Sentences with phrase «feelings and behaviors so»

By building a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship with my clients, I help them better understand their own thoughts, feelings and behaviors so that they experience the empowerment and strength they need to cope with the challenges that face them.»

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«Solo skills» represents behaviors you can learn that are useful on your own, like to focus on a solo task, to meditate, to avoid feeling bored, and so on.

They loved deals so much that, to make sense of their behavior, economists were forced to distinguish between two types of value: acquisition value (the perceived worth of a new car to the buyer) and transaction value (the feeling that one lost or won the negotiation at the dealership).

Reality therapy, developed by psychiatrist William Glasser, is an action - oriented therapy that aims at enabling people to change their behavior so that it will fulfill their basic needs (to give and receive love and to feel worthwhile to themselves and others) in the real world of relationships in ways that do not deprive others of the possibility of fulfilling their needs.

These legacies include deep attitudes and behaviors which feel «right» to each individual because they were «caught» — learned — so early in life.

We take our inhuman behavior; we bless it with religious phrases and religious jargon; then we beat on one another in the name of God so that Catholics and Protestants feel justified in killing each other in Ireland, and Christians and Moslems do likewise in Lebanon.

So if you find my beliefs wrong — then atleast know I am doing my best to keep distance from those that feel they are religious and devout — but their behavior, words and action > speak different.

So also do they who straddle the fence between God and ordinary behavior; these latter suffer from an inability to feel at home among either world - lovers or God - lovers.

So, something traumatic happens to you and instead of grieving that and going through that process, you stuff all those feelings in, you hide behind the mask of emotional strength, you keep taking care of everybody else, you keep working, and then you start engaging in self - medicating behaviors: you start binge - eating, you put a lot of focus on your physical appearance, you do a lot of makeup, hair, clothing, compulsive shopping, you start picking up these other health problems associated with these behaviors.

Generally speaking, an alcoholic's motivation is inadequate, so far as successful treatment is concerned, if he mainly sees alcohol as a solution, wants help in changing those around him or avoiding the consequences of his immature behavior, and / or comes because he was pressured (either by a person or by crisis circumstances of which he feels himself the victim).

So, rather than using words long in the presence of degradation to judge this act... this behavior, I would suggest seeking that which can not be read and only felt — the spirit - to judge it by.

I find it so sad that so many people believe the lie that the enemy feeds us that these destructive behaviors are healthy and that they should ignore the feelings of shame brought on by sin.

the awful negativity which is displayed by so called «majority disgruntled fans, and the fact that they constantly felt the need to insult him affected his dipped performance a lot and he is not all to blame because of that unpleasant behavior from a lot like you.

I'm fourteen years old starting my road to recovery and it's very fearing and to know that I have to live with it scares the living daylight a out of me I can't speak much about my cognitive behavior therapy because I've only really doing assements but I'm writing this for myself and yourself I haven't always been religious but in times of fear and need know that you aren't alone God is always there and even wen your in your worse state I usally just lay down meditate a bit and speak to my father God and he always gives me a sense of relief this past week I feel like I have been a constant circle of fear but I would always freak out and be scared for no reason but just know that more than 44 million people have this you are br alone and one day you will meet your savior Jesus christ he put you in a test of life and he's going to congratulate you, you must wait for him and on another note if any one knows how to deal with the fear of the future or staying in a constant state please email me at [email protected] thank you so much everyone and there is a recovery maybe but today or Tommie but you will overcome

There are some things where I don't have quite as much confidence - gentle discipline, for instance, because of less support for it in person and the fact that it has so many variables (working w / a child's behavior has much more grey area than «I always comfort my baby when she wakes up in the night,» which makes it more of a challenge)- so somethimes I do feel judged for my discipline choices, and sometimes I don't live up to my own standards - making me more suseptable (sp?)

Try to foster an open, honest, and non-defensive relationship with your child's teacher so that they feel comfortable telling you about any bullying behavior your child has displayed or if your child has been on the receiving end of bullying.

In part 2 of this two - part series, James discusses exactly what to do when your children get in trouble for fighting at school or at home — and the right kinds of consequences to give them so they learn to use appropriate behavior instead of lashing out when they feel like hitting someone the next time.

It's hard in these situations; we feel so embarrassed by our child's behavior and judged by others.

Many kids cry or display separation anxiety when their parents leave them with a new sitter, so pay more attention to your child's behaviors and feelings when you return and not when you are walking out the door.

Pay attention: Instead of dropping their kids off for practice, parents should stick around if they can; they should encourage their kids to report inappropriate behavior by teammates or coaches - whether it is «locker room talk» demeaning of women or girls, or anti-Muslim, anti-immigrant comments or behavior - regardless of whether it is directed at a teammate or not, and made to feel safe in doing so; they should pay attention to a coach's behavior at practices and games to make sure they are not participating in or tolerating bullying, teasing or abuse of any kind.

Once we can talk about feelings, the feelings which are on the non-verbal side of the brain connect to the words on the other side of the brain and we have so much control and therefore, we have control over our behavior.

It's so important to find like - minded parents who can offer their «been there, done that» stories, emotional scaffolding, and specific suggestions for when you feel confused as to what to do about your child's behavior, or when you question whether this new thing you're trying, like positive discipline instead of spanking, for example, is going to work out in the long term, or how exactly to keep those family attachment bonds strong as your children grow, or how to move forward when your family encounters challenging life circumstances.

«Our behavior is driven by our perception of our world, so if children feel they are not getting enough time and attention from parents then those feelings have to go somewhere and it appears in interaction with their peers,» said Christie - Mizell, an associate professor of sociology and licensed psychologist specializing in family therapy and the treatment of children with mood and behavior disorders.

Helps Henry «express» the emotions that have been eating at him and driving his aggressive behavior, so those feelings can begin to evaporate.

Yelling just makes me feel bad and has no impact on the behavior so I will try your idea's and see how it goes.

So, if you're one of those parents who lost their patience and needed to address the behavior promptly and spanked your child, there's no need to feel guilty.

And how can we recognize the signs of distress or anxiety in their behavior that tell us that they need our help?In The Secure Child, Dr. Stanley Greenspan offers a set of guiding principles that will help parents of children at each age — from preschoolers to teenagers — both reassure and guide them so that they feel secure in their homes, their schools, and in their community at larAnd how can we recognize the signs of distress or anxiety in their behavior that tell us that they need our help?In The Secure Child, Dr. Stanley Greenspan offers a set of guiding principles that will help parents of children at each age — from preschoolers to teenagers — both reassure and guide them so that they feel secure in their homes, their schools, and in their community at larand guide them so that they feel secure in their homes, their schools, and in their community at larand in their community at large.

But the nice part, the girl who at first thought my son was going to be a pain, became my big time advocate and was sooo furious with the steward she stood up for me and then went to complain about his behavior, this made me feel so good!!!»

Be observant of changing behaviors and connect with your child regularly so he feels comfortable talking to you about the tough stuff.

Cheer for everyone: Something as simple as cheering for every member of the team can help everyone feel accepted and valued as a team member, leading to better peer relationships; so encourage cheering and be sure to model that behavior to your players!

You see similar behavior in babies who are tongue tied so, again if you feel like nursing is difficult because of this behavior and what you're experiencing in your body I would say see a lactation consultant just to look at your baby's tongue, watch how you guys are nursing so she can help you evaluate what the problem is

Her thoughts and feelings naturally contribute to her behavior — so teaching your child about her thoughts, feelings and behavior is key to her development and self - awareness.

I took my disgruntled, whiney, clingy, disruptive child (who I felt like sending to her room just so I could get a break and to make her think about her actions and to get her behavior «back in line») and I pulled her closer than close, under my mama's wing.

(The only exception to this rule is if your child is being physically hurtful — hitting, slapping, punching, and so on — in which case you calmly but firmly stop the behavior and explain that he can feel mad but he can not hit.)

I took my disgruntled, whiney, clingy, disruptive child who I felt like sending to her room just so I could get a break and to make her think about her actions and to get her behavior «back in line»... and I pulled her closer than close, under my mama's wing.

She is showing you by her behavior that she realizes that during sleep, she may very well not feel the same body cues that she so easily and clearly pays attention to during the day.

So every time our little ones did not obey our every instruction in this way, we felt obliged to inflict pain (a spanking) to steer them towards righteousness and godly behavior.

Yes we have a huge problem of no consequences for problematic behaviors because our superintendent does not like conflict, and so the Food serive director knows this and just does as she pleases for she feels no threat of a consequence It is very frustrating and extremely disturbing.

We support each parent to become the «expert» on their own child so they feel more confident in handling tantrums and other tricky behavior.

And children are no exception to that, so when a child is feeling overpowered by their parents, they may react because they're feeling powerless, by fighting back through rebellious and oppositional behavioAnd children are no exception to that, so when a child is feeling overpowered by their parents, they may react because they're feeling powerless, by fighting back through rebellious and oppositional behavioand oppositional behaviors.

And in terms of the behavior modification, it's often a really good way to reduce power struggles, when your child feels like he is working for something, and working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system which is usually the most well known behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips, and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raquAnd in terms of the behavior modification, it's often a really good way to reduce power struggles, when your child feels like he is working for something, and working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system which is usually the most well known behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips, and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raquand working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system which is usually the most well known behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips, and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raquand sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this».

So here are some recommendations about how to keep angry feelings within appropriate boundaries, and still, have an effect on the behavior of your children.

With so many indictments and other problems, lawmakers who are honest may start to feel like outcasts, noted Jack Goncalo, an associate professor of organizational behavior at Cornell.

«There is this so - called Ikea effect, with consumer behavior research supporting the notion that when people assemble the products themselves, they feel a great sense of accomplishment and they see themselves reflected in the products they helped to build,» said Sundar.

«Diabetes, perhaps more so than any other chronic disease, requires people to significantly modify their behaviors — sometimes in ways that are contrary to their cultural norms and backgrounds — even when they don't «feel» sick or experience symptoms of the disease,» said John G. Ryan, Dr.PH., Topic Editor for Endocrinology and Diabetes, and guest editor for the April 2014 Diabetes Update, entitled Race, Risk and Bbehaviors — sometimes in ways that are contrary to their cultural norms and backgrounds — even when they don't «feel» sick or experience symptoms of the disease,» said John G. Ryan, Dr.PH., Topic Editor for Endocrinology and Diabetes, and guest editor for the April 2014 Diabetes Update, entitled Race, Risk and BehaviorsBehaviors.

Classical conditioning is a learning process that occurs both in animals and humans alike when two stimuli are repeatedly paired (such as the bell ringing and the feeding, or a particular behavior and the electric shock), so that the response originally elicited by the second stimulus (the secretion of saliva that originally occurs in the presence of food or the unpleasant sensation that follows an electric shock) is eventually elicited by the first stimulus alone (meaning that after a number of repetitions, the sound of the bell is enough to make the dog salivate like it does in the presence of food and the engagement in unwanted behavior is enough to make you feel the same discomfort an electric shock would cause).

A young child struggling with the transition of welcoming a new baby into the house isn't being deliberately naughty; they are struggling with big feelings of grief and simply don't have the verbal ability to put these feelings into words, so they are translated in their behavior.

So it would stand to reason that if you want to change your actions, habits and behaviors and get the results you want you may have to change the way you feel about it.

«People often keep their OCD secret because they feel ashamed of their unusual behavior, so it can take years for them to seek treatment,» says Michael Jenike, MD, professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and the director of the Obsessive Compulsive Disorders Institute at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts.

I think of the conformist 1950's and feel for those women who had to abide by so many rules in dressing and behavior and most were unspoken rules.