Even though every U.S. state has laws protecting a woman's right to nurse anywhere she is legally permitted to be (every state except Idaho so, you know, get your shit together, Idaho), countless women have stories about being shamed
for feeding their baby in public.
I have received more judgement for pulling out a bottle to feed my children than I've ever seen a nursing mother get
for feeding her baby in public.
Not exact matches
I remember how hard it was
for me to breast
feed when I just had my
baby Alec, and it was a hassle going out
in public!
But amidst the plethora of substantial, legitimate information, there is also a cacophony of foreboding, judgmental voices: «lactivist» blogs that compare formula
feeding to child abuse;
public message boards with calls to action - «I automatically feel sorry
for the
baby sitting
in the cart
in the formula aisle as their parent loads up on cans of the stuff.
There is reassurance, too,
for working moms as Valerie explains how breastfeeding can be combined with returning to work, and support
for all moms
in the comments that breastfeeding does not «tie you down,» need not be either «humiliating» or «indecent»
in public, and that you can
in fact «
feed your
baby in any position and anywhere.»
I will likewise try not to worry about you judging me
for sitting and
feeding my
baby in a
public place or
for the fact I've continued to breastfeed after 6 months.
Breastfeeding is not an easy task
in itself and it really is a shame that it is not made more easy
for a woman to comfortably
feed her
baby while
in public.
Women who are trying to do the best
for their
babies should not be forced by other people's hang - ups or lack of understanding to stay home or
feed their
babies in public washrooms.
Even just a cursory Internet search shows that breastfeeding promotion materials framed
in terms of «the risks of formula
feeding» are currently being used by some state breastfeeding coalitions, two hospitals, two private corporations, the Departments of
Public Health
in California and New York, the City of New York, as well as The Special Supplemental Nutrition Program
for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) programs
in at least five states... The United States Department of Health and Human Services» Office on Women's Health publishes a 50 - page guide to breastfeeding that points out that «among formula -
fed babies, ear infections and diarrhea are more common».
I am such a strong believer
in the fact that if society was more accepting of breastfeeding and particularly seeing breastfeeding happen
in public places that more mums would attempt and continue to
feed their
babies for longer.
As much as they claim to be victimised
for public breastfeeding, FFing parents are frequently compared to child abusers, told that they are
feeding their
babies poison, that they don't deserve to have children and shown sensationalist «infographics» like the ones a few posts back which stated that formula
fed babies are x times more likely to die within the first year of life without even accounting
for the numerous confounding factors that would cause those numbers to be elevated
in the first place.
Women who are trying to do the best
for their
babies should not be forced by other people's lack of understanding to stay home or
feed their
babies in public washrooms.
I'm a real proponent of nursing
in public (I think the more people see women nursing their
babies out
in public the more normal it will become and the less stressful it will be
for women who need to
feed their
babies while they're outside) but I try to do it as discreetly as possible.
In the recent article «Controversy over public breast - feeding in Illinois has moms and health experts contemplating issue» (News, June 15), Tribune reporter Serena Maria Daniels said, «the sight of a mom breast - feeding her hungry baby in a public space — even discreetly — is still unacceptable to some and at times is cause for controversy.&raqu
In the recent article «Controversy over
public breast -
feeding in Illinois has moms and health experts contemplating issue» (News, June 15), Tribune reporter Serena Maria Daniels said, «the sight of a mom breast - feeding her hungry baby in a public space — even discreetly — is still unacceptable to some and at times is cause for controversy.&raqu
in Illinois has moms and health experts contemplating issue» (News, June 15), Tribune reporter Serena Maria Daniels said, «the sight of a mom breast -
feeding her hungry
baby in a public space — even discreetly — is still unacceptable to some and at times is cause for controversy.&raqu
in a
public space — even discreetly — is still unacceptable to some and at times is cause
for controversy.»
The required provision of
baby changing facilities was a large step towards making
public places more accessible
for parents and
in many countries there are now laws
in place to protect the rights of a breastfeeding mother when
feeding her child
in public.
The MEPs voting
for the Resolution were heeding the expert opinions of medical and
public health bodies from across Europe, US, Asia and Latin America and from UN bodies, including WHO, UNICEF, Save the Children, the UK Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, the Standing Committee of European Doctors (CPME), the European Midwives Association, Eurochild, Association of European Cancer Leagues, the European Federation of the Association of Dieticians (EFAD), the European Federation of Nurses Associations (EFN), COFACE (the Confederation of Family Organisations in the European Union), EPHA (the European Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the Baby Feeding Law Group and the International Baby Food Action N
public health bodies from across Europe, US, Asia and Latin America and from UN bodies, including WHO, UNICEF, Save the Children, the UK Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, the Standing Committee of European Doctors (CPME), the European Midwives Association, Eurochild, Association of European Cancer Leagues, the European Federation of the Association of Dieticians (EFAD), the European Federation of Nurses Associations (EFN), COFACE (the Confederation of Family Organisations
in the European Union), EPHA (the European
Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the Baby Feeding Law Group and the International Baby Food Action N
Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the
Baby Feeding Law Group and the International
Baby Food Action Network
These 15 stories go even further than the
public shaming of moms about their breastfeeding; these particular cases escalated to the point where these moms were either arrested or threatened with arrest
for feeding their
babies while out
in public!
Yes, I may be naive, but I do live
in hope that the biological norm will one day be the societal norm
for how to
feed a
baby and I think breastfeeding
in public will play a vital role
in getting us there.
While there's no denying that women are shamed
for unapologetically breastfeeding (especially
in public without a cover) mothers are also judged
for formula
feeding their
babies, too, sometimes regardless of the reasons why formula
feeding worked
for them.
(It gets better with time, but even moms who've been nursing
for years report the occasional «HAVE MILK, WILL
FEED BABY» response to baby cries overheard in publ
BABY» response to
baby cries overheard in publ
baby cries overheard
in public.)
In consideration of global public health recommendations, including WHA Resolution 63.23, the WHA Global Strategy of Infant and Young Child feeding and the global impact of exports from the Union to third countries, the labelling and marketing of processed baby foods should make it clear that these products are not adequate for use by infants of less than 6 months of age and should not undermine the 6 month exclusive breastfeeding recommendation; Considers therefore that the labelling and marketing should be revised in line with WHA recommendations for foods for infants and young childre
In consideration of global
public health recommendations, including WHA Resolution 63.23, the WHA Global Strategy of Infant and Young Child
feeding and the global impact of exports from the Union to third countries, the labelling and marketing of processed
baby foods should make it clear that these products are not adequate
for use by infants of less than 6 months of age and should not undermine the 6 month exclusive breastfeeding recommendation; Considers therefore that the labelling and marketing should be revised
in line with WHA recommendations for foods for infants and young childre
in line with WHA recommendations
for foods
for infants and young children;
Moms who exclusively breastfeed feel targeted when out
in public nursing their
babies, while moms who formula
feed feel like they're getting the stink - eye
for prepping a bottle.
In many countries, breastfeeding in public is as mundane an activity as public conversation; no one is concerned when women use their breasts in public for their primary biological function: to feed babie
In many countries, breastfeeding
in public is as mundane an activity as public conversation; no one is concerned when women use their breasts in public for their primary biological function: to feed babie
in public is as mundane an activity as
public conversation; no one is concerned when women use their breasts
in public for their primary biological function: to feed babie
in public for their primary biological function: to
feed babies.
Integrated Management of Childhood Illness (IMCI)- Part III - Chapter 11 - Breastfeeding Nutrient adequacy of exclusive breastfeeding
for the term infant during the first six months of life (2002) Geneva, World Health Organization Full text [pdf 278kb] The optimal duration of exclusive breastfeeding: a systematic review Geneva, World Health Organization, 2001 Full text [pdf 1.06 Mb] Report of the expert consultation of the optimal duration of exclusive breastfeeding Report of an expert consultation Geneva, World Health Organization, 28 - 30 March 2001 Full text [pdf 122kb] The WHO Global Data Bank on Infant and Young Child
Feeding Breastfeeding and Complementary
Feeding Feeding Your
Baby From Six Months To One Year Your guide to help you introduce food to your baby Adapted and reproduced with permission of Peel Public Health, Region of Peel A Practical Workbook to Protect, Promote and Support Breastfeeding in Community Based Projects Health Canada, Ottawa, 2002 This workbook is intended to assist the Canada Prenatal Nutrition Program (CPNP) or similar community based prenatal projects to identify strategies and specific actions to protect, promote and support breastfeeding in a population health cont
Baby From Six Months To One Year Your guide to help you introduce food to your
baby Adapted and reproduced with permission of Peel Public Health, Region of Peel A Practical Workbook to Protect, Promote and Support Breastfeeding in Community Based Projects Health Canada, Ottawa, 2002 This workbook is intended to assist the Canada Prenatal Nutrition Program (CPNP) or similar community based prenatal projects to identify strategies and specific actions to protect, promote and support breastfeeding in a population health cont
baby Adapted and reproduced with permission of Peel
Public Health, Region of Peel A Practical Workbook to Protect, Promote and Support Breastfeeding
in Community Based Projects Health Canada, Ottawa, 2002 This workbook is intended to assist the Canada Prenatal Nutrition Program (CPNP) or similar community based prenatal projects to identify strategies and specific actions to protect, promote and support breastfeeding
in a population health context.
The more
babies feeding in public the better as then it would be more common and acceptable
for all!
Aimee: Trying to breast
feed my
baby in public for the first time and having breast milk spray everywhere... on me, on my
baby, on my blouse... I am much better at it now and can do it like a pro.
It's
for anyone that is supportive of breastfeeding and it's fine with moms being able to
feed their
babies, the way they want to
feed their
babies in public.
I'm hoping that continuing to take my supplements and starting domperidone will take me to exclusive levels of production, but all I know is that I haven't received shade from formula feeders but I have received it from breastfeeders, and that makes me sad because I unapologetically nurse our son uncovered, remind everyone that boobs were made
for feeding so they can deal with breastfeeding
in public, feel that breastmilk is truly the best
for babies and have an extremely hard time with the fact that I can't
feed him just breast.
Over my shoulder
for spit - up, on the changing pad to protect the pad, on the diaper changing station
in public restrooms, protection when changing on the couch or the car seat,
baby towel, swaddle, breast
feeding modesty drape, on the bassinet and crib to keep the sheet from getting so wet so often, crying towel
for myself, and so many other uses.
I finished the ad feeling uneasy and only after thinking about it
for a bit did I realize what it was... I'm a breastfeeding mother that feels consistent judgment regarding my choice to
feed in public, not necessarily wanting to cover my child while
feeding, pumping at work
for my «older child» and she's less than 1 yr old, organizing my life / job / childcare to prioritize our nursing relationship... I feel judgment and yet I'm making an effort to do the best
for my
baby.
The Lake
in the Hills Village Board will vote Thursday night on a policy that would give the same legal protections to employees who express milk
for their
babies as mothers who breast -
feed in public.
Bottle
feeding allows a mother who is uncomfortable breastfeeding
in public another option
in making sure that their
baby is still cared
for.
Ultimately though, regardless of how absurd it sounds, women are harassed
for feeding their
babies, asked to leave restaurants, fear meeting their child's needs
in public due to
public shaming, face judgment
for how they
feed their children, and feel pressured to
feed a certain way but be invisible.
How can a mother soothe her screaming
baby on an airplane and where can she find the laws
for breast
feeding in public in a different state?
My cousin sat
in many
public settings while bottle
feeding her
babies and some women might have thought twice and judged her
for this.
You can support a family or mother by providing a meal, paying
for a coffee
for the family
in line behind you this week, or even walk up to someone
feeding a
baby in public and say thank you.
Friends can encourage,
for example, and strangers can learn not to gawk when a mom
feeds a hungry
baby in public.
But the campaign
for greater acceptance of nursing
in public — and all those detractors who recoil when they see a mother
feeding a
baby just as her body is programmed to do — pales next to the startling image of Grumet
feeding a boy who clearly doesn't need breast milk to thrive.
Honestly, it's such a strange culture we're
in right now... depending on who you talk to... some women are shamed
for nursing
in public, others
for bottle
feeding their
babies.
Currently, due to research results demonstrating high malnutrition and mortality
for formula -
fed babies in developing countries, the 2006 revised HIV and infant
feeding recommendations re-endorse a
public health rationale
in all settings, as follows:
An Ohio bill saying a woman is «entitled to breast -
feed her
baby in any place of
public accommodation» passed the Legislature last month over the objection of one representative who wanted to exempt businesses from liability
for accidents caused by «spillage.»