If it is difficult to
find neutral language, then the positions on both sides of the issue are set forth so that one point of view is not favored over the other.
Not exact matches
In other words, the author
finds gender -
neutral language easier than the
language of repentance.
What your family member or friend does, with that information, is their prerogative, but
finding a
neutral tone to express how you feel, in «I»
language, rather than provocative «you»
language, just might help you feel understood, and turn a corner in the relationship.
Even the word introvert is stigmatized — one informal study, by psychologist Laurie Helgoe,
found that introverts described their own physical appearance in vivid
language («green - blue eyes,» «exotic,» «high cheekbones»), but when asked to describe generic introverts they drew a bland and distasteful picture («ungainly,» «
neutral colors,» «skin problems»).
Where they
found difficulty was in trying to change «he» out to more gender
neutral language.
The gender
neutral language is correct in terms of the law, but is not correct as to research
findings, which generally show women to be considerably less dangerous than men, more likely to act in self - defense, and less likely to recidivate (see, e.g., Lois A Ventura & Gabrielle Davis, «Domestic Violence: Court Case Conviction and Recidivism,» 11 Violence Against Women, 266, 272 (2005)-RRB-.