Not exact matches
Having worked
as a firefighter for over thirty years, having worked
as a
grief counselor for over five years, having experienced lots
of pain, suffering and sorrow
as a hypnotherapist, to allow those in grieve, to be able to share their
feelings and emotions in a non-judgmental atmosphere is huge.
But
as I stood where I last saw her alive,
feeling again the
grief, I remembered what Paul said about the afflictions we face in this life: «For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight
of glory» (2 Co. 4:17).
When the pain and anger
of grief are allowed to take their course, they will eventually join with the gamut
of other
feelings of grief, including joy and hope
as well
as sorrow, to focus on the true enemy, death, and the true goal, life.
The growth counselor's function is to help such persons
as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so
as to avoid further hurt to each other and to their children; agree on a plan for the children that will be best for the children's mental health; work through the ambivalent
feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each person's infected
grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration
of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better marriage.
Good
Grief - It's not that we take religion «SO personally»,
as you put it, it's just that nobody else seems interested in challenging religious beliefs seriously, something that many
of us
feel is absolutely necessary considering how much harm they can cause within society.
Viewing this process
as stages
of grief will help me not to
feel so lost.
The group succeeded in reaching a
feeling level, discussing such matters
as their perceptions
of each other,
feelings about having children
as this relates to marital intimacy, and the
grief experience
of one member.
Fishon, I also was thinking
of Viktor Frankl (whose books have impacted me greatly) today
as I was processing some
of the differences between
feeling and expressing
grief and anguish
as a part
of choosing to turn from bitterness and trust God vs. choosing bitterness because I can't get past the reality that what happened was injust.
Or they may
feel self - hatred for having contributed to the nurture
of someone who,
as they see it, arrogantly took his or her life — a prerogative
of God alone: A survivor's
grief may be so severe that it can become a cause
of self - execution on the part
of the bereaved.
She considers the nurses «compassionate and sensitive»; describes herself
as «always controlled, cooperative, compliant, an excellent patient, automatically responsive to the needs and
feeling of others,» who is «shocked» when her
grief breaks through her «normally strong controls.»
I began writing about Scandinavian food in 2009 a couple
of months after Grandma Agny passed away; the
grief had struck me in ways deeper than I could have expected, and I found myself seeking out elements
of our shared Norwegian heritage
as a way to
feel closer to her memory.
Because
as active
as my parenthood may be right now, I never want to forget how the waiting
felt, how the
grief wrapped itself around the brightness
of the sun, the casual small talk
of those not acutely grieving, the ache from the long haul
of hope.
Unresolved
feelings, such
as grief related to a divorce or loss
of a loved one can be the root
of the problem.
It almost
feels as if this simple act helps me to get to the root
of my problems, and
as each weed falls in my bucket, a small piece
of that
grief and frustration falls into the bucket
as well.
Comments such
as «you can try again» or «time is a healer» all spoken and meant with the very best
of intentions can
feel belittling and dismissive to the
grief for the longed for baby that has died.
As i wait for the arrival
of a baby conceived after the death
of my first baby when he was a month old, i worry about being able to offer him / her a life not completely shadowed by sadness and
grief... I hold on to the hope that the love i already
feel for this tiny human growing in me will allow me to give him the full life he / she deserves.
One emotion is usually more «tolerable» for the child to experience, and this emotion serves
as a barrier to
feeling the others; i.e. high levels
of anger or fear will prevent the child from
feeling grief and shame.
As part
of the healing process, the child needs to express her terror, rage,
grief and shame, and have these
feelings accepted and validated by her adoptive mother.
While most surrogates agree that they don't bond
as intensely with their surrogate babies
as they do with their own children, you may experience
feelings of grief or loss following the birth
of the baby.
I was no longer in a place
of deep
grief and detachment, but I continued to
feel guilty
as my challenging rainbow baby again took attention away from my daughter.
Feelings of loss,
grief, rejection and shame
as well
as identity issues, intimacy problems and problems with the evolution
of self - control are all identified
as life - long issues for adoptees, natural parents and even for the people who adopt in Deborah N. Silverstein and Sharon Kaplan's «Lifelong Issues in Adoption» available on the internet.
You might
feel guilt
as well
as grief, and you'll be dealing with the mandatory police investigation into cause
of death.
A lot
of your
feelings of grief about this have to do with pressure we put on ourselves, and the HUGE SOCIETAL PRESSURE that's laid at our feet to breastfeed... and if you «fail» you're a «failure»
as a mother in general for not doing what is «best.»
This surge
of support can look and
feel very different, such
as stepping away from things that no longer serve you and an accompanying
feeling of loss,
grief, or disappointment.
If you have experienced
grief or loss
of someone or a part
of yourself, give yourself permission to
feel exactly
as you need to.
Comparing my couple
of IVF rounds with someone's eight rounds only left me
feeling not good enough or like my
grief wasn't
as bad.
Comparing my two rounds
of IVF with someone's eight left me
feeling not good enough and like my
grief wasn't
as bad.
Resorting to these easy, cheap scares
feels a way
of accounting for a requirement the Spierig's weren't really interested in though,
as Winchester is seemingly more inclined to explore how cruelty,
grief, and loss can affect people in different ways and to varying degrees.
This is a remarkable, triumphant, and confident picture by Aster, who gives the film an almost meditative - like sensation,
as you
feel every space you're in, every emotion, every moment
of grief.
When Margot is goaded into climbing that tree (suspected to be rotting, the tree doctor gives it a clean bill
of health), which stands
as sentinel between the childhoods better remembered and the present better forgotten, and finds herself stuck there with a bug crawling into her ear, there is, stark and indelible, the
feeling that we've come somewhere in our process
of grief — past vengeance, into despair, no looking back.
His film echoes with a deeply
felt pain - a sense
of anguish, often depicted
as scenes
of celebration clash with unexplained images
of abject
grief.
Attempting to stuff bullying,
grief, disease, and mythology does little to give any
of them weight, doubly so when the characters
feel as shallow
as they are and the actors
feel this limp.
A retired engineer who sees
grief as just another problem to solve, he's launched himself into the productive busywork
of his golden years, buying a new pair
of jeans and trying to sell the house that suddenly
feels five times too big.
I posed this question because like many
of you, I
felt her
grief as an adult for a parent to be unusual — and I lost my mother, then my husband and my father, in the space
of four years, when I was perhaps just a bit older than Helen.
It is a family narrative
of love and
grief taken to the extreme contexts, but the characters are so fleshed out that one
feels as if they know them, although they may find some
of them irritating or difficult to understand at first.
It
feels as if the overwhelming density
of characters and circumstances is supposed to be a metaphor for the larger loss
of life that pervades the novel, a sort
of suffocation in
grief.
The sight
of her cheek, lips and chin — so intimately familiar to him, so much a part
of life
as he had known it — made him
feel a sharp
grief at the thought
of losing her.
But then I
felt that this intense focus on the training was part
of her processing her
grief and it gradually became more important and relate - able
as the book went on.
If you or a family member has great difficulty in accepting your pet's death and can not resolve
feelings of grief and sorrow, you may want to discuss those
feelings with a person who is trained to understand the grieving process such
as a
grief counselor, clergyman, social worker, physician, or psychologist.
A. I think they're an amazing way
of spreading awareness
of the awful things that go on at puppy farms such
as dogs being pulled by their tails, never leaving their compound, never going for walks, being constantly bred and the
grief the mums must
feel when their puppies are continually removed.
Debra Rosenman writes in the introduction
of her soon to be released book, The Chimpanzee Chronicles: Spellbinding Stories From Behind The Bars, «Chimpanzee's are not playthings, actors, or science project, they are sentient, intelligent and emotionally complex beings, capable
of feeling and expressing the same emotions
as we do - sadness,
grief, excitement, anger, depression, joy and love.»
As to the question
of your cats» ability to
feel grief, there is some dissension within the scientific community and trends vary regarding different breeds.
If you or your family and friends are
feeling overwhelmed, the Cornell Feline Health Center offers a Pet Loss Support Hotline,
as well
as a list
of other
grief support hotlines for pet lovers.
The five stages,
as outlined by the pioneer in Pet Loss
Grief Counselling, Dr. Wallace Sife
of the Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement, are not necessarily experienced sequentially, and at times, you can
feel like you are on an emotional roller - coaster; one moment unable to accept your loss, and the next moment, crying uncontrollably over the death
of your dear animal companion.
We have
felt the pain
of losing a beloved pet; the
grief you
feel is the same
as if you had lost a human friend.
The loss
of a pet can affect us much in the same way
as losing a human companion in that we can
feel the same
grief reactions and our grieving process can be much the same.
My only hope is that Dark Souls 2 can deliver the same, tangible
feeling of reward and although they've caused gamers a lot
of grief since Dark Souls launched, I genuinely hope there's a boss in there
as brutal
as Ornstein and Smough to really test our resolve and help us grow stronger
as a result.
Her recurring imagery act
as an alphabet, combined in order to evoke
feelings of grief, love, sorrow, ecstasy, mourning and exultation.
In addition to its practical function
as a source
of light, its use is also replete with symbolism: candles can stand for transience and death, illustrate biblical scenes and charge them with emotion, express
feelings such
as grief or melancholy, illuminate portrayals
of science and the arts in the true sense
of the word or subtly add an erotic layer to the scenes depicted.
Their deliberately scarred surfaces deliver an unvarnished sense
of immediacy,
of time marked rather than spent, and most effectively capture the idea
of unmediated
grief — what it looks like, what it
feels like and most especially how it changes everything — suggesting that in such times we are all romantics, experiencing,
as these artists did, human emotion in the natural world.