The difference here is that in the case of IV fluids
for lactivist purposes, there's a perfectly safe and healthy alternative in formula, whereas with vaccines, the alternative to not vaccinating is the diseases themselves, which aren't perfectly safe nor healthy.
It has some short term benefits on a population level basis — which means it makes sense for government agencies who want to save some healthcare dollars to be interested in breastfeeding levels, but is a poor explanation
for lactivist zealotry.
Even though I breastfeed for as long as possible (because I want to, not because I am a sheep that is following the crunchy crowd) I am still waiting
for these lactivist to explain to women what they are supposed to do when they are trying to breastfeed, take care of other children, and have no support taking care of the household.
Here's a newsflash
for lactivists: women formula feed because they want to do so and unless and until you address the real reasons, and stop pretending that this is a giant conspiracy on the part of «Big Forma,» all your campaigns are doomed to failure.
The quoted paragraph above is misleading and not strictly true, but
for lactivists, the ends justify the means.
I never understood the need
for some lactivists to be as public as possible with breastfeeding and why they get SO offended when asked to cover up or be more discrete in any fashion.
Not exact matches
I am thankful
for the info & support of online
lactivists & their education of me.
Cate, a self - professed
lactivist who writes at Eco Child's Play, says she doesn't believe that «setting aside creative, imaginative free play
for an instructional doll is the best
for kids.
I'm personally very thankful
for the (non-judgmental)
lactivist community online and the information you put out there because in future, I hope to have more success breastfeeding through what I've learned.
Thanks
for years of support,
lactivists!
I'd like to say I laid the foundation
for my little brother to become a
lactivist when his own wife began to breastfeed years later, but the truth is, I was just embarrassed
for him to see me nursing.
But amidst the plethora of substantial, legitimate information, there is also a cacophony of foreboding, judgmental voices: «
lactivist» blogs that compare formula feeding to child abuse; public message boards with calls to action - «I automatically feel sorry
for the baby sitting in the cart in the formula aisle as their parent loads up on cans of the stuff.
Trying to breastfeed
for 3 months cost me roughly the same as a year of formula, so I am really just guessing that its cheaper
for some women since all the
lactivists claim it's free.
For all the
lactivist efforts, the majority of infants in this country receive formula at some point.
Switching to formula was so hard
for me because of the bullying tactics of
lactivists, but it was what had to happen if my child was going to eat.
Maybe it's because
lactivists like Martha are well aware that
for many women breastfeeding isn't awesome at all.
I found the dissertation valuable
for the way in which Newman explains the American
lactivist movement.
The single biggest obstacle to
lactivists encouraging breastfeeding is that they are so desperate to stroke their own egos that they don't listen
for even a milllisecond to what women are actually telling them.
I personally did not run into any LCs or
lactivists because it was clear after a month that pumping was not working
for us, and I switched to 100 % formula.
Unfortunately, most
lactivists ignore that some difficulties just can not be overcome (no amount of support is going to effect IGT,
for example).
You can read the rest of Martha's «revelations»
for yourself, but I do want to note one claim beloved of
lactivists:
So, I think the reason that
lactivists encourage mothers to breastfeed so strongly, is because it IS hard in the beginning, but
for many moms it DOES get easier.
It's funny because
lactivists try to sell breastfeeding as easier and more convenient
for women yet at the same time shame women who don't breastfeed as lazy and selfish.
I would be shamed
for this by many
lactivists but my husband and I agreed before the baby was born that if she had issues with dairy we would have to go with formula.
If you're going
for the guilt, and
lactivist sanctimommies are always going
for the guilt, it's best to compare other mothers» behavior to a heinous crime.
No
lactivist offered to donate any of those items or pay
for them.
Simply because a quiet complaint to the right person may make more of a difference than exhaustedly telling off a
lactivist for taking advantage of a captive audience.
Thank you
for taking the REAL feminist stance that women should be free to choose whatever way of birthing and infant feeding they feel is best
for them, not just the NCB /
lactivist approved choice.
No amount of
lactivist «education» can change the reality that exclusive breastfeeding is not the best choice
for everyone and formula companies are needed to fulfill the need
for safe substitutes.
I don't even really consider the photo a protest so much as an injoke
for breastfeeding
lactivists.
The constant need
for reinforcement at every turn that
lactivists seem to have is revealing.
But
for some of the most fringe
lactivists, any formula is enough to diminish that «exclusive breastfeeding» label.
Easier to work
for your father's law firm, study to get a CPM, and put on more hipster get - ups to get cute pictures of yourself doing
lactivist sit ins.
In every choice that a parent needs to make, the NCB /
lactivist approved option is invariably the one that is the hardest and most time consuming
for the mother.
Activism Dear Mark Zuckerberg: Your Breastfeeding Photo Policies Are Offensive Telling Mothers the Truth About Breastfeeding The Time I Was Shamed
For Breastfeeding in Public How I Became a
Lactivist Why I post pictures of my children breastfeeding Opinion: Why We Need To Talk About Breastfeeding 7 Things You Might Not Know About Lactation Consultants Let's Stop Using the Term «Comfort Nursing»
And there are lots of options
for crunchy, breastfeeding fans and
lactivists: Onesies that read «Peace Love Breastfeeding» ($ 12
for an infant onesie)
Then I feel guilt
for feeling shame because I'm a
lactivist for heaven's sake!
I fear that the topic of the Nestle boycott is perceived as a
lactivist's cause and that those who have formula fed have the freedom to, at best, ignore the boycott, or at worst, lob accusations at Nestle boycotters
for being insensitive to the plight of those who have chosen formula
for infant feeding.
Lactivists for the win... I love it!
But the IRS» stated reason
for denying tax sheltered status is the characteristic enthusiastically embraced by
lactivists themselves: breastfeeding is natural.
Breastfeeding supplies have never qualified as medical care, but
lactivists and pediatricians were advocating
for a change in the rules.
The
Lactivist Store offers the best breastfeeding t - shirts I have ever seen (including pro breastfeeding shirts
for men), and donations are made to the Mother's Milk Bank of Ohio.
Thankfully, I wasn't so deeply entrenched in the «
lactivist» mindset that I believed that a stranger's milk or making my own formula would be better or safer
for my son.
It opened my eyes to the fact that the only person who gets to decide which feeding method is best is the mother, she knows her family and her situation better than anyone else, certainly better than the anonymous
lactivists on the internet who mean to shame her
for her choices.
I would love
for one of those hateful «militant
lactivists» to have spent a few days on my schedule and then tell me that I just wasn't trying hard enough.
The message you always get from
lactivists is that breastfeeding makes you a good mom and not breastfeeding makes you an inferior mom, that breast is always best; I think it was this message that made it so difficult
for me to see the damage I was causing to my children in my quest to exclusively breastfeed my youngest.
In it, she chides
lactivists for their intolerance of tolerance,
lactivists who say things like ``... [I] t is scientifically proven that breast is better.