This concept is what psychologists refer to as «transference» — when someone redirects
feelings and behaviors felt in childhood to a substitute relationship in adulthood.
'' — when someone redirects
feelings and behaviors felt in childhood to a substitute relationship in adulthood.
Not exact matches
«Solo skills» represents
behaviors you can learn that are useful on your own, like to focus on a solo task, to meditate, to avoid
feeling bored,
and so on.
Whether they're innate or learned, there are a number of signals
and behaviors people use when they
feel that they're a leader, or at least are trying to convince you that they are.
Irresistible people are great at reading other people,
and they adjust their
behavior and style to make others
feel comfortable.
«The abuse is
behavior that allows the abuser to
feel in control
and powerful
and there is a disregard for the
feelings of the abused.
«We investigate whether emotional shocks, experienced by a highly - educated group of individuals, have any impact on these individuals» professional
behavior which, by law, should be free of personal
feelings and biases,» says the report.
We're all drawn to people who make us
feel special,
and being listened to is the one
behavior that will do it for us every time.
In a 2007 address at the University of Florida, Buffett said, «Most
behavior is habitual,
and they say that the chains of habit are too light to be
felt until they are too heavy to be broken.»
By going deeper
and understanding the reward Tad was seeking from his
behavior —
feeling successful — Perlow was able to engineer an office environment that provided this
feeling while sparing Tad the physical
and psychological toll that constant connectivity can bring.
When these assumptions
feel real, our
behaviors are motivated to fulfill the prophecy,
and in hindsight we believe the assumption was true the entire time.
To investigate the impact of not looking our best on our
behavior, Stanford professor Margaret Neale
and PhD student Peter Belmi asked a group of both women
and men to write about a time they
felt either attractive or unattractive
and then quizzed them on their attitudes to inequality
and hierarchy.
These deeper leadership
behaviors and cultural practices affect how Millennials
feel about their place in the organization
and how long they choose to stay.»
When your environment, beliefs,
and behavior align, you'll
feel reward
and want to continue.
What leaders
and managers need to after are the promoters of oxytocin — figuring out the job tasks, team atmosphere,
and leadership
behaviors (like empathy
and compassion, for example) that will release the
feel - good neurochemicals in the brain, like oxytocin.
To give you an example, when I was 16 years old
and felt all hope was lost, it wasn't until I got extremely clear about getting a college scholarship for football that my daily actions
and behaviors started to change.
Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert
and the author of «Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss
Behavior and Thrive in Your Job,» says you don't have to be best friends with your manager, «but you can achieve optimal creativity
and success if you
feel that you're liked, supported,
and respected by them.»
Research has shown that the consumption of glucose enhances complex brain activities, bolstering self - control
and regulating prejudice
and aggressive
behaviors,» she writes, while also speculating that seeing
and unconsciously mimicking your dining partner may engender more positive
feelings towards them.
When we actively forgive ourselves for the actions or
behaviors that causes us to
feel shame, we can then begin to move through the
feelings and let them go.»
If a transgender employee
feels mistreated, Whalen recommends that they document the harassment, notify HR
and pursue legal action if the
behavior continues.
Trying to chase them all at once —
and inevitably failing to attain them simultaneously — will trigger
feelings of guilt
and shame, ultimately leading to more negative
behavior.
You can see the ethical dilemma in a basic - income experiment: You're toying with people's financial health,
and, by judging your endpoints based on
feelings, you're tinkering with
and assessing human
behavior.
Not only does this make the employee
feel recognized
and appreciated, it also reinforces the positive
behavior for the entire workforce.
Typically used to explain away someone's poor
behavior, like the top salesperson who treats people badly or the great engineer who is rude during meetings, the loose translation of this statement is, «Even though it's my job as a boss to address this issue,
and I wouldn't let anyone else behave that way, I don't
feel like dealing with it.»
Take Off the Masks
and Connect
Feel Shameful about Your Destructive
Behaviors?
Talk to your sales team, customer service representatives,
and anyone else in your organization who has direct contact with your customers
and can give insight into their thoughts,
feelings,
and behaviors.
No doubt it will take time to repair the deep mistrust
and reservations many Europeans
feel about Trump himself, his controversial declarations during the presidential campaign,
and his erratic
behavior since the election.
Not surprisingly, those who
feel overwhelming financial stress have poor money management
behaviors, with only 8 % of this group having an emergency fund, a mere 14 % comfortable with the amount of debt they are carrying, 18 % having a handle on their cash flow, 53 % paying their bills on time
and 34 % carrying a loan or hardship withdrawal from their 401 (k) plan.
Morin's post focused on the concept of mental strength, how mentally strong people avoid negative
behaviors —
feeling sorry for themselves, resenting other people's success,
and dwelling on the past.
Morins post focused on the concept of mental strength, how mentally strong people avoid negative
behaviors —
feeling sorry for themselves, resenting other peoples success,
and dwelling on the past.
The quits ratio is highly correlated with how Americans
feel about the job market
and is especially helpful because it separates
behavior from intentions, showing «what people are doing, not what they say they'll do,» Colas said.
Interacting with the new BitPay API should
feel very familiar,
and should exhibit extremely predictable
behavior — like most other APIs on the modern web, we're modeling our API on Roy Fielding's REST architecture to reduce the complexity over other models.
Sure, the stakes are high —
and the tension may
feel even higher — but ignoring incompetence or bad
behavior only creates alienation
and a culture of mistrust.
Nancy worked with Sonja to create her «money genogram,» a visual family tree that helped her understand her personal money patterns
and her family's history
and patterns around money
behaviors, beliefs,
feelings and relationships (see my previous article).
They loved deals so much that, to make sense of their
behavior, economists were forced to distinguish between two types of value: acquisition value (the perceived worth of a new car to the buyer)
and transaction value (the
feeling that one lost or won the negotiation at the dealership).
I've recently noticed a significant amount of mania - like
behavior in which investors simply ignore valuations
and it does
feel like we're in the euphoric stage of the bull market in which everyone can make money from stocks
and the low interest - rate environment has helped perpetuate it.
They shape our actions, choices,
behaviors and feelings,
and they influence our interactions.
I understand that anti-gay religous group members may not like to see the news media air the aggressive
and outspoken members of their group because they may
feel that their
behavior is inappropriate.
If a man can merry a man
and a woman can merry a woman then why the hell can't I merry 2 wome n. I'm a streight male
and I
feel that if you will allow this kind of
behavior then why the hell a streight man can't merry as many streight woman as he can afford.
They
feel that they have some god given right to be up in everyones face with their beliefs
and then take offense when people take exception to their rude
behavior.
t is increasingly
felt that the power of the TNCs are not
and can not be sufficiently controlled by the parlimentary democracies in the West,
and the
behaviors of the TNCs in the third world countries are like an unbridled horse.
Also, I've
felt a subtile questioning of my sincerity as a Christian for not attending every service at church
and of a few other less than perfect
behaviors.
He denied, attacked my personality, blamed my past experiences for my perceptions, blamed
behavior within his church on things like deaths
and illnesses,
and threw in some non-apologies like «I'm sorry you
feel that way.»
During the process of making the behavioral assessment, the therapist decided tentatively on several therapeutic tools that he could use in helping her change her painful
behavior and feelings.
These include: the
feeling of deep trust
and at - homeness inside oneself, with others,
and in the universe; a fundamental respect for self, others,
and nature; the ability
and the inclination to give
and receive love; a lively awareness of the wonder of the commonplace — awe in the presence of a new baby, a sunset, a friendship; a philosophy of life that makes sense
and guides decisions toward responsible
behavior; a dedication with enthusiasm to the larger good of persons
and society.
These therapies contrast with all the «insight therapies» derived from Freud, which regard dynamic inner changes in attitudes,
feelings,
and self - perception as the primary means of therapeutic change including changes in
behavior.
After a half - dozen sessions, the assessment pinpointed these
behavior difficulties which became the goals of therapy — her unassertiveness; her inability to express her
feelings, which the therapist saw as leading to a build - up of anger, resentment,
and guilt (about her anger); the fact that she had never experienced orgasm;
and her low opinion of
Constructive
feelings and behavior flow from the rational belief.
Reality therapy, developed by psychiatrist William Glasser, is an action - oriented therapy that aims at enabling people to change their
behavior so that it will fulfill their basic needs (to give
and receive love
and to
feel worthwhile to themselves
and others) in the real world of relationships in ways that do not deprive others of the possibility of fulfilling their needs.
As he begins to
feel a sense of belonging, i.e., to derive emotional satisfactions from the group, the group is able to influence his attitude
and behavior along group - approved lines.