Sentences with phrase «feelings of shame for»

Not just because we have to admit we made a mistake, but because it brings up feelings of shame for us, since we remember being forced to apologize as children.
Dissipating the feeling of shame for participants struggling with substance abuse treatment court.
The above habits definitely contribute to more stuttering because they all create a feeling of shame for the child's authentic impulses, feelings, needs and desires.

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I've always felt some small sense of shame and culpability for what happened to me.
I knew what it was like then, and I know what it's like now to feel the shame and vulnerability and the scars of a poor kid and what it was like to look over the train tracks and see others who have more and realize that for whatever reason our station in life was not like theirs,» Schultz told partners.
Pope Benedict XVI told a group of sexual abuse victims Sunday that he feels «shame» for what they suffered within the church and will make sure their abusers are brought «to justice,» the Vatican announced.
from the University of Virginia and has done graduate work in theology at Tuebingen, feel such deep distress and ambivalence, even shame, over their decision to stay at home for the sake of their children.
The problem is that we are prone to rejecting it out of feelings of self - loathing and shame, whether caused by others or ourselves; or out of a desire for autonomy and a rejection of God's authority.
Much in the same way that you would be horrified to find that your sibling, or parent, or uncle, or one of your mates, had engaged in the sexual assault of anyone, and would feel shame for the behaviour of your relative / friend, so such disgusting actions by Catholics appal and horrify other Catholics.
... and, it's no one person or post or thing, and its not that I have all the answers, or that I live my beliefs the way that I aspire to... I just see lots of really great - hearted people tying themselves in knots, feeling shame and guilt and depression and anger... and at times it seems it is because they are trying to differentiate between seas and lakes and rivers and oceans... instead of just going for a swim.
If the pastor has a keen awareness of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal hurt of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and hurting loved ones; feels something of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense feelings of guilt and shame which isolate the patient from himself, from others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.
These words may be of little comfort for the young woman who still struggles to believe that her feminine qualities are valuable to God, or to the young man who has been made to feel shame because he'd rather visit an art museum than watch a cage fight.
I had a wake - up call a few weeks ago because I was feeling mad at my own church for making me so busy, and I was feeling shame at the reality that I spend most of my time with Christians, and most of those Christians go to my church.
For example, if someone feels ashamed of being sad, she will be likely to deny her sorrow in order to avoid the shame linked to it.
I couldn't deal with it... I became very angry and the amount of shame and guilt you feel when you are doing things that you know aren't healthy and you cant tell anybody, and it becomes for me a source of anger.»
Emotional abuse --- religious concepts such as sin, hell, cause feelings of guilt, shame, fear, and other types of emotional «baggage» which can scar the psyche for life.
Rowe recalls feeling remorse and shame, unable to forgive himself for murdering another young man — and afraid of retaliation.
Accordingly, I experienced the larger social order as squeezing something out of me, pressing something in on me and eventually depressing into me feelings of shame about wanting to do things and be things that «weren't for girls.»
Here are some of the factors which threaten selfesteem in the classroom: (a) Persistent criticism and shaming — Severe criticism makes the child feel rejected as a person; the need for recognition is so intense that a child will seek it in unconstructive ways if he can not get it by achievement.
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(We must distinguish what we are calling shame from the healthier and essential feeling of true guilt or sinfulness, for the latter may itself be concealed beneath shame.
For the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday liFor the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday lifor Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday lifor anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday life.
The feeling of shame stands in the way of any adequate satisfaction of the very wholesome human need for a sense of freedom and significance.
Why would you feel a sense of shame for something you know is right?
Then the shame of that nakedness, which they had not felt in the state of original innocence, will spring up in their hearts... Only the nakedness that makes woman an object for man, or vice versa, is a source of shame.
as for cowardly ozil who always get a flu before big matches, shameful, the only reason a player should be left off defensive work is the player must be atleast 80 % efficient on the attack, such a player must have the ability to dribble or take on defenders on his own, shot thunderly and scare the hell out of defenders with his movements... such a player is hazard, sorry we couldn't get him cos our dumb coach felt he was too expensive and arsenal didn't even pose tittle abilities like Chelsea, hazard didn't even consider arsenal... since van persie left sanchez had been the only player to question wenger's credentials and now wenger must be regretting ever signing him now... the words of manuel neuer «player arsenal was like an holiday»... shame on wenger...
This should even tell us about the potential of Szczesny to win golden glove with this defence.What a keeper he is the one i feel sorry for in whole arsenal team thrown in at 19 years old behind an ever shaky defense then see where he is now being called shit.it is a real shame i feel so sorry for him because i wonder what if he was 19 years then started at Chelsea would he still be like this and lack confidence.I love you Szczesny wherever you are.
Out of this he should spend that Lacazette money on Lukaku or Morata or Aubameyang.Morata is a player who I feel should he be given a team where he's the main man he's going to score a lot of goals.There's more to come from him.I think he'll do well here.It's a shame he usually warms the bench at Madrid.It makes him seem overrated but he's not.Lukaku has the height, physique, quality, speed, power, technique and finishing that Arsenal need in a striker.He looks like that kind of player who'll bang in a lot of goalsif given the chance in a top team.Aubameyang is very very fast and clinical and at his age he's at his best.If we sign him it's more likely he'll be here for a while than most of the two due to his age.
Winning the FA cup for the past 2 years was more relieving of the shame of the trophy drought than it felt me with pride.
personally i don't feel the transfer business with exception to Sanchez is that of a team pushing for the bpl let alone the CL i feel its a shame but its not all doom and gloom as we have alot of players to come back and still time left in the transfer window to make something happen... in Wenger we trust ay * coversface
They are right.As a matter a fact, I feel myself ashamed sometimes seeing Alexis giving everything, imploring the rest of the team to press, to play the game, to do all they can to win.And the team response?Lazy primadonas watching the clock for the end of the game, being more preocupied for their haircuts, beards or tatoos than running.An army of lazy caterpilars led by a senile, totally outdated manager.How can you retain a player of such calibre inside of this stinky organization.Without determination and spirit, football is nothing, just wasted time.Arsene doesn't understand that, Alexis and the fans do.The fans are doing the right think, for Chileans is already becoming a national embarrasement, a natinal shame having their best player, an icon of Chile, wasting his skill and ambition in such mediocre team.
Those of us who do not have the social capital to make the current optimal parenting experience happen for our children (that is to say, MOST OF US) feel shame that we LACK the capital to do what is best for our childreof us who do not have the social capital to make the current optimal parenting experience happen for our children (that is to say, MOST OF US) feel shame that we LACK the capital to do what is best for our childreOF US) feel shame that we LACK the capital to do what is best for our children.
In a culture where the best, most articulate, well - intentioned advocate is accused of shaming there is positively no room for clumsy, strong - feeling me.
Great article:) I find the most difficult area for me to bring myself to advocate in is genital integrity for this reason - the feeling of shaming those who made the decision without reading or learning about the consequences.
Without going into excruciating detail, I heard a lot of people say that calls for formula marketing to be restricted makes formula feeding moms feel shamed because if formula marketing needs to be restricted, then that means that formula is bad, which means that formula feeding moms are doing something wrong.
The guys dealing with crying (start by putting on headphones, crank them up, and take the baby for a walk in the stroller) report back they get good at it and the feelings of frustration (and shame) turn into one of «dad to the rescue».
This opens up so many possibilities for the millions of people who suffer from anxiety and other forms of mental illness: we can now have the conversation without shame or weakness being attached, and find the help we need without feeling like we are «weird» or «crazy».
I'd ask myself before I... well, before I did pretty much anything, from taking a much - needed part - time job, to buying a certain baby toy, to playing the «stinky feet game» with my toddler (once, a particularly influential AP mom in my online world had suggested such games would cause my child to feel shame about his body for the rest of his life.)
Articles like Assadourian's only add to the guilt and shame that new mothers feel when they have to let go of breastfeeding for reasons out of their control.
Instead of shaming her for admitting her feelings, why not try to help?
So all of this means the front seats have to come up to make the 2nd row useable which is not a big deal but certainly is a shame as it now feels like all the rest for room up front.
For instance, do you find it embarrassing or feel some sense of shame over these words even though they are not curse words and would be appropriate to use in public?
Grief, shame, and anger are just a few of the powerful emotions that may well up in a new mom who feels that she is somehow to blame for not having the birth she worked towards with such high hopes.
We might come down harder on them or sometimes actually «over-function» by completing their work for them — anything to avoid our own feelings of shame, embarrassment, failure or fear.
Any workplace that provides a comfortable, private space for pumping will help to lessen the feelings of shame or uncertainty regarding their nursing status.
Single mothers can feel guilt and shame when they long for moments of solitude and the independence of their former single lives.
One emotion is usually more «tolerable» for the child to experience, and this emotion serves as a barrier to feeling the others; i.e. high levels of anger or fear will prevent the child from feeling grief and shame.
This is the most challenging for all new families, the guilt, the feeling of selfishness or shame for needing to take time and to recharge.
Reading the comment carefully, you understand that the father (and child) feel less shame about taking advantage of school meals at breakfast, where the service is universal (available to all regardless of economic need) versus at lunch, where there is often a more visible distinction between paying and nonpaying students, or between students on the federally reimbursable lunch line versus those who can purchase for - cash (and often more desirable) «a la carte» food, or (in the case of high schoolers) between students who can go off campus to buy lunch at convenience stores and restaurants versus those with no money in their pockets.
Shame on so many of you for making all of them feel looked down upon, judged and criticized.
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