that their contractions
felt like an extreme version of menstrual cramps, while
others compared them to cramps from gas, the stomach flu, or a charley horse.
Some
moms feel like encouraging kids believing in Santa is part of the magic and wonder of childhood while
others (and
others) don't want to lie to their kids.
I can see where her claim to «not making excuses» and taking time to take care of herself could definitely make
other moms feel bad about themselves because they either
like to make excuses of why they can't look
like her and get back into shape OR they are already so overwhelmed in life that they don't even want to think about how they SHOULD be taking care of themselves.
Moms that
feel like they can keep up with their
other responsibilities while caring for their infant are more likely to reach their breastfeeding goals because they won't
feel trapped in their home.
I always
felt like I was just at one big sales pitch, and that is why I'm dedicated to making MommyCon an event that
moms from across the globe want to attend so they can mingle with
other mommy's and learn about things they are passionate about.