It stems
from a fear of abandonment and a false sense of identity.
Not exact matches
That was a very interesting read many comments caught my attention I've recently been diagnosed with Bipolar I have hallucinations and hear voices in my ear's when I hallucinate it's likes they are trying to get me thousands
of them I can only describe them as dark shadows and they are trying to get me just as they are about to get me a brilliant white light surrounds me and there's three entities humanly shaped but like this brilliant white light they are also glowing this brilliant whiteness I can't understand what they are saying the only way I can explain it is emotions comfort joy love is what I feel emanating
from these entities the voices I hear aren't evil telling me to do bad things to people when I get put into a mode
of fear I live in a rough area
of Scotland and everytime I've got into a fight something possesses me I know this for a fact as I can't control myself I'm an observer watching my family / Friends say I change they say my eyes change and I look evil I personally do think possibly through my own personal experience I» am possessed as I act out
of character I've lost interest in many things I've recently I decided it's time for change I've lost my faith I've been trying to connect with God and feel his love which I used to feel the presence
of the holy spirit everytime I try connect I get a feeling
of abandonment I just think if I am possessed could these entities stop me connecting with «God» I can say
from my heart
of hearts «JESUS CHRIST HAS COME IN THE FLESH» I think it's more to do with the persons own personal
fears which I have noticed my
fears have changed if I had to be truthfully with myself I
fear God which I know I'm not supposed to just I can't explain it I guess if you ever need a test subject I'm up for the challenge like I said I'm on journey to find myself and my travels have brought me hear I'm going to hang around for a wee while there's lots
of good information to be plundered loll
I come
from «shameless» caretakers,
abandonment, ridicule, abuse, neglect — perfectionistic systems I am empowered by the shocking intensity
of a parent's rage The cruel remarks
of siblings The jeering humiliation
of other children The awkward reflection in the mirrors The touch that feels icky and frightening The slap, the pinch, the jerk that ruptures trust I am intensified by A racist, sexist culture The righteous condemnation
of religious bigots The
fears and pressures
of schooling The hypocrisy
of politicians The multigenerational shame
of dysfunctional family systems MY NAME IS TOXIC SHAME
To an extent, a lot
of these problems in regard to life stem
from a kind
of fear of abandonment.
The profound feelings
of guilt, shame, inadequacy,
fear, insecurity,
abandonment, failure, and despair can immobilize the mother and prevent her
from taking steps toward recovery.
Low socio - economic status and
fear of abandonment early in life can lead to poor health in adulthood, regardless
of adult socio - economic status, according to a new study
from psychologists at Rice University.
The study examined the self - reported measures
of childhood socio - economic status, attachment orientations (such as
fear of abandonment or difficulty in forming relationships), stress and adult health
of 213 participants
from 2005 to 2011.
Fear of abandonment, unworthiness, rejection, inadequacy, blame, and victimhood stem
from a lack
of connection to the love within you.
These two major relationship
fears — the
fear of rejection and the
fear of engulfment — come
from a common source: self -
abandonment.
There have been fresh warnings that Brexit could lead to British farming and food standards being lowered if meat
from the United States is allowed to
Fear of abandonment causes us to lower our standards.
Feathers» hearty competence barely conceals an almost pathological
fear of abandonment stemming
from his complicated and violent childhood.
For all pets, whether they come
from hurricanes,
abandonment, or abuse, homelessness itself is a kind
of disaster, a state
of overwhelming uncertainty and
fear.
Your dog may
fear abandonment for any number
of reasons, but it all stems
from confidence and security in training.
It has stated that it is U.S. policy to «deter child abductions» and that «the Convention's purpose [is] to prevent harms resulting
from abductions,» which «can have devastating consequences for a child» and may be «one
of the worst forms
of child abuse» that «can cause psychological problems ranging
from depression and acute stress disorder to posttraumatic stress disorder and identity formation issues» and lead to a child's experiencing «loss
of community and stability, leading to loneliness, anger, and
fear of abandonment» and «may prevent the child
from forming a relationship with the left - behind parent, impairing the child's ability to mature.»
When this is present, the child is held hostage not only by a
fear of abandonment from displeasing the alienating parent, but also by a feeling
of guilt if they do not take care
of them emotionally....
This might manifest as body image issues, lack
of confidence, defense mechanisms, or
fear of abandonment or rejection stemming
from past relationship experiences.
Further,
fear of abandonment can keep you
from developing healthy self - esteem.
Author Sherry Eldridge, who was adopted herself, «gives voice to children's unspoken concerns, and shows adoptive parents how to free their kids
from feelings
of fear,
abandonment, and shame.
«The conceptualization
of the core pathology
of BPD as stemming
from a highly frightened, abused child who is left alone in a malevolent world, longing for safety and help but distrustful because
of fear of further abuse and
abandonment, is highly related to the model developed by Young (McGinn & Young, 1996)... Young elaborated on an idea, in the 1980s introduced by Aaron Beck in clinical workshops (D.M. Clark, personal communication), that some pathological states
of patients with BPD are a sort
of regression into intense emotional states experienced as a child.
For some, the strong
fear of rejection and
abandonment cause them to stay away
from committed relationships, instead favoring short flings or one - night - stands.
Abandonment fears often stem
from childhood loss, such as the loss
of a parent through death or divorce, but they can also result
from inadequate physical and emotional care.
So they draw the child into the spousal conflict on their «side» and induce the child's rejection
of you in order to reestablish their psychological defense against the experience
of primal self - inadequacy and to protect themselves
from their terrible
fears of abandonment («I'm not the abandoned person — you are.
Because children need emotional security and stability
from their parents and in part, out
of fear of emotional
abandonment, children may attempt to boost both parents» self - esteem.
The
fear of abandonment or rejection can lead to manipulative attempts to prevent the other person
from leaving through the use
of shame, guilt and anger.
For both the narcissistic and borderline personality structure, regulating their intense emotional distress originating
from their core sense
of primal self - inadequacy and
fear of abandonment takes precedence over external restrictions, even the external restrictions placed on them by truth and reality.
The child is both internally motivated
from the emotional roller coaster
of the favored parent and externally motivated by
fear of abandonment.