I could feel other people's assumptions bombard me as I popped a bottle in my son's mouth, unable (and mostly unwilling) to take the time to adequately explain to people why I chose to
formula feed my kid.
While there are plenty of women who have experienced judgement for openly and unapologetically breastfeeding their kids, there are just as many (eh, arguably even more) women who have been judged and shamed for
formula feeding their kids.
So with that in mind, here are nine reasons why you should never judge a woman for
formula feeding her kid.
There's nothing lazy about preparing to
formula feed your kid.
But all of that doesn't mean I was exempt from judgment from a lot of people about my decision to
formula feed my kid.
An article is released sharing the findings of a new study that revealing some new findings about breastmilk or there may be some issues with formula and hundreds of comments pour in with things like «formula is the same thing, really and all the breastfed kids I know are sick all the time but
my formula fed kids have genius IQs and are never sick» or «you know, not everyone can breastfeed so I guess I'm a bad mom because my breasts just didn't work.»
I was made to feel less than because
I formula fed my kids, but I can tell you with absolute certainty that formula feeding doesn't make you a bad mom.
Breastfed children are smarter than
formula fed kids.
Not exact matches
This isn't to say that the
formula caused the death or that
formula fed parents don't care but there are some specific circumstances that can make these
kids more prone to bed - related deaths2.
In the developed world, when all other variables are held constant,
kids fed breast milk and
formula do equally well.
Even though both my
kids were primarily
formula fed they have been healthy with no problems at all... so chillax and enjoy your well -
fed baby.
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NEW YORK (Reuters Health)- In a study of six - year - olds, researchers found no IQ differences between
kids who were
fed formula supplemented with long - chain polyunsaturated fatty acids (PUFA) as infants and those who got regular
formula, but the PUFA
kids were notably faster at picture - matching games.
How would you feel if a breastfeeder said «when I
fed my
kids a bottle of
formula in the hospital, I felt it was like committing a sex act on my child, but I support and celebrate other moms who want to do it.»
Exclusive breast
feeding would have cost us more than $ 10K for our two
kids compared to exclusive
formula feeding.
These could be the people who need to
feed their
kids soy
formula or the expensive elemental predigested stuff.
With all of the options out there about cloth diapers vs. disposable ones,
formula feeding your baby vs. sticking with the boob, and deciding to eat your placenta vs. tossing it — and the assumption that, in most cases, choosing one thing means choosing only that thing to the exclusion of all other things, which is totally not how it works in real life — there is already too much to think about besides how everyone else feels you should decide to raise your
kid.
Turning to the tiniest
kids in «
kids and food,» the office of New York City mayor Michael Bloomberg has announced a new initiative under which participating city hospitals will restrict access to infant
formula in an effort to encourage breast
feeding by new moms.
Occasionally I do feel pressured by parents struggling to make ends meet to diagnose a CMPI or reflux so the
kid can get free milk, but rather that than having a family with a sick baby struggling to find money to
feed themselves and the baby who needs an expensive hydrolysed
formula.
But yeah, let's pretend that giving your
kid formula is like
feeding him gravy out of a bottle.
Kids Health;
Formula Feeding Frequently Asked Questions: Some Common Concerns; Larissa Hirsch, MD; March 2009
I have
formula fed, pumped, breastfed, tandem nursed (yep, two
kids... but they had to take turns), used a crib, co-slept, homeschooled, and sent them all to school.
I struggled with
formula feeding just 2 days after my little guy was born, for both the fact that I felt like a failure as a mother not being able to provide nourishment to my child and I know what commercial
formula can do to
kids (especially soy and little boys).
Many moms have to work to help keep a roof over the
kids head, which I think is way more important than breastfeeding vs
formula feeding, so even if they pump their babies are still being
fed out of bottles by someone else.
Breast milk helps with brain development, but in my
kids» elementary classes, I can't tell which students were nursed or
formula fed.
(This is why sometimes it's hard for moms who breastfeed and moms who
formula feed to hang out when their
kids are teeny — the decision [such as it is] can feel too raw for either and both of you.)
... which specifically disadvantages low income and / or working moms who rely on
formula to
feed their
kids when they're not around.
Moms who
formula feed hear horrific, rude and honestly, untrue, things about
formula and their choice to
feed it to their
kids.
Prominent organizations line up on the side of breastfeeding to give
kids a healthy start in life, but advertisements from
formula manufacturers and some research suggests that bottle -
fed babies do just as well.
I joke with my husband that I saved us a TON of money by having a natural delivery, no drugs; breast
feeding the babies, no
formula, and letting the
kids go naked most of the day while we are home - saves on diapers and laundry (we live in a tropical climate, so it is easy to do this!)
Sophie's 6 month schedule... or Mommys wan na b schedule.I get up at 6:30 am to get myself ready wake up a 5 yr old and 3 yr old for school let them get dressed when one is not throwing a tantrum or teasing the other one by now its 7:30 a send them to eat and then brush their teeth while I dress the baby who has been very paTient... out the house by 8 for kindergartener to get there on time and next stop grandmas we get her to nurse... and get preschooler to school by 8:30 and I'm off to work I pump by 12p and collect 6oz for her afternoon... grandma
feeds her again at 11:30 a. Of breast milk and sometimes it's 5oz / 6oz... we sometimes get her a4oz
formula bottle with her cereal.I pick up brothers from school at 1and go drop off with grandma and
feed Baby again... she gets 5oz bill around 3:30 p and I get home at 6 pm to nurse her and then get food for the
kids and don't forget homework... baby gets her veggies... and mom gets Cold
Parents will be instructed by the doctor about how much
formula milk the
kid should get and how often they need to be
fed.
Sometimes they include stories of how we
fed our
kids, especially if the story is horrifying, like answering the door with the flaps of a nursing bra down, or having a mother - in - law mix up a whole days» worth of pricey
formula and leave it out of the fridge to go bad, not knowing.
Kids who had used the low protein
formula were approximately the same height as those
fed the higher protein
formula, but the latter group weighed more.
The animal rescue play center is a lot of fun for
kids because they can interact at different stations and pretend to check animals» vital signs,
feed them
formula, check their weight, and even pretend to release them back into the ocean.
As a mom who breastfed her
kids for almost four consecutive years, it never got in the way of becoming friends with women who
formula fed, or took some other alternative view of how to
feed their
kids.
Research also shows that
kids who are
fed soy
formula (versus breastmilk or cow's milk
formula) in the first year of life may have a significantly lower bone density than other
kids.
Speaking of
formula feeding over breastfeeding, for all three of my
kids, my doctor emphasized and emphasized the importance of breastfeeding.
My
kids are 2 - and - half years old now, and are either on - target or ahead of all of their milestones despite being born seven weeks early and having a
formula diet, so it's impossible for me to be feel like I impaired their development by
feeding them
formula.
I'll give her a hint: it's not the
formula feeding moms who are bring their
kids to daycare.
Since I was
formula feeding, I was able to get a few minutes to myself on occasion so that I could gather my sanity and remind myself of how much I loved my
kids, instead of stewing over how much I resented them from robbing me of anything that remotely resembled sleep or personal space.
And also when I realized that
formula is a thing, and my
kid would be
fed either way, and that's kinda the only point that matters.
Millions of
formula -
fed babies grow up into healthy young
kids, there's no reason why yours won't too.
Sure breast milk is best and you shouldn't eat McDonalds and sit your
kid in front of a tv for hours on end every day but french fires every once in a while or watching Dora for 20 mins or
formula is not the end of the world; especially when a breast
feeding mom eats crap daily... how is that best?
Being one of those women with physical limitations, my
formula fed child is at the top of her first grade class and healthier than any of the other
kids in her class.
She BF her first
kid, but she
formula fed her second because the stress in the rest of her life was overwhelming.
If the authors worked at a daycare center, what do they expect to do — tell parents to bring in a prescription for
formula and food or the staff won't
feed the
kid?
Darn
kid drank a full
feeding (6 oz by 3 months) every single hour, and I was dry as a bone by 2 am every night so he took 1
formula bottle.
With the subtle changes in the breast milk, such as when you have that garlic chicken, breastfed babies tend to accept a wide variety of foods when they begin solids compared with
formula -
fed kids that consume the same flavor day after day after day.