She learned to appreciate that Pete's differences in thoughts,
feelings and behaviors did not mean a lack of love on his part.
Not exact matches
We're all drawn to people who make us
feel special,
and being listened to is the one
behavior that will
do it for us every time.
Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert
and the author of «Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss
Behavior and Thrive in Your Job,» says you don't have to be best friends with your manager, «but you can achieve optimal creativity
and success if you
feel that you're liked, supported,
and respected by them.»
Not only
does this make the employee
feel recognized
and appreciated, it also reinforces the positive
behavior for the entire workforce.
Typically used to explain away someone's poor
behavior, like the top salesperson who treats people badly or the great engineer who is rude during meetings, the loose translation of this statement is, «Even though it's my job as a boss to address this issue,
and I wouldn't let anyone else behave that way, I don't
feel like dealing with it.»
The quits ratio is highly correlated with how Americans
feel about the job market
and is especially helpful because it separates
behavior from intentions, showing «what people are
doing, not what they say they'll
do,» Colas said.
I've recently noticed a significant amount of mania - like
behavior in which investors simply ignore valuations
and it
does feel like we're in the euphoric stage of the bull market in which everyone can make money from stocks
and the low interest - rate environment has helped perpetuate it.
Reality therapy, developed by psychiatrist William Glasser, is an action - oriented therapy that aims at enabling people to change their
behavior so that it will fulfill their basic needs (to give
and receive love
and to
feel worthwhile to themselves
and others) in the real world of relationships in ways that
do not deprive others of the possibility of fulfilling their needs.
We take our inhuman
behavior; we bless it with religious phrases
and religious jargon; then we beat on one another in the name of God so that Catholics
and Protestants
feel justified in killing each other in Ireland,
and Christians
and Moslems
do likewise in Lebanon.
Of course that means continually examining one's own
feelings and behavior in relation to one's own «feminine»
and «masculine» side: How
do I relate to persons of the other sex?
The
behavior appropriate to self - will is self - expression:
doing what one wants to
do, being emancipated from the restraints
and represssions of old - fashioned times, acting the way one
feels.
The speaker is betting his or her life that no God exists who whould hold you accountable for your beliefs
and behavior if you didn't
feel the need for him.
So if you find my beliefs wrong — then atleast know I am
doing my best to keep distance from those that
feel they are religious
and devout — but their
behavior, words
and action > speak different.
So also
do they who straddle the fence between God
and ordinary
behavior; these latter suffer from an inability to
feel at home among either world - lovers or God - lovers.
So, something traumatic happens to you
and instead of grieving that
and going through that process, you stuff all those
feelings in, you hide behind the mask of emotional strength, you keep taking care of everybody else, you keep working,
and then you start engaging in self - medicating
behaviors: you start binge - eating, you put a lot of focus on your physical appearance, you
do a lot of makeup, hair, clothing, compulsive shopping, you start picking up these other health problems associated with these
behaviors.
At the same time many of them are oppressed by the
feeling that theological study
does not sufficiently consider the changes that have taken place in human thought
and behavior in the course of a revolutionary century.
Yet, there is clear evidence that there are memories, wishes,
and feelings that we can not recall at will that
do influence our
behavior.
They griped
and complained behind his back when he
did not follow through on his responsibilities or when he came to a meeting drunk, but everyone covered up for him
and did not want to hurt his
feelings» by confronting his
behavior or asking him to resign.
Assertive
behavior is defined as an honest
and appropriate expression of
feelings in which a person asserts her or his own rights in ways that
do not violate the rights of others.
Maybe there's lots of folks out there not bothered by that
behavior, but that doesn't affect my
feelings towards child abusers
and their enablers.
The latter regulates
behavior and conduct, while the former has to
do with the riches of the mind, the
feelings of the heart,
and the disposition of the will.
It
does this by creating a climate of acceptance — of
feelings and impulses (around which irrational guilt often forms)--
and by confronting the young person with the need to change irresponsible, self - other hurting
behavior (the source of appropriate guilt).
Fans have to stop abusing players who
do not meet their expectation in games............ it is irresponsible
behavior and unacceptable...... how will you
feel if someone abuses you because of a bad
and challenging day at work..........
I'm fourteen years old starting my road to recovery
and it's very fearing
and to know that I have to live with it scares the living daylight a out of me I can't speak much about my cognitive
behavior therapy because I've only really
doing assements but I'm writing this for myself
and yourself I haven't always been religious but in times of fear
and need know that you aren't alone God is always there
and even wen your in your worse state I usally just lay down meditate a bit
and speak to my father God
and he always gives me a sense of relief this past week I
feel like I have been a constant circle of fear but I would always freak out
and be scared for no reason but just know that more than 44 million people have this you are br alone
and one day you will meet your savior Jesus christ he put you in a test of life
and he's going to congratulate you, you must wait for him
and on another note if any one knows how to deal with the fear of the future or staying in a constant state please email me at
[email protected] thank you so much everyone
and there is a recovery maybe but today or Tommie but you will overcome
He was honest with me, too,
and I remembering
feeling at the time that our level of honesty
and shared bad
behavior gave us a certain special something that connected us more than other couples — Yeah, we both cheated, we know the warning signs, we know the damage it
does and we don't need to go there again.
There are some things where I don't have quite as much confidence - gentle discipline, for instance, because of less support for it in person
and the fact that it has so many variables (working w / a child's
behavior has much more grey area than «I always comfort my baby when she wakes up in the night,» which makes it more of a challenge)- so somethimes I
do feel judged for my discipline choices,
and sometimes I don't live up to my own standards - making me more suseptable (sp?)
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to
do with breastfeeding,
and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned
behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may
feel something is wrong with THEM
and clam up about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004
and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
You can't in any way control the way your child
feels about things — all you can
do is give him consequences
and hold him accountable for his
behavior.
A note for parents who are worried they're too permissive: Maybe you
feel that you don't set enough limits or that you give your child too much free reign,
and her
behavior is starting to cross the line.
In part 2 of this two - part series, James discusses exactly what to
do when your children get in trouble for fighting at school or at home —
and the right kinds of consequences to give them so they learn to use appropriate
behavior instead of lashing out when they
feel like hitting someone the next time.
He may
feel better for a time after his session, but if he doesn't change his
behavior and do his homework, he's going to
feel just as bad the next time he fails a test.
Pay attention: Instead of dropping their kids off for practice, parents should stick around if they can; they should encourage their kids to report inappropriate
behavior by teammates or coaches - whether it is «locker room talk» demeaning of women or girls, or anti-Muslim, anti-immigrant comments or
behavior - regardless of whether it is directed at a teammate or not,
and made to
feel safe in
doing so; they should pay attention to a coach's
behavior at practices
and games to make sure they are not participating in or tolerating bullying, teasing or abuse of any kind.
Guys from very yong age educate themselves about woman in order to learn how to gain their interest but sadly we don't see many women study men sexual nature or over all
behavior since guys chase after them anyways
and they don't
feel the need
and this is source of many problems.
We don't punish him because instead we're trying to empathize with the needs behind his
behaviors and to help him start to identify his
feelings.
It's so important to find like - minded parents who can offer their «been there,
done that» stories, emotional scaffolding,
and specific suggestions for when you
feel confused as to what to
do about your child's
behavior, or when you question whether this new thing you're trying, like positive discipline instead of spanking, for example, is going to work out in the long term, or how exactly to keep those family attachment bonds strong as your children grow, or how to move forward when your family encounters challenging life circumstances.
Either she doesn't WANT to follow her parents, or she can't manage her
feelings and thus can't manage her
behavior.
Is he basically trying to talk,
and I can diffuse some of this
behavior by
doing baby sign language - which honestly
feels a little silly to me?
Praise your child's good
behavior and traits often,
and help them realize how good it
feels inside to
do a good deed or be generous with another person.
This
does not mean that you agree with their
feelings or their
behaviors, but that you understand they're upset
and you're willing to listen.
It gives the parent release of anger
and frustration, makes them
feel they're
doing something in response to the bad
behavior (sense of control) that they falsely believe works.
Take personal responsibility for your thoughts,
behaviors,
and feelings and don't tell your child that he — nor anyone else — has the power to make you
feel anything.
What's confusing for parents is that thoughts
and feelings do influence
behavior.
If we can help children manage these
behaviors and understand why they
do the things they
do, understand their
feelings,
and overcome maladaptive coping or survival skills, we are helping them to one day become productive citizens.
Deep inside, the child is just repeating the
behavior and words he has learned at home
and doesn't really care if someone gets hurt, because why would he since nobody around him cares about his
feelings?
Handling these bad
behaviors now will leave you
feeling grateful later if / when you see other kids
doing the wrong thing
and behaving horribly.
Forced apologies don't really change
behavior (in children or adults)
and only make the child
feel shameful
and angry.
Sometimes we don't even notice the most important lesson we're imparting to our children: how to manage their
feelings,
and therefore their
behavior.
Telling children which
behaviors you
do —
and don't — want to see actually makes kids
feel more secure, because it reminds them that you're in charge
and guides them to the areas where they should be developing their skills
and independence (such as playing with the plastic tea set
and not trying to touch the real one.)
Young kids who engage in destructive or dangerous
behaviors and don't seem to
feel bad about it might have pre-psychopathic tendencies, The Atlantic comments.
Session IV: Building Courage, Redirecting Misbehavior - The Think -
Feel -
Do cycle - Courage
and self - esteem - The 5 goals of teen
behavior - Eliminating power struggles