Not exact matches
When she began to
focus on paleo and GAPS diet foods, her son's
behavior began to improve, her
children were healed of eczema and digestive problems, and her own thyroid disorder was healed.
Throughout the book, the authors stress that by
focusing on behaviors and not labels, parents will be able to better understand the whats, whys, and hows of a
child's learning and emotional challenges.
Focus only
on your
child's
behavior, the effort he has put in, and the improvement he has shown because of that effort.
Depending
on the situation,
focusing on thinking and positive self - talk first can impact a
child's feelings, which then impacts her
behavior.
This pattern also undermines the
child's autonomy, because the baby stays
focused on the mother's
behavior and changing moods to the exclusion of nearly everything else.
That
child is acting in the moment,
focusing on getting what he wants, not really paying attention to the fact that his
behavior is actually backfiring and digging him a bigger hole.
«It's most helpful to
focus on the
behavior of your
child's friends, or more importantly, your
child's
behavior when she is with these friends.»
The sad thing is, parents are so
focused on their
children doing well and keeping out of trouble that they rarely address the fact that the
behavior problem is embarrassing for them and they're having a hard time with it.
Juliana and Grace's mom - Please start
focusing more
on establishing boundaries for your
child and teaching her respectful
behavior!
When we
focus on the healthy need every
behavior demonstrates rather than the
behavior itself, we can build a new level of understanding and a deeper connection with our
children.
I don't believe there's any one cure - all, but I would definitely advise parents to seek help that
focuses on relationships, and
on the needs behind their
child's
behaviors, rather than
on diagnoses and medication.
All
behaviors communicate underlying needs, and what we learn about the inner life of our
children by listening to them will help us to
focus on the needs behind the
behaviors instead of simply correcting the «symptoms» (i.e. the
behavior).
The twelve alternatives to time out presented in this book
focus on problem solving and cooperative learning to give parents and
children a chance to address
behavior while maintaining a positive, respectful and connected relationship.
Rather than, punitively, playing «take - away» with the
child when they're not conforming to family rules, it's much better to
focus on educating them beforehand about the negative outcome of their questionable
behaviors.
When we pause, breathe through our own visceral reactions, and
focus on our
child instead of our
child's actions, we can better discern the need behind the
behavior and meet that need, thus eliminating the
behavior itself with no need for correction and opening the door to guiding our
children to better ways of expressing themselves in the future.
If the benefits of marriage for
children can be explained by other observable characteristics of the family, and especially money or parenting
behavior, then policy may be more successful if
focused on those pathways.
Instead of
focusing on the
behavior of your
child, take a deeper look and ask yourself a few questions:
«Once your
child hits the teen years, don't get lost in the details by
focusing too much
on the day to day
behaviors and moods of your
child.
In case you are wondering when and how to teach
children about mealtime
behavior, this article offers advice
on the most important manners to
focus on.
It fosters internal strength and motivation by keeping the
focus of
children's
behavior on themselves instead of anyone else.
Intentionally making a
child feel bad about himself or herself, as a person, instead of
focusing on the actual
behavior you're trying to change
I also try to stay away from the word discipline, which at least in my mind implies punishment for «bad»
behavior, and instead
focus on educating
children with compassion, patience and love.
No matter what type or types of therapy your
child gets, it is important that at some point they learn to
focus on behavior and thinking.
Rather than
focus on taking away privileges for misbehavior, emphasize to your
child that he can earn rewards for good
behavior.
Positive reinforcement — using praise or rewards to shape your
child's
behavior — means «
focusing on the «good» things your
children are doing or certain
behaviors that you like and that you want to see more of,» explains Melanie Rudnick, a New York City - based parenting expert and conscious parenting coach.
For example, if your
child hurts someone else,
focus initially
on making the wounded party feel better, rather than provide your
child with attention to reinforce the negative
behavior.
As a coach I am directive and the
focus is not just
on understanding what is driving your
child's
behaviors, but what you can do to help change their
behavior.
Even when parents choose non-violent means to control their
children such as isolation (i.e. time - outs) and
behavior charts and other punishment / reward tactics, the basic truth is that they are modelling manipulation and coercion and are
focused on controlling a
child's
behavior externally rather than working with them to help them learn to control their own
behavior through an internal guidance system.
Unlike books that
focus on techniques for handling
children's
behavior, the authors of this book direct readers to what they call «the inner work of mindful parenting».
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You can fight with your
child until you're blue in the face about disrespect or motivation, but the way to really effect change is by
focusing on their
behavior.
Avoiding harsh punishment and
focusing on behaviors rather than the
child is also helpful.
The AAP states that
behavior therapy can include «parent training in
behavior therapy and classroom
behavior interventions,» and
focus either
on the «
child's
behavior problems and difficulties in family relationships» or
on his
behavior in the classroom.
For example, Early Head Start, which provides comprehensive services
focusing on early learning experiences, health and nutritional status, social - emotional
behavior, early intervention, and parent support, offers increased access to health care, well -
child exams, immunizations, and screening tests for
children enrolled in the program.
Class
focuses on creating healthy, nurturing relationships with your
children, and covers topics from creating routines to having natural consequences for
behaviors.
Too quick to
focus on a
behavior, and too slow to
focus on the
child.
They
focus their attention and energy
on the positive aspects of their
children's
behavior.
As I write in my forthcoming book, using shame to try to change our kids»
behavior will backfire because these strategies don't
focus on the real problem (
behavior) and imply instead that the
child herself is the problem.
Professionals recommend
focusing on the bad
behavior and never telling your
child that he is bad.
Learning these skills can benefit your
child in many ways: emotionally intelligent, able to control emotions effectively, make feel good about themselves, cope with others freely, understand other's feelings easily, attain less impulsive
behaviors, self - confident,
focus on things with better attention, and academically very active.
This paper
focuses on the effect of Legacy
on children's
behavior and social skills.
Addressing inappropriate
behavior calmly enables you to
focus on teaching the
child what's problematic about his
behavior, and following through with effective consequences.
This approach
focuses on positive
behavior and
children can find it fun.
Discipline needs to correct
behavior while
focusing on keeping a strong connection with your
child.
Focusing on behavioral support, residential treatment centers provide
on - site support for struggling
children and teenagers with serious psychological and
behavior issues.
They also
focus on helping
children understand why their
behavior is wrong.
To combat some of this
behavior you should
focus on teaching your
child how to express themselves properly and limit negative
behavior like hitting or biting.
Learn how to correct
behavior while
focusing on keeping a strong connection with your
child.
Focus on your own
behavior, not
on your
child's.
DB: When we introspectively
focus on the proximate cause of our
behavior, we tend to think it's sufficient explanation of my getting married that I love this person, and that I have no desire to have
children.