It will be important for you to sort out
your feelings about nursing while pregnant.
I am sure each mother's story will be of help to other women who share some of
her feelings about nursing.
Thank you for sharing your story and particularly for sharing Tere's
feelings about the nursing struggle.
also wanted to suggest the book Adventures in Tandem Nursing — it really helped me clarify
my feelings about nursing during pregnancy, and tandeming, and how i could gently set the limits i needed while still respecting my child's needs.
I'm not sure how
I feel about nursing them at the same time either since I know a newborn's suck is totally different from a toddler's — like you said.
This can affect how
you feel about nursing, and your young one might not like the change in supply or flavor of the milk.
How do
you feel about Nurse Midwives?
It's natural to go back and forth in how
you feel about nursing your toddler.
The benefits outweigh any stigma you may
feel about nursing a baby who can walk or talk.
So, I just let what others say and
feel about nursing go.
(I'm honestly not entirely sure how
I feel about nursing a 6 year old, but I'm keeping my mind open.
We tapped 13 women who tandem nursed — either with twins or with a baby and toddler — and found out how they really
felt about nursing two at once.
You need to consider how you feel and how your baby
feels about nursing.
Not exact matches
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and
nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to
feel guilty», women getting «the look» for
nursing in public, or
feeling weird
about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
It is my hope that as a result of segments like the one on 20/20 and the fact that more women are
feeling comfortable speaking out
about long - term
nursing (as evidenced by all of the comments and Tweets I received), that others will not
feel like they need to be «closet nursers» nor
feel pressured by family, friends or society in general to wean before they
feel it is right for them and their child.
I
feel awful
about this, and if the trip is long (30 - 45 minutes like it is to my Mom's house) I'll stop midway,
nurse and start up again.
No matter what happens, I
feel good
about the
nursing relationship Ava and I have had and know that we both have shared some precious memories together over the years.
Or even the fact that I know so many other wonderful moms who stopped
nursing earlier than I but I
felt like I had to lie
about my own situation to not seem weird.
(There's something
about nursing outside that
feels so natural and earthy to me.
Apparently, it's national breastfeeding week, which I suppose partially explains Olivia Wilde's couture - ballgown -
nursing - in - a-diner «glamour shot»... I'm
feeling conflicted
about that.
Meanwhile, a heated debate happened in a Facebook group I belong to for mamas who also happen to be «geeks»
about whether or not a husband's request that his wife, the original poster, refrain from putting photos of her and their child
nursing, lest his colleagues and employers see these photos and
feel uncomfortable.
Others said they
felt less anxious
about the birth, more confident
about bringing up a child or encouraged in thinking
about what is important for the baby, as a result of their interaction with the Family
Nurse.
It saddens me that some of the most confident women I know have
felt very self - conscious
nursing in public, particularly on the first few occasions, concerned
about the reaction from their friends, the public, and business owners alike.
Despite my previous confidence
about nursing in public, more recently, I have reverted to
feeling anxious at the reaction of others.
If you are
feeling overwhelmed by your child's demand or are worried
about sore nipples, how long to
nurse, whether you are
nursing enough or other concerns, seek out advice.
The boy «has come to
feel ashamed and guilty
about breastfeeding as a result of his being removed from his mother's care due to their
nursing.
Over time I know I will
feel better
about it though, because I have been able to spend quality time with my boys in ways other than
nursing.
The
nurses and childbirth educators who lead these classes have seen dads in a variety of emotional states, so don't
feel embarrassed or hesitant
about asking them for help.
Here are 7 adorable
nursing covers if you, too, suffer from being either embarrassed to
nurse in public or embarrassed
about feeling that way!
You won't have to worry anymore
about the pain and discomfort you've been
feeling during your
nursing sessions when you have this handy product ready and waiting to help you out.
I
feel very unsure
about nursing because with my older son I was convinced that I wasn't producing enough for him (I could only pump 1/2 an ounce at a time, but I realize baby gets more than the pump).
Allows you to get out and
about providing you with the privacy you need to
feel comfortable
nursing in public.
Now that we're
about to have guests coming and going, I have been trying to figure out a hassle free way of
nursing without an abundance of pillows to support me and my son but it
feels pretty awkward.
If you've heard another mom worrying
about it or have been cautioned by someone else to avoid eating honey while you're
nursing your baby, you may
feel a little bit confused as to why.
There are those who find it offensive or
feel uncomfortable
about mothers
nursing their babies.
How do I
feel about our two - and - a-bit-year-old still
nursing?
Making Peace with What Is It took a few months before I
felt fully confident
about nursing.
I can recall spending many
nursing sessions reading to the older children or talking to them
about the day at pre-school, simultaneously keeping them in view, engaging them and soothing
feelings of jealousy toward the baby.
I just wrote out an e-mail today to a girl who was
feeling discouraged
about pumping at work with some «insider tips» on
nursing — like the hands - free bustier!
For those who prefer more coverage or worry
about portruding,
nursing bras leave them
feeling unprotected.
A. My mom is a
nurse and my sister has two little girls so I
feel like I often go to them when I have questions
about Molly.
If tandem
nursing becomes too overwhelming, you don't have to
feel guilty
about weaning your older child.
Antibiotics can help treat the infection, but one of the worst things
about mastitis is that the best way to make it
feel better is to keep emptying the breast, and
nursing with mastitis is extraordinarily painful.
Most people don't know
about the hard parts of
nursing — the chapped nipples, swollen breasts, and
feeling of having no time for yourself (and, of course, the judgmental eyes when you need to
nurse in public.)
With my daughter, I
felt so much guilt
about not being able to breastfeed her exclusively that I spent hours feeding her with a supplemental
nursing system and also pumping around the clock every day.
So I started feeding him a bottle after
nursing, and
felt no stigma, no shame or worry
about my mothering capabilities.
If a mom is
feeling stressed out
about a life changing event such as a separation or divorce, just the mere presence of these thoughts in her mind while
nursing her baby could slow her let - down reflex.
I
felt terrible
about having to buy formula, as the
nurses had warned that this was a terrible choice for my baby.
So far I have freaked out
about doubling the amount of children in our house, where the babies are going to sleep, cloth diapering, starting completely over with baby clothes instead of trying to sort through what would be usable,
nursing two babies at the same time, buying a bigger house, how I'm going to drive four kids around (thank God we just replaced my husband's car in January with a full size SUV with a usable third row), traveling with four kids, what happens if my husband has to start traveling for work, getting the big kids to and from school with two babies in tow, how the big kids are going to
feel once there are two new babies in the house, how I»M going to
feel with two more babies in the house, and so on and so forth.
If you are not
feeling good
about something you consumed and are that worried, then worse case scenario you give baby some frozen milk that I'm sure you have stored in your freezer and wait until the next day to
nurse.