Sentences with phrase «feelings of shame as»

Some are humiliated and experience feelings of shame as a result.

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I was accustomed to feeling shame in the classroom, and as a result of that, I was accustomed not to being popular or approved, and that was freeing.»

The scripture dealing with Judas having been better off not being born, simply relates to the shame he will feel in due time when he is resurrected on earth to find earth's billions acknowledging him as the betrayer of the world's saviour, yikes!!

First I want to say that I'm not saying Atheist is a religion in a bad sence or to try and produce some sort of shame only that it falls under the definition of a religion and wondering how it would change your feelings \ view of Atheism even if everybody considered it a religous view, if it's something you believe to be true (that there is no god) what does it matter if someone labels it as your world view?

The bad part was the sense of shame some Christians made me feel about my emotional struggles, but as I discovered how God views healing, I realized it wasn't my faith that was flawed; it was their views toward mental health and faith.

And yet over the course of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers of people struggle with fear, guilt, shame, and all sorts of terrible thoughts about God and others, and as I have learned more, I find that many of these feelings come from a faulty view of God.

I don't care how many times or in how many forms the scenario plays itself out: It is an outrage, a shame and a scandal and a sin, that the old and ill should feel that they are alone with their demons, that those demons render their lives worthless, and that the only sensible, charitable thing to do is to take themselves and the demons as far out of everyone else's way as possible.

Like the part about women - blaming and shaming combined with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an emotional distance he feels from us as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak mess of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.

If the pastor has a keen awareness of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal hurt of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and hurting loved ones; feels something of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense feelings of guilt and shame which isolate the patient from himself, from others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.

The author explores the notions of feelings, virtue, shame, loyalty and forgiveness, as well as the gift of self and the meaning of the body.

This survey confirmed what I was seeing in the therapy room, but nonetheless made disturbing reading: 49.8 per cent reported mental health problems as a result of their behaviour, such as anxiety and depression; 65 per cent struggled with low self - esteem; 70 per cent felt shame and 19.4 per cent had experienced a serious desire to commit suicide.

Emotional abuse --- religious concepts such as sin, hell, cause feelings of guilt, shame, fear, and other types of emotional «baggage» which can scar the psyche for life.

Accordingly, I experienced the larger social order as squeezing something out of me, pressing something in on me and eventually depressing into me feelings of shame about wanting to do things and be things that «weren't for girls.»

Kinda makes a poor judge of character, so if you are willing to debate freely in a conversation on life, the world, the pursuit of knowledge, and all the unknowns in the world with an underage male, then I encourage you to continue the debate freely, but if you feel outmatched in a knowledge criteria and you wish to avoid shame of not understanding enough or even not knowing enough (because they are different) then i will gently step aside as not to harm your ego.

Here are some of the factors which threaten selfesteem in the classroom: (a) Persistent criticism and shaming — Severe criticism makes the child feel rejected as a person; the need for recognition is so intense that a child will seek it in unconstructive ways if he can not get it by achievement.

Rather than using fear as a signal that directs your attention outward toward some approaching problem, shame forces you to direct your attention inward toward a bigger problem you don't want to face — painful feelings of inadequacy.

In his work as a psychologist, Dr. Mark W. Baker has found that chronic feelings of shame have caused more problems than any other feeling.

The song takes a heavy hand promoting «Baby Jesus... as the one and only reason that we celebrate the season...» «It is a shame that some feel compelled to fight back against the political battles involving Christmas by taking such a militant stand,» said Jeff Westover of My Merry Christmas.com, the world's largest Christmas community online.

For the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday life.

Christine, are you sure you are not confusing a normal feeling of conscience induced guilt (a good thing normally) with the abusive process of using shame as a means of control?

All of us wrestle in the darkness against a variety of selves: (1) the old self which shames us and still seeks to control us; (2) the sensitive self that is quick to feel slight and rejection; (3) the compromising self that says, «I am going to get along with things as they are»; (4) the anxious self that dreads insecurity — loss of health, job, family.

It is also a shame that people feel the need to attack the blessed mother as a model of the church.

I also know the shame one feels when a room full of people swoon, literally fall on the floor, in unison while you remain standing and the pressure you are put under as a young person to «speak in tongues» because if you don't you are looked down upon as not having the «gifts of the Spirit» But I digress.

But as Jim spoke to me, it was clear that a decreed amount of time could do nothing to limit the shame and culpability he felt, just as the prospect of an early release was not the mercy he was seeking.

And loved you honesty, there's no shame of admitting how you truly feel as it's just so great to read authentic words from someone.

as for cowardly ozil who always get a flu before big matches, shameful, the only reason a player should be left off defensive work is the player must be atleast 80 % efficient on the attack, such a player must have the ability to dribble or take on defenders on his own, shot thunderly and scare the hell out of defenders with his movements... such a player is hazard, sorry we couldn't get him cos our dumb coach felt he was too expensive and arsenal didn't even pose tittle abilities like Chelsea, hazard didn't even consider arsenal... since van persie left sanchez had been the only player to question wenger's credentials and now wenger must be regretting ever signing him now... the words of manuel neuer «player arsenal was like an holiday»... shame on wenger...

You sound as if Wenger is the best manager or the best economist in the world if he feel he is then he should have been the manager of World Bank and not Arsenal Fc... its such a shame people fail to realise that with money u can get the best manger, medical staffs, lawyer, accountant and the rest and Arsenal has that Money why not sack Wenger and get a good manger, the board as well and replace them with competent once who can balance Arsenal ON and OFF the pitch...... pls stop seeing Wenger as football god..

personally i don't feel the transfer business with exception to Sanchez is that of a team pushing for the bpl let alone the CL i feel its a shame but its not all doom and gloom as we have alot of players to come back and still time left in the transfer window to make something happen... in Wenger we trust ay * coversface

A club with ambition wouldn't have OG as our main striker, only at Arsenal you'll find the manager, and most of his players to be so incompetent and lack ambition, and still don't feel any shame

i actually thought it wud be anelkas disgusting dive that would go against us, i would have taken that 100 times above our iconic henry doing wot he did, and then the way he wheeled away in celebration, it really soured alot of fond memories i hav of him and his integrity and id say he feels some degree of shame, he must as an ireland fan all i can say mores the pity that my team and my countrymen will not be showcased at yet another worldcup finals and im as proud of those 15,000 loyal, heartbroken and hoarse travelling fans as i am of those players who left everything in paris tonight....

It's a crying shame that a club stooped in prestige and supported by hundreds of millions across the globe feel the need to undermine the competition by using it as a means of rotating their squad.

However, it was a shame to not see him partnering Vertonghen in the middle of defense, as many feel that his future at the club belongs in the heart of defense.

I can't say what McNeil's intention was, but after seeing the ad, I felt that someone decided (consciously or unconsciously) to use subtle shame as a way to sell Motrin (just my subjective interpretation of the ad).

My biggest childhood issues that I have had to untangle from my parenting include money (or lack thereof), shame around the drama our family stirred up, and feelings of abandonment (as the 6th of 7 kids I was largely sibling raised).

indicates that while many bullying victims said that their unhappiness and shame decreased over time, others who remembered bullying as intensely painful continued to show low self - esteem, depression, pathological perfection and greater neuroticism as adults — the kind of feelings that could lead one to get mixed up in a robbery and drug possession arrest.

So all of this means the front seats have to come up to make the 2nd row useable which is not a big deal but certainly is a shame as it now feels like all the rest for room up front.

But denying the feeling of shame completely is like denying anger as an emotion.

'' I believe there is a tremendous amount of shame and feelings of failure that manifest as anger towards our bodies when we experience a loss during pregnancy.

It is our job as parents to identify our underlying feelings of fear, inadequacy or shame — or whatever feelings you keep hoping won't get triggered.

As someone who had problems and dealt with the shame of those problems, as a kid, (I was one of the very small percentage of children who needed medication to deal with incontinence), the shame associated with having accidents is very real, and if your child is lying about them, it's time to check yourself and make sure you aren't contributing to any shame they may be feelinAs someone who had problems and dealt with the shame of those problems, as a kid, (I was one of the very small percentage of children who needed medication to deal with incontinence), the shame associated with having accidents is very real, and if your child is lying about them, it's time to check yourself and make sure you aren't contributing to any shame they may be feelinas a kid, (I was one of the very small percentage of children who needed medication to deal with incontinence), the shame associated with having accidents is very real, and if your child is lying about them, it's time to check yourself and make sure you aren't contributing to any shame they may be feeling.

All of this knowledge can create anxiety in itself as we try to figure out which parenting behaviors can lead to feelings of shame in our children, and yet how to best guide our children through sometimes challenging areas of discipline.

Both women said they've felt shamed and judged as a result of their decisions regarding breastfeeding.

One emotion is usually more «tolerable» for the child to experience, and this emotion serves as a barrier to feeling the others; i.e. high levels of anger or fear will prevent the child from feeling grief and shame.

As part of the healing process, the child needs to express her terror, rage, grief and shame, and have these feelings accepted and validated by her adoptive mother.

They also may plot revenge, cyberbully and even engage in slut shaming as a way of trying to feel better about their situation.

What's with all of these parents lately who feel the need to publicly shame their children as a means of discipline?

Alfie Kohn's New York Times article, «When A Parent's «I Love You» Means «Do As I Say»,» explores the damage this kind of «conditional parenting» (recommended by experts like talk show host Phil McGraw and Jo Frost of «Supernanny») causes, as the child grows to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of self - wortAs I Say»,» explores the damage this kind of «conditional parenting» (recommended by experts like talk show host Phil McGraw and Jo Frost of «Supernanny») causes, as the child grows to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of self - wortas the child grows to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of self - worth.

Shame is a visceral and pervasive feeling of being fundamentally flawed and inadequate as a human being.

As her usual coping skills diminish, and her feelings of shame and guilt abound, her depression deepens.

Supporting the feedback from our study, Friedewald et al. (Friedewald et al., 2005) in a review of 91 all male discussion forums that included 670 expectant fathers, found participants valued a male facilitator, felt the importance of their role as a father was acknowledged, and were able to discuss their fears and concerns without shame or embarrassment.