Writing a birth plan can help you to understand your expectations, hopes and
feelings about giving birth.
Let me be the first to say it is perfectly OK to feel HOWEVER you are
feeling about giving birth AGAIN.
Not exact matches
Let me add I have not seen your 3 posts asking me
about how I
feel about it before now when I copied and posted those above and If I had seen before I would have answered you with out any hesitation but did not because I moved to other blogs... And to satisfy you interest my saying I do not like it as a cultural habit but if religion failed to stop it and had to regulate it then what can I do
about it... people can still lie and
give you an elder age and how can you tell if 9 - 10or more at villages there are no
birth certificate issued nor villagers interested to obtain it... what can you tell from their teeth like sheep??
I've never
given birth or even been pregnant, but just thinking
about what it must
feel like to have your baby ripped away from you breaks my heart into a million pieces.
They may not have been as crass as Trump, who
gave Melania a week to «whip herself back into the pre-baby shape» but they certainly had complicated
feelings about how pregnancy,
birth and a newborn impacts a relationship.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may
feel something is wrong with THEM and clam up
about it while quietly
giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they
give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to
birth my next two at home).
I
felt like — wait; I have just gone through
giving birth (pain), starting to breastfeed (more pain) and now I have to worry
about mastitis (even more pain...)!
# 8 really surprised me, Often after
giving birth moms are required to take soups stuffed with lots of vegeas, take milk and fruits to boost milk production, I slightly agree with beer although it
gives you a tipsy
feeling, the presence of malt in it really do help, I have read few articles
about it.
Recently I shared my story
about my mental health after pregnancy, how I have been
feeling anxious and horrible since I
gave birth to Alex in October.
I always
felt that if she could do it then I could probably do it too, but I was very worried
about giving birth.
You may
feel a little self - conscious
about any lumps and bumps after
giving birth, but this is completely natural and very few people will simply snap back into shape immediately, so
give yourself time to adjust.
The difference with doing my LOVE YOUR
BIRTH childbirth education course is that you are guided by a professional through your journey and are
given the tools necessary for really preparing yourself for the unknowns of labor, childbirth and beyond as best that you can, and
feel deeply positive
about it - even embrace the unexpected, when things did not turn out as planned.
Having just
given birth to my second, I have very strong
feelings about what I do see is the fanatical insistence upon nursing and rooming in by various consultants.
Someone who has never attended a peaceful home
birth where the woman is completely focused on what she is
feeling and is conscious to the fact that she is
about to
give life, will never understand how
birth is not an sickness and that it should not be treated like so.
What makes me sick are the people who encouraged this woman to try something for which she was not a good candidate, and who lied to her
about the safety of same, and who pushed her into
feeling that how she
gave birth was so important, and who are now neglecting her when she needs them and trying to sweep her and her baby under the rug and pretend her loss didn't occur because it doesn't fit in with their «natural
birth is the only way» mindset.
It
gives me so much more hope for when we have another... The hope that I'll bond quicker, that I'll be a little more «seasoned» and confident in being a mother, and that I won't have (as much) guilt
about not
feeling the way I'm «supposed» to
feel after
giving birth.
Find out how the environment you
give birth in, your mindset and your expectations can influence the kind of
birth you have, and be inspired by the voices of real women, who tell you the truth
about what
giving birth really
feels like.
As I prepared for the
birth of my baby, I
felt confident in my body's ability to
give birth, but I was not so sure
about my ability to breastfeed.
All these things I
feel contributed to our failure to get the breast feeding going and after being bombarded with information
about how «breast is best» in the lead up to
giving birth I
felt like a complete failure when it didn't work out.
I
feel that women and their partners do much better with privacy and intimacy during the
birth process and that, my role is to sometimes protect that privacy and intimacy first of all by educating them that that might be really important and to talk
about you know the effect both positive and negative
about um, support during that time can be or even just letting people know hey, we're in labour, the Facebook kind of thing but you know keep it quiet, keep it down, don't fritter the energy away by drawing other people to it or drawing the expectation that something's happening rather than just letting something evolve... I think guarding the space by keeping the space as calm and quiet and private as possible is key and
giving people tools to do that during the prenatal time to deal with over eager family members or friends.
It's made me
feel much better
about giving birth where friends and family try to do the opposite.
Lounging in a warm tub or bubbling Jacuzzi is a relaxing,
feel - good experience — and, for many women, that doesn't change when you're
about to
give birth.
Many of us hold this thought that we have to go on a crash diet soon after
giving birth, or we have to have mommy make - overs to
feel good
about ourselves again.
This posting really hit home... I wish someone would have sat me down before I
gave birth to tell me
about how I may
feel afterwards... Pregnancy is tough..
But in hearing
about the success we had (and the comparable
birth this would have been in a hospital environment) they
feel such options should be at least made available to all women
giving birth.
I heard so many stories
about mothers getting this overwhelming «in love»
feeling after
giving birth to their babies, and I really hoped that a natural
birth would accomplish that for me.
If you're
feeling more anxiety
about going home with your double blessings than you were
about giving birth to...
But not everyone
feels comfortable
giving birth at home and every mom should
feel good
about making the choice that's right for her.
The ability to move, eat, and be in an intimate setting (not hospital) made me
feel more confident
about giving birth than the availability of drugs; 2.
How do they really
feel about childbirth and watching their partners
give birth to their child?
For me, breastfeeding went from something I was pretty ambivalent
about (before being a mom myself) to something I
felt very strongly
about almost immediately after
giving birth.
Changes to the look and
feel of the hair is just one of those things, that doctors didn't warn you
about following
giving birth.
Baby Blues affects
about 80 % of mothers and this is when you
feel weepy, moody, tired and / or anxious during the first week after
giving birth, these
feelings usually disappear within a few days.
About halfway through now and we are onto the next task that a mother must face soon after
giving birth to her baby and that is the many, many, many questions that are asked by the doctors and nurses treating you, which can
feel relentless and be very tiring to constantly answer.
After
giving birth,
about 70 - 80 % of women experience an episode of baby blues,
feelings of depression, anger, anxiety and guilt lasting for several days.
As I sat there on my ice pack and
felt pain in places I didn't know could
feel pain, a rather stern nurse
gave me a primer on what hemorrhoids were, how they could occur after
birth, and what to do
about them...
Likewise, after
giving birth, you may
feel a similar instinct to talk
about your
birth story and experience.
Last week I was
feeling completely stressed out, overwhelmed and honestly nervous
about that whole
giving birth thing.
Luckily, the jacket was on sale, which made it a little more palatable for Mr. Wonderful, who is worried that once I
give birth, I'll
feel the same way
about my new pink clothes as I currently do
about my olive - colored ones.
It can hardly be argued that European ladies do not even think
about marriage until they
feel that they have achieved enough success or that they want to settle down and
give birth to one or two children.
From Andy having a wife who is
about to
give birth and a daughter that needs him at her talent show, Fist Fight tries very hard to make you laugh, tug at your heart - strings, and make you
feel sympathy for everyone involved, in just 90 minutes.
I'm more impressed when a woman after
giving birth to a child or an overweight man does this for no reason other than to
feel better
about themselves and to live longer.
I
felt the same way
about The Fountain, the movie Aronofsky made when he and Rachel Weisz got married and
gave birth to their son.
That is what a very skeptical and resistant Marlo thinks as she dismisses the idea — until one day, as she is driving her screaming kids around and
feeling the pangs of being
about to
give birth to another, she pulls out the reference they
gave her and makes a call.
We see and
feel the abject poverty of a young woman
about to
give birth in a dark, sparsely furnished room she shares with her sister.
Kelle Hampton writes with such breathtaking honesty that I actually
felt as if I were in the room with her when she
gave birth to Nella... and I cried along with her as her initial fears
about baby Nella proved true.
A female may
feel too weak and tired after
giving birth to go outside to relieve herself, and she may also
feel anxious
about leaving her newborn puppies.
Some vets will not perform abortions if the mother is close to
giving birth, so you should consult your vet and consider your own
feelings about this possibility ahead of time.
Regardless of how you
feel about the series today, or even how you
felt about it then, there is no denying that Call of Duty 4: Modern Warfare is one of the most influential games of the past generation,
giving birth to so many of the mechanics and clichés we associate with the genre today.
No matter how supposedly terrific her «relationship» with her stepchild is, it is extremely unlikely that those
feelings come close to how she
feels about the children to whom she
gave birth.