Kids really do know how to heal
from their emotional hurts — if we can be there to listen and support them through the process.
Not exact matches
BlackBerry has traditionally scored high on product performance and innovation but low of
emotional connection with consumers, which has
hurt its ability to rebound
from its iBeating.
It wasn't the summer that brought an end to my doubt, but it was the summer I encountered a different Jesus, a Jesus who requires more
from me than intellectual assent and
emotional allegiance; a Jesus who associated with sinners and infuriated the religious; a Jesus who broke the rules and refused to cast the first stone; a Jesus who gravitated toward sick people and crazy people, homeless people and hopeless people; a Jesus who preferred story to exposition and metaphor to syllogism; a Jesus who answered questions with more questions, and demands for proof with demands for faith... a Jesus who healed each person differently and saved each person differently; a Jesus who had no list of beliefs to check off, no doctrinal statements to sign, no surefire way to tell who was «in» and who was «out»; a Jesus who loved after being betrayed, healed after being
hurt, and forgave while being nailed to a tree; a Jesus who asked his disciples to do the same...
Christ got tired, got
emotional, cracked jokes (as the human being he was), his stomach
hurt, he was afraid («take away this cup
from me») and even on the cross, he dared say «Eloi, Eloi, Lama Sabactani» («God, God, why have you forsaken me»).
If you have been
hurt badly, lied to or had significant physical and
emotional damage
from traditional medical care — being forced back into that environment will cause fear, that will hamper labour due to how women were made (any threat the woman feels causes labour to slow until she no longer experiences that «fight or flight response», and when she feels safe again, labour should resume)-- labour slows and then interventions «have» to be done... and the cycle repeats itself — reenforcing the belief that the hospital is not the place to birth.
Much of the pain and
hurt from an
emotional affair is due to the deception, lies, and feelings of being betrayed.
I believe the
hurt comes
from reacting to the behavior as if the child were an adult and not keeping in mind that most children do not have the
emotional maturity to get their needs met through effective communication.
Chapter 15
Hurting Parents,
Hurting Children shares ways parents can heal
from their
emotional baggage instead of passing that baggage along to the next generation.
«They see the moments of
hurt or traumas
from the past that predisposed them for substance use and undergo an
emotional processing that allows for resolution of the underlying pain.»
One of the most profound gifts I once received
from a wise friend in a moment of
emotional turmoil was having her thank me for sharing my
hurt — because in doing so I was making it possible for others to feel their own pain and let it go!
Our life experiences are a delicate balance between protecting ourselves
from hurt (both physical and
emotional), and opening up to love.
Jackman sells the
emotional and physical pain we are witnessed to
from the get - go; it honestly
hurts to watch him limp everywhere.
Both Pegg and Frost are playing characters who are markedly different
from their personas in the earlier installments of the unofficial, otherwise unrelated trilogy; Gary is more ragged, poised over the abyss, while Andy is still and determined not to be
hurt again by withholding his
emotional involvement in the reunion.
We believe and empathize with Mary Elizabeth Winstead when she's upset often as she's a good actress that can sell a scene, but we don't always believe the situation or the sequence that got her
from emotional point A to B. And this obviously
hurts the movie and the viewer's engagement in it, and that's not all.
Parents are often too
emotional to see the difference; but a growing puppy is going to put everything
from food to clothes to hands in their mouths, and as they get older and bigger it definitely
hurts (and will get worse, if they aren'tbeing corrected properly.)
Parents are often too
emotional to see the difference; but a growing puppy is going to put everything
from food to clothes to hands in their mouths, and as they get older and bigger it definitely
hurts (and will get worse, if they aren't being corrected properly, and aren't being provided a safe and appropriate alternative chew toy.)
To be ready for divorce is to have a lower
emotional attachment to the person you are separating
from, other wise, the divorce process itself will be roller coaster of intense feelings, including anger, distrust and
hurt.
Sometimes there is
emotional hurt involved and reasons the couple are distancing
from each other.
And words can
hurt forever: How to protect adolescents
from bullying, harassment, and
emotional violence.
The five - step exercise to turn resentment into greater closeness, is one way to prevent
hurt feelings
from going underground, and to use miscommunications as means to strengthen the
emotional bond between you.
Psychotherapy, at its best, provides a safe and supportive relational environment to help heal
emotional and relational injuries
from the past, untangle outdated and now unhelpful coping strategies developed to deal with the
hurts, and gain the skills and understanding needed to move forward in life with stability and flexibility to handle the future.»
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) is a structured model of therapy that has been proven time and time again to help couples recover
from the
hurt of an affair, reconnect with their partner on a deep
emotional level, and build happier, more resilient marriages.
I know
from both researchers that not all
hurts are the same and that some
emotional injuries can be traumatic when they trigger deeply held beliefs about the self, the other, and about intimate relationships.
Yet this is exactly what I hear
from diverse groups with statements like «I give my child a hug when he does something well because kudos build self - esteem» or «When she bumped herself, once I realized she wasn't really
hurt, I let her cry because she needs to develop grit» or «We're strict about keeping schedules because rituals instill
emotional security.»
Although there are differing views on how to protect your marriage
from being
hurt by an
emotional affair, we think your marriage is best protected
from an
emotional affair by the two of you working together to have a marriage built on a strong foundation of friendship and trust.
Much of the pain and
hurt from an
emotional affair is due to the deception, lies, and feelings of being betrayed.
EFT can help you to: * improve communication * prevent disagreements
from spiraling out of control * express your needs and respond to your partner's needs * create security, heal long - standing
hurt and create trust * repair damage: affairs, loss, intense stress and conflict * regain
emotional and physical intimacy
The SDQ consists of five scales of five items each, generating scores for conduct problems (e.g., «Steals
from home, school or elsewhere»), hyperactivity - inattention (e.g., «Restless, overactive, can not stay still for long»),
emotional symptoms (e.g., «Many worries, often seems worried»), peer problems (e.g., «Rather solitary, tends to play alone»), and prosocial behavior (e.g., «Helpful if someone is
hurt, upset or feeling ill»).
Atkinson makes a brilliant case that successful psychotherapy literally rewires the brain for more flexibility by forging new neural networks and enabling clients to shift
emotional states away
from hurt / protection and toward intimacy.
As a couples therapist, I've learned
from years of experience that encouraging couples to express their anxieties,
hurts and fear in a safe
emotional couples counseling session is an effective way to create greater happiness and sexual fulfillment.
Although some divorces can be contentious with understandably
hurt feelings and anger, children should be protected at all times
from emotional pain.