Sentences with phrase «feelings without blame»

Sharing feelings without blame promotes understanding, positive communication and intimacy, all of which decrease feelings of pressure.

State your feelings without blame, and express a positive need (what you want, not what you don't want).

Tread lightly; bringing up your insecure feelings without blaming your partner can be tricky.

Say what you feel without blaming the other person, e.g. «I feel sad when you shout» is better to say than «Your shouting makes me feel sad.»

Demonstrate these qualities to your partner by clearly and calmly discussing problems, stating how you feel without blaming or attacking, and taking the time to truly listen to your partner's perspective.18

Learn about good communication, improve listening skills, increase understanding of your partner's message, and speak from your feelings without blaming or shaming your partner.

Make your home a calm environment where people communicate with respect and acknowledge each other's feelings without blaming, shaming, or judging.

Start with «I» statements and share your feelings without blaming your partner.

• Say how you feel without blaming each other — using «I statements» can really help when you need to raise an issue without attacking.

Not exact matches

We often blame our gadgets for making us feel rushed, scattered and disconnected (not entirely without reason), but while our devices present challenges, this survey suggests that life, and information overload, would be a whole lot worse without these tools.

My greatest concern was communicating what the demon is saying without making abused persons feel they were being blamed for their abuse.

Whereas the natural inclination is to fix blame for feelings on someone else, the sharing group encourages a recognition of the feeling without ascribing a responsibility for it.

Time for some brutal honesty... this team, as it stands, is in no better position to compete next season than they were 12 months ago, minus the fact that some fans have been easily snowed by the acquisition of Lacazette, the free transfer LB and the release of Sanogo... if you look at the facts carefully you will see a team that still has far more questions than answers... to better show what I mean by this statement I will briefly discuss the current state of affairs on a position - by - position basis... in goal we have 4 potential candidates, but in reality we have only 1 option with any real future and somehow he's the only one we have actively tried to get rid of for years because he and his father were a little too involved on social media and he got caught smoking (funny how people still defend Wiltshire under the same and far worse circumstances)... you would think we would want to keep any goaltender that Juventus had interest in, as they seem to have a pretty good history when it comes to that position... as far as the defenders on our current roster there are only a few individuals whom have the skill and / or youth worthy of our time and / or investment, as such we should get rid of anyone who doesn't meet those simple requirements, which means we should get rid of DeBouchy, Gibbs, Gabriel, Mertz and loan out Chambers to see if last seasons foray with Middlesborough was an anomaly or a prediction of things to come... some fans have lamented wildly about the return of Mertz to the starting lineup due to his FA Cup performance but these sort of pie in the sky meanderings are indicative of what's wrong with this club and it's wishy - washy fan - base... in addition to these moves the club should aggressively pursue the acquisition of dominant and mobile CB to stabilize an all too fragile defensive group that has self - destructed on numerous occasions over the past 5 seasons... moving forward and building on our need to re-establish our once dominant presence throughout the middle of the park we need to target a CDM then do whatever it takes to get that player into the fold without any of the usual nickel and diming we have become famous for (this kind of ruthless haggling has cost us numerous special players and certainly can't help make the player in question feel good about the way their future potential employer feels about them)... in order for us to become dominant again we need to be strong up the middle again from Goalkeeper to CB to DM to ACM to striker, like we did in our most glorious years before and during Wenger's reign... with this in mind, if we want Ozil to be that dominant attacking midfielder we can't keep leaving him exposed to constant ridicule about his lack of defensive prowess and provide him with the proper players in the final third... he was never a good defensive player in Real or with the German National squad and they certainly didn't suffer as a result of his presence on the pitch... as for the rest of the midfield the blame falls squarely in the hands of Wenger and Gazidis, the fact that Ramsey, Ox, Sanchez and even Ozil were allowed to regularly start when none of the aforementioned had more than a year left under contract is criminal for a club of this size and financial might... the fact that we could find money for Walcott and Xhaka, who weren't even guaranteed starters, means that our whole business model needs a complete overhaul... for me it's time to get rid of some serious deadweight, even if it means selling them below what you believe their market value is just to simply right this ship and change the stagnant culture that currently exists... this means saying goodbye to Wiltshire, Elneny, Carzola, Walcott and Ramsey... everyone, minus Elneny, have spent just as much time on the training table as on the field of play, which would be manageable if they weren't so inconsistent from a performance standpoint (excluding Carzola, who is like the recent version of Rosicky — too bad, both will be deeply missed)... in their places we need to bring in some proven performers with no history of injuries... up front, although I do like the possibilities that a player like Lacazette presents, the fact that we had to wait so many years to acquire some true quality at the striker position falls once again squarely at the feet of Wenger... this issue highlights the ultimate scam being perpetrated by this club since the arrival of Kroenke: pretend your a small market club when it comes to making purchases but milk your fans like a big market club when it comes to ticket prices and merchandising... I believe the reason why Wenger hasn't pursued someone of Henry's quality, minus a fairly inexpensive RVP, was that he knew that they would demand players of a similar ilk to be brought on board and that wasn't possible when the business model was that of a «selling» club... does it really make sense that we could only make a cheeky bid for Suarez, or that we couldn't get Higuain over the line when he was being offered up for half the price he eventually went to Juve for, or that we've only paid any interest to strikers who were clearly not going to press their current teams to let them go to Arsenal like Benzema or Cavani... just part of the facade that finally came crashing down when Sanchez finally called their bluff... the fact remains that no one wants to win more than Sanchez, including Wenger, and although I don't agree with everything that he has done off the field, I would much rather have Alexis front and center than a manager who has clearly bought into the Kroenke model in large part due to the fact that his enormous ego suggests that only he could accomplish great things without breaking the bank... unfortunately that isn't possible anymore as the game has changed quite dramatically in the last 15 years, which has left a largely complacent and complicit Wenger on the outside looking in... so don't blame those players who demanded more and were left wanting... don't blame those fans who have tried desperately to raise awareness for several years when cracks began to appear... place the blame at the feet of those who were well aware all along of the potential pitfalls of just such a plan but continued to follow it even when it was no longer a financial necessity, like it ever really was...

«Without putting too much blame at my own door, I feel I'd like to come back next year and build a team that plays the way I want with a bit more balance and prowess.»

Why do people feel the need to heap blame upon a grieving mother, especailly without ever considering the number of infant deaths in the hospital?

She also wrote that it's good to avoid blame so, «the children are free to continue loving each parent fully without fear of betraying other parent or feeling disloyal.»

When your child feels that he can make mistakes without being blamed or shamed, he can give up his shyness.

Well I know it's not quite summer yet but it sure feels like it is here in Indy... I've been meaning to put together a video with my summer essentials and after gathering my «can't live without» products I ended up missing a couple blaming on hectic mommy life!!!

This can help you get your point across without making your friend feel blamed.

What's more, it can tricky to express these feelings of frustration or low desire without dredging up an accompanying cloud of blame, guilt and inadequacy.

The best way to go about things is to communicate with him in a way which conveys how you truly feel without putting the blame on him.

Help them learn to resolve conflicts without acting aggressively by teaching them the basics of talking things out: staying calm; allowing each person to have his or her say without being interrupted, blamed or put - down; using «I messages» to convey feelings; and considering another's point of view.

We will move to help those who may feel division or hurt, without casting blame.

Trying to understand where the other person is coming from can lead to both partners feeling as if their experience has been heard, which, in turn, allows them to feel safe expressing pain without blame.

If this providential event does not occur, then I will access Plan B. which deals with my individualized response to the client's behavior without blaming or shaming the client, but, instead, discussing and owning my feelings as to the event that just happened.

The person in a relationship who is currently feeling rejected, uncertain about how loved they are, or missing a connection, can learn to reach out without blame or criticism, and talk about their needs in a way that naturally elicits compassion and closeness.

Blame mode can leave people feeling exhausted without access to experience the change they desire.

Dr. Gottman suggests that couples complain without blame («I feel...») and state a positive need («I need...).

One strategy for complaining without blaming is to talk about our own feelings rather than talking about the other person.

This is a constructive strategy because I statements focus on how you feel, without blaming your partner, and behavior descriptions focus on a specific behavior your partner is engaging in rather than a character flaw.

If I feel smothered and need more time alone, I need to be capable of saying that without blaming her and she needs to be capable of hearing it without blaming me, despite the unpleasant feelings it may cause.

Learn to Fight Smarter Happy couples complain without blame by talking about what they feel and what they need, not what they don't need.

Without apportioning blame, it uses problem - solving to stop the bullying by having the group come to understand the hurt that the victim has experienced and seeking from them actions they can take to help the person feel better.

no one is blaming anyone else — the children are free to continue loving each parent fully without fear of betraying other parent or feeling disloyal (this may be the toughest challenge for many parents, but it is CRUCIAL if you want to protect the children from pain and maladjustment).

When you use an «I» statement, you communicate your feelings without assigning blame to your partner.

We offer a space in which difficult feelings can be explored between the couple without judgment or blame.

When my son makes a mistake or has an accident, I simply ask him to help solve the problem or make it better somehow, without making him feel ashamed or blamed.

Those with the growth mindset, on the other hand, can acknowledge their partners» imperfections, without assigning blame, and still feel that they have a fulfilling relationship.

These children complain that they are afraid of the other parent, yet their behavior shows just the opposite — they feel confident in blaming or rejecting that parent without any fear or remorse.

Identify a couple of emotions then use them to complete this sentence: «I feel... when...» You will also need to know the inciting piece for your feelings; try to be clear what it is that makes you feel a certain way without blaming your partner.

The purpose of self - protection and self - assertion is to untangle the knots in sexual communication by simplifying it down to «This feels good to me» and «I don't like that,» without blame or judgment.

It may be hard to listen an understand one another without feeling defensive and blaming.

Acknowledge your feelings and try to move forward without blame.

We define a safe, loving connection as the energetic bond that is created when both partners feel seen, heard, understood, felt and valued... when the energy flows back and forth (sending and receiving) freely, without blame or judgment.