When people are at their most vulnerable having an objective, non-judgmental ally allows for the safety of sharing your deepest thoughts,
feelings and behaviors which can help you own your own truth and take the action steps necessary to change.
I provide a emphatic, non-judgmental and confidential environment in which we work together, at a comfortable pace, to identify / explore thoughts,
feelings and behaviors which interfere with your reaching your maximum potential for happiness in your career and relationships.
Not exact matches
«We investigate whether emotional shocks, experienced by a highly - educated group of individuals, have any impact on these individuals» professional
behavior which, by law, should be free of personal
feelings and biases,» says the report.
I've recently noticed a significant amount of mania - like
behavior in
which investors simply ignore valuations
and it does
feel like we're in the euphoric stage of the bull market in
which everyone can make money from stocks
and the low interest - rate environment has helped perpetuate it.
These therapies contrast with all the «insight therapies» derived from Freud,
which regard dynamic inner changes in attitudes,
feelings,
and self - perception as the primary means of therapeutic change including changes in
behavior.
After a half - dozen sessions, the assessment pinpointed these
behavior difficulties
which became the goals of therapy — her unassertiveness; her inability to express her
feelings,
which the therapist saw as leading to a build - up of anger, resentment,
and guilt (about her anger); the fact that she had never experienced orgasm;
and her low opinion of
I agree with this statement as far as it goes; the only problem I have with it is that I
feel like there is a basic assumption here that it is easy
and obvious to tell what
behaviors of our own or others are predatory
and destructive
and which are not.
These legacies include deep attitudes
and behaviors which feel «right» to each individual because they were «caught» — learned — so early in life.
Most important, he helped her become aware of
and work through her confused, lonely, rebellious
feelings which provided fuel for the
behavior.
Thus, if the mother chooses to accept this shocking event
and reaffirm genuinely her belief
and trust in a loving God, that experience,
which is initially hers, becomes ours as it is actualized through her words,
behavior,
feelings, presence, etc..
A small group provides a catalytic learning situation with... emotional involvement
and safety, under the guidance of a leader - facilitator, in
which intellectual,
feeling and behavior learning can best take place.
But he
feels bad about it afterwards,
and sends the boy a video message in
which he blames «society» for his bad
behavior.
Berne's second major concept is that of ego - states; he says that our
behavior patterns, with their associated
feelings, are «a limited repertoire...
which are psychological realities... [the products of] the human brain... are organized
and stored in the form of ego - states.»
A minister who is trained in counseling is equipped to help the alcoholic take his moral inventory in depth, to look below the surface
behavior to some of the sources of resentment, self - pity, guilt
feelings,
and self - rejection
which feed the
behavior and push the person toward drinking.
Generally speaking, an alcoholic's motivation is inadequate, so far as successful treatment is concerned, if he mainly sees alcohol as a solution, wants help in changing those around him or avoiding the consequences of his immature
behavior,
and / or comes because he was pressured (either by a person or by crisis circumstances of
which he
feels himself the victim).
So, rather than using words long in the presence of degradation to judge this act... this
behavior, I would suggest seeking that
which can not be read
and only
felt — the spirit - to judge it by.
Though I gave up on mandating my
feelings and coercing myself into certain beliefs, there was one measure of willful
behavior which I maintained.
It includes instincts, drives,
and behavior; the way in
which we view our bodies; the emotional
and physical
feelings we have about others (male
and female).
When death strikes a family circle, there are socially prescribed patterns of
behavior and feeling which help the persons involved cope with the crisis.
As Justin investigated these testimonies further, he learned that most followed a pattern in
which the gay man developed attractions to men during puberty, acted on those
feelings at some point (usually destructively, with anonymous sex, drugs,
and other addictions), found that life to be unfulfilling, reconnected with Jesus,
and walked away from their past
behaviors.
Assertive
behavior is defined as an honest
and appropriate expression of
feelings in
which a person asserts her or his own rights in ways that do not violate the rights of others.
The sense of obligation is the subjective form of an imaginative
feeling of a proposition of
which one's future self is the logical subject
and a possible mode of
behavior is the predicate.
Structural analysis is particularly useful in crisis counseling to help persons interrupt the vicious cycles of panic
and paralysis (their frightened Child),
which produce inappropriate
behavior,
which in turn increases the
feelings of panic
and helplessness.
It does this by creating a climate of acceptance — of
feelings and impulses (around
which irrational guilt often forms)--
and by confronting the young person with the need to change irresponsible, self - other hurting
behavior (the source of appropriate guilt).
Most of the pre-reflective bodily order
and habitual
behavior is handled by the subordinate «living persons,» but sometimes a
feeling of personal dominance
and reflective control occurs
which requires the regnant society.
(c) They are the product of moralism in that they focus on surface
behavior, ethical trivia, or on
feelings and impulses
which are taboo in one's culture.
the awful negativity
which is displayed by so called «majority disgruntled fans,
and the fact that they constantly
felt the need to insult him affected his dipped performance a lot
and he is not all to blame because of that unpleasant
behavior from a lot like you.
And, finally, because prevailing attitudes towards concussion symptom reporting and reporting behavior are deeply entrenched in our sports culture, we encourage, as Step Five, that coaches, athletes, athletic trainers, team doctors, and parents continue working over the course of the sports season to create and maintain an environment in which athletes feel safe in immediately reporting concussion symptoms (both their own and their teammates) by sharing and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
And, finally, because prevailing attitudes towards concussion symptom reporting
and reporting behavior are deeply entrenched in our sports culture, we encourage, as Step Five, that coaches, athletes, athletic trainers, team doctors, and parents continue working over the course of the sports season to create and maintain an environment in which athletes feel safe in immediately reporting concussion symptoms (both their own and their teammates) by sharing and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and reporting
behavior are deeply entrenched in our sports culture, we encourage, as Step Five, that coaches, athletes, athletic trainers, team doctors,
and parents continue working over the course of the sports season to create and maintain an environment in which athletes feel safe in immediately reporting concussion symptoms (both their own and their teammates) by sharing and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and parents continue working over the course of the sports season to create
and maintain an environment in which athletes feel safe in immediately reporting concussion symptoms (both their own and their teammates) by sharing and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and maintain an environment in
which athletes
feel safe in immediately reporting concussion symptoms (both their own
and their teammates) by sharing and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and their teammates) by sharing
and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and reinforcing positive messages about the importance of immediate concussion symptom reporting via social media, by maintaining open lines of communication
and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and an ongoing dialog about concussion safety among
and between and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and between
and among coaches, athletes, medical staff and paren
and among coaches, athletes, medical staff
and paren
and parents.
There are some things where I don't have quite as much confidence - gentle discipline, for instance, because of less support for it in person
and the fact that it has so many variables (working w / a child's
behavior has much more grey area than «I always comfort my baby when she wakes up in the night,»
which makes it more of a challenge)- so somethimes I do
feel judged for my discipline choices,
and sometimes I don't live up to my own standards - making me more suseptable (sp?)
Depending on the situation, focusing on thinking
and positive self - talk first can impact a child's
feelings,
which then impacts her
behavior.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding,
and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned
behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may
feel something is wrong with THEM
and clam up about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (
which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004
and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
He has thoughts
which justify his
behavior and feelings.
Once we can talk about
feelings, the
feelings which are on the non-verbal side of the brain connect to the words on the other side of the brain
and we have so much control
and therefore, we have control over our
behavior.
Is he basically trying to talk,
and I can diffuse some of this
behavior by doing baby sign language -
which honestly
feels a little silly to me?
This will keep your kids
feelings loved
and connected,
which will help stave off negative attention seeking
behaviors.
All of this knowledge can create anxiety in itself as we try to figure out
which parenting
behaviors can lead to
feelings of shame in our children,
and yet how to best guide our children through sometimes challenging areas of discipline.
Some may externalize their
feelings,
which can lead to acting out
and behavior problems or becoming the class clown.
-- you have to think through this one, come up with something valuable
and it really makes the child
feel good,
which encourages repeat
behavior.
By creating a structured environment for your child, you can help him
feel safe
and secure,
which is an essential component in preventing
behavior problems.
When you follow through with consequences for each rule violation, your child will trust that you're a good leader
and he'll
feel safe in your care,
which is essential if you want him to manage his
behaviors well.
Telling children
which behaviors you do —
and don't — want to see actually makes kids
feel more secure, because it reminds them that you're in charge
and guides them to the areas where they should be developing their skills
and independence (such as playing with the plastic tea set
and not trying to touch the real one.)
(The only exception to this rule is if your child is being physically hurtful — hitting, slapping, punching,
and so on — in
which case you calmly but firmly stop the
behavior and explain that he can
feel mad but he can not hit.)
PS — I totally get what Madge is saying but I would worry that any kind of consequential language in this realm could backfire — it really
feels like a lack of control / power thing to me (
which is I guess sometimes the root of bullying
behavior) but consequences could make him
feel both more powerful (he gets more attention from his request)
AND more ashamed (about peeing etc.) I would re-inforce two things: 1) his own control / power over his own body (that means being totally ok with having an accident)
AND 2) another person's right to privacy (he has no right to talk to another person about their own bathroom
behavior)
Kids who
feel rejected by peers become less motivated at school,
which can lead to a downward spiral of lower achievement, increased
behavior problems,
and even more social rejection.
And in terms of the behavior modification, it's often a really good way to reduce power struggles, when your child feels like he is working for something, and working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system which is usually the most well known behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips, and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raqu
And in terms of the
behavior modification, it's often a really good way to reduce power struggles, when your child
feels like he is working for something,
and working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system which is usually the most well known behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips, and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raqu
and working for something doesn't have to be a toy, doesn't have to be something really expensive, it can be positive praise, it could be that they are working special time with you, special activity, we can do a token economy system
which is usually the most well known
behavior modification intervention, where your child can earn tickets or stickers or poker chips,
and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this&raqu
and sometimes you may want to attach a reward menu to that, so they know that, «Oh, if I can save ten chips I can get this, if I can save 20 chips I can get this».
Marginalization
and discrimination were found to predict
feelings of insignificance,
which became stronger with the experience of more discrimination
and, in turn, predicted an attraction to fundamentalist groups
and its extreme
behavior, the research found.
Harry Grundfest also
felt very strongly that the way to study the brain is one cell at a time,
and he got me interested in to [a] reductionist approach to
behavior,
which is really the approach that I've taken since then.
Rather, there are some conditions in
which people
feel less responsibility to offer aid due to the acceptance of inequality
and are therefore less likely to engage in charitable
behavior.»
The brain stimulation treatments were originally designed to treat depression by boosting
feelings of happiness
and engagement,
which motivate «approach»
behaviors such as exploring the world
and interacting with friends.
By taking your eyes off your partner's
feelings and behavior and focusing on learning to love yourself —
which means learning to be open, caring, accepting
and connected with your own
feelings rather than being reactive.