I spent decades judging my body and
feeling shame around having PCOS.
And because I don't
feel shame around it, it's engaging and an enjoyable release of my sexual energy.
«I used this experience to talk about why it isn't OK to feed into a culture that sets women up to
feel shame around our bodies.
Still, the character of Lady Bird
feels shame around her own class, as her family is struggling financially.
Not exact matches
Whatever
feelings you have trouble dealing with — jealousy,
shame, inferiority, entitlement — transferring them to people you work with and acting out in anger won't just make you and everyone
around you miserable, it'll kill your career, too.
Shame is a painful
feeling that directs your attention onto yourself in ways that make it difficult for you to care about what other people are
feeling around you.
I hate the way you Atheists bully people by making them
feel shame about every part of their lives that doesn't revolve
around hypocritical evil.
Most of us have taken a trip or two to
shame, guilt, and all -
around icky
feelings after enjoying a meal; however, guilt is not welcome anywhere near our plates, forks, spoons, or knives.
Yeah, it's a
shame you
feel the need to launch unprovoked attacks on people and then bizarrely ignore reality by twisting things
around to suit your own narrative.
My biggest childhood issues that I have had to untangle from my parenting include money (or lack thereof),
shame around the drama our family stirred up, and
feelings of abandonment (as the 6th of 7 kids I was largely sibling raised).
Shaming kids is also dangerous because
shame tends to be a
feeling that sticks
around, and it often lasts longer than you realize or intend.
All I
felt after the first assault was overwhelming
shame, because that's what I had been taught to internalize from everything I saw in the media and in the world
around me.
When the time came, I decided to try to combo - feed, but when it didn't work out, I surprisingly
felt no
shame this time
around.
There are a lot of judgement and
shame around birth choices in this world but your
feelings about your birth are important, no matter what they are.
I have
felt shamed by the widespread silence
around adoption in the same way that I have
felt silenced by the social stigma and
shame around abortion.
Seeking help with these messages of
shame swirling
around, knowing the people you would ask have at least seen these messages and may even agree with them and could very well have made or propagated them, can require heaps of bravery at a time when a woman is
feeling very vulnerable and possibly already struggling with
feelings of inadequacy.
Do you
feel like your preoccupation and
shame around food and your body end up making you miss out on parts of your life?
I
felt zero guilt or
shame around the idea that if I needed a C - section or pain killers there would be a good reason to have them.
That's why couples don't often communicate
around sex, because they're afraid that they're going to be
shamed for asking for what they want in bed, that a woman is going to
feel like she'll be judged as a slut because she knows that if she's in this position, this is the most pleasure, or if a guy asks for a certain fantasy that he wants, pleasure, that he'll be judged.
Cutoffs just
feel like the quintessential summer item for me; I build entire outfits
around my cutoff collection with zero
shame.
There's simply no getting
around the
feeling that the film is spinning its wheels in the build - up to its underwhelming third act, which is a
shame, certainly, given the relatively promising nature of the opening half hour.
As is, the Accord Hybrid's powertrain
feels like a stepping stone on the way to the Clarity plug - in hybrid system that is planned for future release, which is a
shame because the car
around this hybrid system and its fuel economy potential are so good.
Combat isn't the most challenging so it never
feels like you actually need to upgrade your limited weapon selection, which is a
shame given that going back to explore locations is based
around getting Salvage and parts, but once again it lends a nice sensation of progression to the game, and the visual changes that come from building better versions of your gear and upgrading are nice to behold.
Messing
around and experimenting with the parts on my Guardians was fun and something a little bit different to normal dungeon crawlers but it's a
shame that the game
feels like it has a little bit too much pointless padding; backtracking through dungeons repeatedly and pointless quests really do let the game down.
And we all say that we'll get
around to them some day so that it wasn't a wasted purchase... But then we buy a new game like Transistor and
feel a sense of
shame and dread as we fork over the money for yet another title.
The process of making amends and what must be in place for the process to effectively unfold [24:35] How does
shame affect our ability to
feel and express remorse, and why doing inner work
around our
shame is essential preparatory work for rebuilding relationships [27:40] Healing relationships by working with our 4 R's: resentments, respects, regrets, requests [30:33] The willingness to be vulnerable and why emotional responsiveness plays an essential role [31:16] How masculine and feminine typologies, expectations, and gender norms affect our expressions of vulnerability, and how to unpack what lies beneath [34:28] Differences in communication styles between the masculine and feminine poles of a relationship, and how communication styles affect not only our primary relationships, but our familiar relationships and friendships, too.
Feelings around intimacy, loss, and
shame which manifest as depression and anxiety are often central themes.
You might
feel a sense of
shame around your relatives for choosing a partner they didn't like, or for giving up on a partner they did like.
We can often experience
feelings of
shame around these reactions, but we all experience this when we can not reach the people that matter most to us.