When Dr. John Gottman talks about the paradoxical need
for selfishness in marriage, he speaks of just this, and adds, «Overwork and continual self - sacrifice lead to resentment, emotional distance, and loss of sexual intimacy.»
Deftly intertwining past and present, the thirteen episodes are a slow - burn build toward ever - more - awful bombshells that, ultimately, expose both individuals» and communities» capacities
for selfishness and cruelty.
The screenplay (by Bryan Woods, Scott Beck and Krasinski) supplies the couple with an extremely tacky reason for wanting another kid, one that made me immediately begin to despise these characters
for their selfishness.
Self - assurance although is not to be wrong
for selfishness.
Singles are too independent to answer to anyone: There isn't much room
for selfishness in a relationship.
Penalizing others
for their selfishness might not be fun, but it wins out against the alternative, suggesting how social sanctions and the cooperation they entail might have emerged over time.
[8] Indeed, studies on human behaviour seem to indicate an overall tendency
for selfishness to dominate when individuals act at the collective level.
But
for selfishness to be truly healthy for your whole family, you have to be thinking in a partnership mode — creatively.
Thirdly, Marcelo's goal resulted from an ill - judged offside trap by De Sciglio, and Ronaldo — who had been barely engaging in his team's build - up play and known
for his selfishness — was the one who gave the assist.
He coulda Left em to keep his integrity intact and blast
em for their selfishness
Sanchez should not play,
for selfishness and anti - team playing style.
If a man can be this arrogant and ignorant of the situation and would rather stay
for his selfishness rather leave for the clubs own good and to save some face, then in this situation only the board or owner can do what every respecting fan would rather not wish, which is to sack the manager.
Self - giving love is possible only where there is freedom
for selfishness and self - righteousness.
On Calvary he not only makes up
for the selfishness of others with his selfless love, he also apologises to his Father for the infinite offence which sin gives to Divine Goodness.
However its the middlemen or some individuals make this system complex with their narrow mindedness
for their selfishness.
Capitalism does allow more freedom
for selfishness and more opportunity for the acquisitive, but some capitalistic systems also allow more freedom and opportunity for everything else as well.
For if each person is self - sufficient to himself and intrinsically independent of all others, have we not a prescription
for selfishness and self - centeredness?
It's not a pretty sight and God had a purpose for every child that the mothers and doctors has destroyed
for selfishness and money.
There was an aunt who, alone among the many relatives, had a reputation
for selfishness, and who had kept a grown - up son as handy - man around the house but was finally persuaded by another aunt to let the son go to Labrador to take part in a philanthropic project there.
On the cross he makes up
for the selfishness of others with his selfless sacrifice of obedient love and he also apologizes to his Father for the infinite offence which sin gives to Divine Goodness.
Or the way we handle anything, wether it be to Gods glory or
for selfishness.
Not exact matches
This act of
selfishness actually holds back that employee
for getting the development that they deserve as is extremely de-motivating.
I just want to use this person
for my own
selfishness.
When this bully ethics get in the hand of wrong people, they use this
for their own
selfishness (power & money to achieve & to maintain) So just we all must realise that, we all are living together among BIG BULLIES only.
For those who need to believe in an after - life because the thought of your life ending on Earth without a second act is either due to
selfishness or fear.
Nor does she mean by «
selfishness» caring
for oneself at the expense of others but merely a concern
for oneself that, far from precluding helping others, could necessitate dying
for a high - enough value, such as one's country or spouse.
If you truly believe that you will have to stand before God one day and account
for yourself you don't want to have a history of
selfishness, greed and indifference
for the least among them.
The director may have intended to draw the audience into complicity with the lovers»
selfishness — and in fact, I was surprised at how long it took
for the audience to stop laughing at Ernest, to lose their edgy sympathy
for the lovers — but the ultimate effect was simply to make the lovers» erotic demands seem further from our own.
The contenders
for mankind's greatest problem are many — war, terrorism, poverty, disease, starvation and, at the root of everything,
selfishness.
Stop blaming your god
for your own
selfishness.
Another thing, by stating that abortion is an option because rasing a baby is a dead end
for your future possible career, or you might drop out of HS, or you might not have enough $ to care
for IT properly... all these excuses scream out:
selfishness.
Such omissions as not visiting the dying or attending funerals, and not sending thank - you letters in return
for hospitality, favors, or presents, were once perceived as evidence of rudeness, presumably prompted by
selfishness or sloth.
Marriage has an uncanny way of revealing our
selfishness, biases and secret fantasies
for our spouse to become more like us.
When one of my kids finds him or herself in a predicament in which they're having a negative attitude or they're portraying
selfishness, I'll often use those situations as teaching moments
for what it means to be light.
Maybe especially in our parenting — a crucible
for most of us to deal with our
selfishness, our pride, our pet sins, our bad habits, our carefully hidden real selves.
We always want certain things
for ourselves, and so
selfishness is also always in play and all our relationships have some problems.
Toss down your pride and your greed, your
selfishness and your me - first, those things aren't
for you.
To be grateful
for being richer, sexier, or more successful than another is arrogance and
selfishness.
Yet, it prevents him from using this as an alibi by adding that the factor which keeps the disease from being controlled is «alcoholic thinking» —
selfishness, fear, resentment, lack of humility — matters
for which the alcoholic is responsible.
But as shocking and painful as all these losses were, my instinctive response shocked me even more: the rage, the blame - shifting, the thirst
for revenge, the bitter arrogance, the self - justified resentment, the dark self - righteousness, the control - hungry manipulation, the deluded rationalization, the deep
selfishness, the perverted sense of entitlement.
So when I say I'm ready
for a healthy dose of «works - based» salvation, this is what I mean: I'm ready to be liberated from the tyranny of my
selfishness by caring
for the «least of these».
Confession has stripped away the sins of greed, of
selfishness, of laziness, of lust, envy and pride — but has left behind a great catalog of pain
for which there is no one to blame.
The inevitability of
selfishness in political and economic affairs is something which I have taken
for granted ever since reading Reinhold Niebuhr.
They tend to sink into self - pity, which is the most miserable type of
selfishness, as well as perhaps the most potent factor
for loneliness and self - isolation.
Much as we may dislike the doctrine of original sin — and indeed it has often been formulated in a way that must antagonize any man of sense and good will — there would appear to be in human beings the seeds of
selfishness, arrogance, brutality, callousness, the lust
for power, jealousy, hatred and all the rest of the miserable host of evil.
I forgive him but cant forget his
selfishness toward those children, who in fact will suffer everyday of their lives
for his selfish undoing.
Children are not bad
for the environment - it's our
selfishness that is bad
for this planet.
My heart grieves
for all of those that have been hurt by my
selfishness and foolishness.
But in a fallen world, tainted by sin, where
selfishness, suffering and death deface the primordial goodness of the world, further signs are needed
for man's sake.
But he must accept this redemption with the turning of his whole being,
for only thus can he extricate himself from the maze of
selfishness where he has always set himself as his goal and find a way to God and to the fulfillment of the particular task
for which he is intended.