Last question, is it normal
for waketimes to be getting a bit longer at this age of 12 week??
hello, my daughter is 4 weeks old and WILL NOT stay awake
for waketimes after nursing.
However, as he has become more alert, I have made the mistake in the past week of keeping him up too long
for his waketimes.
(though I do like the gym
for some waketimes).
How long did you keep your bambino up
for waketime?
It is totally normal
for waketime length to change even weekly in those early months.
McKenna was a baby who had different waketimes
for every waketime.
Even my 6 month old can't do
that for every waketime.
Not exact matches
Typically, if a baby is not crying in bed but takes a long time to fall asleep, I say the baby needs a longer
waketime length, BUT 60 minutes seems plenty long enough
for a 3 week old.
For more information, see the blog index under «
waketime» Your dreamfeed should be happening at 10 PM.
- MidMorning - 10 am - Afternoon - 1 pm - Midafternoon - 4 pm - Late afternoon - 7 pm - Early evening - 10 pm (sounds awfully late
for an «early evening» feeding); this one even says possible
waketime, but how is that possible?
I also kept up the dreamfeed longer than he probably needed it and added a 1:30 am pumping (he had been STTN
for a couple months) and woke him to feed him at 5:00 am (normal morning
waketime is 8:00).
My concern is that she's not really getting much
waketime since she is nursing
for so much of it.
For the older baby, it would be from DF to morning
waketime — meaning no night feedings.
Charmingly Ordinary, you will have to find a
waketime length that works
for now.
I'm not sure there is anything that I can do about this excessive long wake time window of fuzzing action since he usually has a big bowl movement around 2:00 a.m. I'm only guessing his bowl movement is what keeps him up
for 3 hours, but who knows it might be do to my poor
waketime strategy during the day.
Do you have any suggestions
for keeping baby happy in the 1 1/2 hours of
waketime we are having between the last nap and her 7 p.m. feeding?
He usually sleeps 7 - 8 hours, so wakes up around 2:30 - 4 am
for his next feed, then usually sleeps till his
waketime of 7 am.
I may have missed this, but where did you post the optimal
waketime lengths
for older babies?
My five week old has a relatively predictable 2 1/2 to 3 hour feeding cycle, but tends to eat, have very little
waketime, sleep
for about 45 minutes, then wake and stay fussy until time to eat again.
For the last nap, she might need a longer
waketime.
You also might want to evaluate
waketime length
for the entire day.
He has recently started waking in the middle of the night and fussing
for about 5 minutes every 30 minutes from 3 am until his
waketime at 6 am, and I think it is because he is hungry from dropping all those calories and not replacing them with food.
No extra
waketime for the night feedings — start with the 6 AM feeding.
Erin,
For the first nap, she would likely need a shorter
waketime.
Also see the posts «waking early from naps / won't fall asleep
for naps», «
waketime when they wake early» and «
waketime when baby wakes early».
Included is an explanation of the three basic elements of daytime activities
for newborns: feeding time,
waketime, and naptime.
Becca Anne,
For the crying, he might need a longer
waketime.
See also the optimal
waketime post
for ideas.
The only thing I feel really confident in is the going - to - bed - routine... he has always fallen asleep earlier, his bedtime is usually around 6:30 pm and he goes down like a champ and is usually out
for 4 or 5 hours... his
waketime in the morning is also around 6:30 am - 7 am... where should I go from there?
One is that he is ready
for a bit more stimulation durding waketimg OR a bit longer
waketime length.
He also roots around a lot like he is hungry even though he eats (breastfeeds
for about 20 minutes every 2.5 hours — his
waketime is around 45 - 50 minutes).
Also I find it so hard to determine the optimal
waketime length - whether she needs more awake time or less always trouble me... any light you can shed on this
for me would be helpful.
6:30 am - up
for the day 7:00 am - breakfast 9:00 am - snack 11:15 am - lunch 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm - nap [nap was pushed out by 15 minutes every 3 days to a 5.5 hour
waketime] 2:30 pm - snack 5:45 pm - dinner 6:15 pm - bedtime routine 7:00 pm - bedtime
His
waketime has always been 7 - 7.30 am and bedtime 7/7.30 pm but
for the past 4 weeks he has been consistently waking up really grumpy and early anywhere between 5 am -6.30 am.
Meals and naptimes continue on schedule, and additionally the baby's
waketime activities «must be organized, rather than being free -
for - all experiences» 9 Parents are to schedule daily «playpen times» in a location where the baby can't see his parents in order to teach the baby to play independently.
The short answer is that you don't add
waketime, you wait
for him to be ready.
OH, and the other struggle... with optimal
waketime, what if he's been nursing
for usually an hour?
I'm not sure if she's getting too much
waketime before that first nap... I usually go walking with her in the morning and often she'll fall asleep in the stroller and when I get home I'll put her in bed, but I've also tried nixing the walk and scheduling just an hour or so of
waketime so she won't be as sleepy going down
for a nap and she still rises early.
i have an 11 week old girl and am having napping issues -
for approx. 6 weeks now she falls asleep fine but always wakes up early, very very rarely making it through 1 hr uninterrupted... i've read through a lot of the posts and tried various things such as cutting back on
waketime, increasing
waketime, cio, etc. but nothing has worked... when she does wake early i try and get her back down but it does get frustrating at times... her nighttime sleep is pretty random as well - she's anywhere from 5 - 7rs, sometimes 8 - 8.5 hrs, once 9.5 hrs, then all of a sudden she went back down to 4 - 4.5 hrs... is this normal?
Try adding only five minutes to the
waketimes that she is not sleeping well
for.
His
waketime is between 1 hour and 1.25 hours but considering he only sleeps
for 1 hour at a time, I feel like I can never extend our routine.
I try to cut
waketime, extend
waketime, the room is dark i use withe noise, my baby is little colichy but in the first day he had more gas pain but sleeps well
for naps.
See the blog label «optimal
waketime»
for help with that.
You might even need to go 65 — work with
waketime length until you find what is right
for him.
8 am
waketime: nurse 9:30 - 11 / 11:30: nap 1 11:30: nurse 1pm - 2:30: nap 2 2:30 nurse 3:45 - 4:30: nap 3 4:45: nurse «snack» 6:30 / 6:45 bottle of formula * very very hungry at this feeding (I pump a little later to build a stash) 7 pm bedtime 11:15 pm I wake him
for DF 5:30 am he wakes to nurse (eats
for a good 15 minutes) 8 am
waketime (sometimes I wake him sometimes he's up 7:30 - hard to say) How do I start?
See the blog label optimal
waketime for more.
Sometimes a morning feeding will be followed by
waketime until the next feeding (not neccessarily crying, just awake, even though we put her down
for a nap).
Yesterday when I put him down while he was awake (after about 50 minutes of
waketime including feeding), he cried
for about 10 minutes off and on then eventually fell asleep.
I suggest you look at the «optimal
waketime» blog label and get my spreadsheet
for figuring that out.