Effects of Ideal Partner Preferences Beyond Attraction and Relationships: How do ideal partner preferences affect people's
feelings and behaviors in other domains?
Drawing on extensive research of thousands of couples, The Gottman Institute discovered that rituals impacted couples» thoughts,
feelings and behaviors in a positive way.
Instinctual attachment
feelings and behaviors in infants and toddlers are activated by cues or signals — social releasers — from caregivers (examples include smiles, eye contact, holding, rocking, touching and feeding).
Encourage reflective practices, supporting staff (individually, in teams, or group) in examining
their feelings and behaviors in working with children and families who are culturally and linguistically diverse
Undergraduates»
feelings and behaviors in and after the dissolution of romantic relationships: An examination of sex differences and the intimacy of romantic relationships: Japanese Journal of Experimental Social Psychology Vol 40 (1) Jul 2000, 38 - 49.
Characters express
feelings and behaviors in cutscenes that mirror or explain their combat traits.
It derives from a collection of social - emotional skills that help children understand and express
feelings and behaviors in ways that facilitate positive relationships, including active listening, self - regulation, and effective communication.
Of course that means continually examining one's own
feelings and behavior in relation to one's own «feminine» and «masculine» side: How do I relate to persons of the other sex?
Challenge Thoughts, Ask Questions Bowman uses the triad of thinking,
feeling and behavior in her counseling.
Not exact matches
«The abuse is
behavior that allows the abuser to
feel in control
and powerful
and there is a disregard for the
feelings of the abused.
In a 2007 address at the University of Florida, Buffett said, «Most
behavior is habitual,
and they say that the chains of habit are too light to be
felt until they are too heavy to be broken.»
When these assumptions
feel real, our
behaviors are motivated to fulfill the prophecy,
and in hindsight we believe the assumption was true the entire time.
These deeper leadership
behaviors and cultural practices affect how Millennials
feel about their place
in the organization
and how long they choose to stay.»
What leaders
and managers need to after are the promoters of oxytocin — figuring out the job tasks, team atmosphere,
and leadership
behaviors (like empathy
and compassion, for example) that will release the
feel - good neurochemicals
in the brain, like oxytocin.
Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert
and the author of «Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss
Behavior and Thrive
in Your Job,» says you don't have to be best friends with your manager, «but you can achieve optimal creativity
and success if you
feel that you're liked, supported,
and respected by them.»
You can see the ethical dilemma
in a basic - income experiment: You're toying with people's financial health,
and, by judging your endpoints based on
feelings, you're tinkering with
and assessing human
behavior.
Talk to your sales team, customer service representatives,
and anyone else
in your organization who has direct contact with your customers
and can give insight into their thoughts,
feelings,
and behaviors.
I've recently noticed a significant amount of mania - like
behavior in which investors simply ignore valuations
and it does
feel like we're
in the euphoric stage of the bull market
in which everyone can make money from stocks
and the low interest - rate environment has helped perpetuate it.
They
feel that they have some god given right to be up
in everyones face with their beliefs
and then take offense when people take exception to their rude
behavior.
t is increasingly
felt that the power of the TNCs are not
and can not be sufficiently controlled by the parlimentary democracies
in the West,
and the
behaviors of the TNCs
in the third world countries are like an unbridled horse.
He denied, attacked my personality, blamed my past experiences for my perceptions, blamed
behavior within his church on things like deaths
and illnesses,
and threw
in some non-apologies like «I'm sorry you
feel that way.»
During the process of making the behavioral assessment, the therapist decided tentatively on several therapeutic tools that he could use
in helping her change her painful
behavior and feelings.
These include: the
feeling of deep trust
and at - homeness inside oneself, with others,
and in the universe; a fundamental respect for self, others,
and nature; the ability
and the inclination to give
and receive love; a lively awareness of the wonder of the commonplace — awe
in the presence of a new baby, a sunset, a friendship; a philosophy of life that makes sense
and guides decisions toward responsible
behavior; a dedication with enthusiasm to the larger good of persons
and society.
These therapies contrast with all the «insight therapies» derived from Freud, which regard dynamic inner changes
in attitudes,
feelings,
and self - perception as the primary means of therapeutic change including changes
in behavior.
Reality therapy, developed by psychiatrist William Glasser, is an action - oriented therapy that aims at enabling people to change their
behavior so that it will fulfill their basic needs (to give
and receive love
and to
feel worthwhile to themselves
and others)
in the real world of relationships
in ways that do not deprive others of the possibility of fulfilling their needs.
These legacies include deep attitudes
and behaviors which
feel «right» to each individual because they were «caught» — learned — so early
in life.
Good - me
feelings are learned
in relationships where
behavior produces satisfactions
and security.
We take our inhuman
behavior; we bless it with religious phrases
and religious jargon; then we beat on one another
in the name of God so that Catholics
and Protestants
feel justified
in killing each other
in Ireland,
and Christians
and Moslems do likewise
in Lebanon.
But it is one thing to accept the idea of God
in my mind,
and quite another to let the presence of God penetrate my being, take root
in my body
and inform my
feelings and behaviors — for God to be alive
in my heart.
It is
in these great subconscious areas, more than of the surface, that
feeling plays the dominant role
in our
behavior and living.
I have seen people use the words of Jesus «judge not» as a shield to allow themselves to participate
in whatever destructive
behaviors they
feel like indulging
in, (including child neglect, spousal abuse, drug abuse, fraud,
and adultery).
I certainly like the
feelings and moral
behaviors that holidays such as Christmas bring out
in believers.
Each partner should test his
behavior in the marriage
in terms of how well he uses opportunities to make his mate
feel more adequate, attractive,
and lovable as a male or a female.
In a little lesser degree the
behavior of lower vertebrates allows the conclusion that these animals have sensations,
feelings and memory.
Thus, if the mother chooses to accept this shocking event
and reaffirm genuinely her belief
and trust
in a loving God, that experience, which is initially hers, becomes ours as it is actualized through her words,
behavior,
feelings, presence, etc..
This type of
behavior is fine
in moderation but only leaves us
feeling more exhausted
and worn out
in the end when we overindulge.
What the upheaval
in changing roles
and identities is making clear is that the
feelings and behaviors traditionally labeled either «feminine» or «masculine» are not characteristic of either sex alone but are human responses.
Couples need to be looking for «patterns» of
behavior regarding how they interact
in their relationship
and how they
feel toward their spouse.
Moreover, the spiritual but not religious reflect the «me» generation of self - obsessed, truth - is - whatever - you -
feel - it - to - be thinking, where big, historic, demanding institutions that have expectations about
behavior, attitudes
and observance
and rules are jettisoned yet nothing positive is put
in replacement.
We are always amused by the ignorance of Christians who
feel it necessary to read or tell LGBT people what the Bible «says
in plain English» (presumably about LGBT people
and / or
behavior).
A small group provides a catalytic learning situation with... emotional involvement
and safety, under the guidance of a leader - facilitator,
in which intellectual,
feeling and behavior learning can best take place.
But he
feels bad about it afterwards,
and sends the boy a video message
in which he blames «society» for his bad
behavior.
The director of this program describes why they prefer to use the growth group approach: «It is
in the dynamics of a small group that we experience the interactions,
feeling responses,
and behavior patterns of our own family's relationships —
and others.
So, something traumatic happens to you
and instead of grieving that
and going through that process, you stuff all those
feelings in, you hide behind the mask of emotional strength, you keep taking care of everybody else, you keep working,
and then you start engaging
in self - medicating
behaviors: you start binge - eating, you put a lot of focus on your physical appearance, you do a lot of makeup, hair, clothing, compulsive shopping, you start picking up these other health problems associated with these
behaviors.
(8) The group encourages constructive changes
in both attitudes
and feelings on the one hand,
and in behavior and relationships on the other.4
Brain - wave biofeedback training involving learning to increase one's alpha waves (associated with a relaxed, tranquil
feeling state) has been used with some success
in treating neuroses, psychoses,
and behavior problems.
(
In TA terms, such health - jeopardizing
behavior as overeating
and smoking are attempts to comfort oneself
and to compensate for
feelings of stroke - deprivation.)
Except for the excessive
and paranoid rules around character,
behavior, church attendance, finances, thoughts,
feelings, child rearing
and the possibility of demonic presences
in your home
and contents!
At the same time many of them are oppressed by the
feeling that theological study does not sufficiently consider the changes that have taken place
in human thought
and behavior in the course of a revolutionary century.
stage); projection (onto others of the
feelings or impulses eliciting anxiety); rationalization (giving oneself
and others reasonable excuses for unreasonable
behavior); denial (of threatening aspects of reality); introjection (seeking protection by identifying internally with a feared person or idea); reaction formation (denying threatening impulse by going to the other extreme
in one's
behavior — e.g., denying repressed rage by behaving
in super «loving» ways); intellectualizing (avoiding threatening
feelings by chronic «head - tripping»).