But
feeling the anger upset him all the more.
Not exact matches
Wow we lost to barca no one saw that coming did they, I don't
feel upset one bit at the loss just
anger at certain treatment of players and the usual favouritism as always.
Try to engage in your young toddler's
feelings, confirming them («I can understand that you are angry») and try to comfort him rather than getting
upset about how the
anger is expressed.
I'm guessing these parents have
felt anger toward their kids but are scared of the word «angry» so they would use different words, like «
upset» «frustrated» «lost my cool» or «impatient».
There is not much outward
anger in his
feelings so I struggle to know how to deal with the situation as I
feel silly saying to him «You are angry» when he shows no signs at all of being angry or
upset — he seems to just do it for the fun of it.
Express your
upset by talking about what you
feel under the
anger, and what you need, rather than attacking your partner: «Getting the kids ready and out of the house always
feels stressful to me... I would like to brainstorm about how we can make the whole thing easier... right now I
feel very alone with it, like I have to make it all happen... I would love to
feel like we are equal partners in this.»
It's natural for your kids» strong reactions to trigger your own
feelings of fear,
anger, and uncertainty — causing you to get
upset, too.
When she «loses» it, she is able to tell us why she's
upset and even what emotion she's
feeling —
anger, sadness, frustration, etc..
Children most often have tantrums when they are
feeling overwhelmed and unable to express their frustration,
anger or
upset feelings.
So instead of giving them a «talking to», when they are
upset we make a safe place for them to get their
feelings out (through tantrums, crying or expressing
anger and hurt
feelings) and we «listen».
However, if the
feelings that the thumb or pacifier are covering are heavy ones, like sadness, loneliness, or
anger, then your attention will make your child
feel upset.
This
anger could be the result of you being pissed off when you were a kid, and you held it in and stuffed it down so that you didn't
feel upset anymore.
The Chakra energy balance is not specifically
felt, but it's weaknesses are reflected in physical illness, joint aches and pains, emotional
upset,
anger, lashing out behavior, difficult personal communication, and more.
This whole situation
upset me... in my perfect world, children would never have to carry guilt for their screwed up parents... and parents would never dump their self
anger and regret upon a child... if Paula's mom had not been so messed up and selfish she would have been able to see what she was doing to her beautiful child who was desperate for her love and attention... This was a situation of the cycling of bad parenting down through generations but I do
feel hopeful that Paula was able to break some of these patterns in her future with Hana and Julian...
For some children who have been traumatised,
feelings of pain and
anger can sometimes be seen in their behaviour, for instance, some children may tantrum or show high levels of emotional reactivity (eg become
upset very easily).
Feelings of pain and
anger can also be seen in the behaviour of some children who have been traumatised, in the form of tantrums, aggression or high levels of emotional reactivity (e.g., becoming very
upset quite easily).
Attendees were informed that children do not want to
upset or
anger their parents so they may not share all their
feelings.
Do you struggle with
anger and
feel like you can't get information across without getting
upset?
Allow your child to grieve and express all of their
feelings, including their
anger and
upset towards you.