Sentences with phrase «feelings of shame about»

Accordingly, I experienced the larger social order as squeezing something out of me, pressing something in on me and eventually depressing into me feelings of shame about wanting to do things and be things that «weren't for girls.»

I was sick of this feeling of shame about my body.

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The bad part was the sense of shame some Christians made me feel about my emotional struggles, but as I discovered how God views healing, I realized it wasn't my faith that was flawed; it was their views toward mental health and faith.

And yet over the course of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers of people struggle with fear, guilt, shame, and all sorts of terrible thoughts about God and others, and as I have learned more, I find that many of these feelings come from a faulty view of God.

Like the part about women - blaming and shaming combined with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an emotional distance he feels from us as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak mess of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.

Oh, it's great at the time; but when you think about it the next day at work, you feel shame and guilt, and an array of sadness.

Surely you're not saying that teaching sex only within marriage was the cause of her shame, because if so ANY teaching about «safer» sex would have had the same result... because she was used she would have still felt used.

The opportunity to talk openly about painful experiences that were formerly kept in secrecy surrounded by feelings of shame has an unburdening effect; feelings of self - confidence are strengthened by group acceptance.

I do wonder if it might be more about shame - avoidance than about shame — maybe a sort of «pass - the - parcel» with the painful feelings most of us would rather not feel?

I hate the way you Atheists bully people by making them feel shame about every part of their lives that doesn't revolve around hypocritical evil.

This should even tell us about the potential of Szczesny to win golden glove with this defence.What a keeper he is the one i feel sorry for in whole arsenal team thrown in at 19 years old behind an ever shaky defense then see where he is now being called shit.it is a real shame i feel so sorry for him because i wonder what if he was 19 years then started at Chelsea would he still be like this and lack confidence.I love you Szczesny wherever you are.

I wonder if we by chance we would win the leuage, would you guys feel proud about it or rather feel relief and a little bit of shame?

3 - And to think, Lancel wouldn't be watching this decapitation if he hadn't felt so guilty about banging his cousin — and she wouldn't be so angry if his testimony hadn't led to her walk of shame through King's Landing.

Great Reception???, tell you the truth Im not one of those gunners who started supporting the gunners during the invicibles or early Wenger double winning years, quite honestly i wasnt ineterested in football and I liked a certain Crespo and Shevchenko meaning I liked the blue half of London, surprisingly when Mourinho joined I stopped watching football all together, till one glorious Champions League Night, It was my first ever Match there was a certain 20 year old highly rated youngster who scored a wonder goal that day he played with such skill and passion ever since then I started supporting arsenal that was during the barren years.I actually liked Barcelona because of their similarity with the arsenal, so when Fabregas joined Barca I started to watch them a bit more I still loved Arsenal and I was extremely passionate, the other players i adored left in painful manners, while some left which was still painful: i.e Eboue.I always taught cesc would come back and when it was official he was leaving Barca i said Finally almost hosting a party.Well reports started coming out that he is going to join chelsea and i laughed so hard and said he would be the last player on earth to do that, when it became official words cant express how i felt, He was the reason I started watching football he lit up the emirates with exquisite touches through balls to walcott, its a shame I would have preferred he joined bayern, or remained in barca its terrible reading the comments he made recently about the emirates, This was a captain, someone who led, anyways, like ive learnt and Arsenal have learnt, We do nt live in the past Like Liverpool (no pun) WE ARE THE PRESENT AND THE FUTURE (Crowley)(Puma) WE ARE ARSENAL.....

Great article:) I find the most difficult area for me to bring myself to advocate in is genital integrity for this reason - the feeling of shaming those who made the decision without reading or learning about the consequences.

I am one of those people who really believes that we allow ourselves to feel shame, but I do agree that there is societal pressure and expectations that probably bring about those feelings.

No more feelings of shame, disappointment or anger about the relationship.

I'd ask myself before I... well, before I did pretty much anything, from taking a much - needed part - time job, to buying a certain baby toy, to playing the «stinky feet game» with my toddler (once, a particularly influential AP mom in my online world had suggested such games would cause my child to feel shame about his body for the rest of his life.)

As someone who had problems and dealt with the shame of those problems, as a kid, (I was one of the very small percentage of children who needed medication to deal with incontinence), the shame associated with having accidents is very real, and if your child is lying about them, it's time to check yourself and make sure you aren't contributing to any shame they may be feeling.

Although a lot of mom - shaming is very obvious (and very rude) there are some really subtle ways to make a mom feel like crap about her choices.

They also may plot revenge, cyberbully and even engage in slut shaming as a way of trying to feel better about their situation.

Reading the comment carefully, you understand that the father (and child) feel less shame about taking advantage of school meals at breakfast, where the service is universal (available to all regardless of economic need) versus at lunch, where there is often a more visible distinction between paying and nonpaying students, or between students on the federally reimbursable lunch line versus those who can purchase for - cash (and often more desirable) «a la carte» food, or (in the case of high schoolers) between students who can go off campus to buy lunch at convenience stores and restaurants versus those with no money in their pockets.

«That's really what the intention is — to get the conversation out there so you can really think about your options earlier on without shame, and feel good about yourself and feel more control of the journey,» says Thayer, who is in her early 40s and splits her time between Tiburon and England, where she is a TV producer.

I felt so much internalized shame about something that was such a small part of parenthood.

According to statements she made in an interview (today.com Oct 31, 2016), Adele said she worried that she made «the worst decision of her life» after she had her son but talking honestly with other mothers about her postpartum depression helped end her feeling of shame.

I've never once felt an ounce of shame in the fact that I am so utilitarian about my breasts now.

There are a lot of judgement and shame around birth choices in this world but your feelings about your birth are important, no matter what they are.

Because many moms have been physically compromised themselves during the pregnancy or birth, and because they have such strong feelings of failure or shame about not being able to produce a «perfect» baby and protect him / her....

Most of all, we need to shed light, and bring awareness to, this issue so that health care professionals and others who care for postpartum moms know about it so that no mom ever feels any shame in bringing up the issue, and all moms get the treatment they need to make breastfeeding the positive experience it has the potential to be.

«I want to be honest about it because I think there's still so much shame when you have mixed feelings about being a mom instead of feeling this sort of «bliss,»» she told the magazine.

Feelings of despair / hopelessness Crying, tearfulness Anger & irritability Sleep disturbances (too much / little) Loss of energy & interest Physical symptoms (clumsiness, slowed speech, etc.) Suicidal thoughts Frightening thoughts about self or baby or other family members Weight loss or gain Feelings of guilt, shame, inadequacy Hypochondria; excessive worries Mania (part of bipolar disorders)

Once you realize that a low sense of self - worth — stemming from not truly feeling valued by and connected to the parent — is at the root of the bullying, to lower how good the child feels about herself even more by shaming her could boomerang in a terrible way.

While I think it's wonderful that we have no shame about formula — because hello, it's food for your baby and that's all that matters — I also feel like a lot of our discussions about breastfeeding and formula feeding have been reduced to what makes Mom the happiest.

Tignous, one of the cartoonists killed, explained that satire must fulfil three conditions, make us laugh, hopefully make us think, and if it is a perfect success, create a feeling of shame to be laughing about that.As Xavier de la Porte muses on his Rue 89 website, that is a complex message!

A Labour constituency party near Glasgow has issued a strongly - worded letter to Scottish Jewish leaders stating its members feel a «deep sense of shame» about the anti-semitism row splitting the party.

Mr. Lazio, who says the mosque is insensitive to the feelings of 9/11 victims, had no shame about using images of the smoldering World Trade Center in a new political ad.

«Would the tradeoff of preventing a PTSD, a terrible disease, for a lifetime be worth having a cohort of war fighters who came back and did not feel guilt or regret or shame about that they had seen?»

Adults who binge eat — defined in the study as eating unusually large amounts of food in an uncontrolled manner without compensatory behaviors such as purging — often struggle with feelings of shame and guilt about their behavior and have difficulty regulating their emotions, studies have found.

Instead of blaming or shaming your partner, talk about your feelings and suggest a solution, like a 15 - minute nightly check - in where you take turns listening to what's on your minds.

One of the things I love the most about using a cup, after years of using tampons and pads, is that I feel less shame about the fact that my body bleeds once a month.

«I hope those photos make other pregnant women feel better about their bodies because I'm kind of fed up with the body - shaming that happens when you're pregnant and then the pressure that comes afterward to lose the baby weight,» she said during her monologue.

Instead of feeling shame or guilt about your body or your sexual desires, you put it out there in the open to be worshiped, revered, and admired.

They feel shame about a «lack of willpower» and potentially binge at night.

They don't know because they've never trusted their bodies to bring them to that point and as a result, they always feel hungry throughout the day which makes them think about food 24/7 and graze on food all day, which can lead to feelings of guilt and shame.

I decided to become an Eating Psychology Coach because the entirety of my college career and young adult life, my thoughts, emotions and behaviors were ruled by the shame I've felt about my body.

So now that you understand how anxiety and depression is the link between PCOS and low self - esteem; and that we also have to face plenty of external barriers to feeling good about ourselves, you should now be free from any guilt or shame concerning your self - image and be ready to get on top of it.

«I hope those photos make other pregnant women feel better about their bodies because I'm kind of fed up with the body - shaming that happens when you're pregnant and then the pressure that comes afterward to lose the baby weight,» she said.

There is a lot of fear, shame, and general misconceptions about couples therapy, which sadly, can leave folks feeling more confused about how to handle and accept the challenges we all inevitably experience in our most intimate relationships.

Andy, reduced to rhapsodizing about breasts that feel like» bags of sand,» is a man guessing at forbidden pleasure, but beneath the very funny joke we're cued to the ripples of Andy's shame, his need to fake his existence.

He punished Justin Long's selfish podcast - hosting protagonist from Tusk — a man who profited from other people's misfortunes and felt no shame about cheating on his girlfriend — by making him the prey of a psychotic old man who took his obsession with walruses to a Dr. Frankenstein - like extreme.