If giving
formula makes you feel guilty, don't sign the form and don't give the formula.
Not exact matches
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for
formula telling me a happy feeding
makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and nurses telling new moms that
formula is «just as good» and «not to
feel guilty», women getting «the look» for nursing in public, or
feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
Women don't seek out the support that is there because they're afraid that if they ultimately decide to
formula - feed they will be
made to
feel guilty about not trying harder.
Rosin's real gripe is that the benefits of breast - feeding have been oversold,
making moms
feel guilty if they choose to feed their babies
formula.
Not only do I NOT
feel guilty about not breastfeeding because he is getting such a nutrient rich
formula, but I can depend on something to
make my life easier when his crying is just too much to bare!
If a mom asked for
formula or even a pacifier, we had to document that we informed the mom that an artificial nipple could cause nipple confusion and impair nursing, of course
making them
feel incredibly
guilty.
Making formula feeding moms
feel guilty?
by Jack Newman, MD, FRCPC One of the most powerful arguments many health professionals, government agencies and
formula company manufacturers
make for not promoting and supporting breastfeeding is that we should «not
make the mother
feel guilty for not breastfeeding».
Absolutely no one can
make me
feel guilty about any of the decisions I
made about giving my children
formula, from medical necessity to my personal preference.
Dr. Smith and her colleagues aren't trying to
make formula feeders
feel guilty.
it is not right to
make anyone
feel guilty for going one way or another as long as it is not harming the baby and to my knowledge, there has been no proof that a
formula fed baby is any worse off then a breastfed one.....
Everyone seems so obsessed about not
making mothers
feeling guilty about
formula feeding as opposed to those who want to breastfeed but are undermined by free
formula.
Are they
making money by convincing you to not
feel guilty about using
formula?
a very long stressful year in which my milk supply was terrible, I was in pain most of the time and I was
made to
feel guilty for every
formula bottle, so I spent hours pumping (instead of sleeping).
Formula feeding moms are
made to
feel guilty because they didn't
make a choice that other mothers have proudly
made; a dangerous consequence of all parents just wanting to
feel validated and supported in their personal parenting decisions.
So the final mistake that moms
make when transitioning to
formula is that they
feel guilty.
Don't
feel guilty for using
formula and don't
feel guilty if you
make a few mistakes along the way.
And they would have no problem at all
making that mother
feel guilty for feeding her baby cow's milk, and then pressuring her to feed the baby
formula.
They nonchalantly said things like, «breast is best,» which
made me
feel super
guilty about having to use
formula.
Elsie, while I agree that we need to step back, and avoid
making women who don't nurse
feel guilty, it's important to realize that, in fact «generations» were NOT raised on
formula.
I managed to
make it 6 months before we had to supplement with
formula and 18 before we quit completely, but I still
felt guilty that I wasn't able to put my baby's needs above my corporation's.
On the
formula feeding vs breastfeeding, I have not breastfed any of my three girls; with the first one I very frustrated with the lack of supply and
felt guilty, but finally my pediatrician said exactly the same that you mention: the best to do is what it
makes you a happy mom and her a happy baby.
So, when you can't breastfeed or when you have to supplement with
formula, or even if you choose to use
formula, it can
make you
feel so
guilty.
«I also think that women who choose
formula from the start, for whatever reason, should not be
made to
feel guilty.»
I completely understand that there are cases when breastfeeding is not possible and I don't ever want to
make any mom
feel guilty for needing to feed
formula.
Milk is usually
formula but a doctor told me that it was fine to feed a baby cows milk cut with water, that they just
make women
feel guilty to sell
formula.
But the point of this post is not to educate on the merits of breastfeeding or
make formula feeding moms
feel guilty.