I first wrote on this concept in 2005, when several dozen Bhutanese leaders, scholars and other citizens, attending a conference in Nova Scotia, described efforts to move
from happiness as a concept to a set of policies.
Not exact matches
«Younger people who view their future
as extensive gain more
happiness from extraordinary experiences,» the researchers concluded, while
as people age, it is more ordinary experiences that become associated with
happiness.
«Past research has found that people grow steadily happier
as they age
from adolescence to older adulthood, with
happiness peaking when people reach their 60s and 70s; the moodiness of youth subsides, and maturity brings more contentment.
But
as bestselling author and Oprah - anointed
happiness expert Shawn Achor pointed out on in an excerpt
from his new book on the TED Ideas blog recently, that sort of praise — well intentioned
as it might be — actually does more harm than good.
As opposed to actually taking a holiday, simply planning a vacation or break
from work can improve our
happiness.
While our culture is one of individuality, it turns out
from his research that there's a lot more to be said for
happiness as part of a bigger, collective whole of family and your tribe.
The amount of
happiness one derives
from social interactions changes
as well.
After performing the same
happiness - inducing activities, the people who signed up for the
happiness study — the group Lyubomirsky saw
as more «motivated» to become happier — gained more
from the study than those who signed up for the other exercise.
We usually view difficulties
as something to be minimized in order to attain
happiness and satisfaction, but Leslie rounds up examples
from a wide spectrum of fields to show that difficulties actually bring meaning and satisfaction into our lives.
«I derive just
as much
happiness from the process
as from the results.
«According to a study
from researchers at Harvard Business School, the University of Mannheim, and Yale University, wealthy individuals report that having three to four times
as much money would give them a perfect» 10» score on
happiness — regardless of how much wealth they already have,» reports the release.
So long
as we're aware that social media doesn't turn into long - term
happiness, we'll always withdraw
from it — at least temporarily — to do things that will give us those long - term rewards.
Being financially secure, professionally successful, and loved should be a great basis for
happiness, but
as we all know
from personal experience, it's perfectly possible to have all these things and still be pretty miserable.
As the study's author says, «The practical lesson for an individual is that you derive most of your
happiness from anticipating the holiday trip.»
Imagine how you'd approach success if it were defined
as «
happiness derived
from good relationships, and achieving personal goals.»
Inventory might seem
as distant
from customer service
as possible, but
as this article based on CEO Tony Hsieh's book Delivering
Happiness illustrates beautifully, for Zappos they were fundamentally linked.
Shawn Achor frames this rewiring
as «The Positive Tetris Effect» in The
Happiness Advantage, drawing
from the way Tetris impresses our brain so that we end up parsing the world in terms of the game.
This competition between the personal and the professional is often labeled, generally,
as «work - life balance,» but it's clear
from these survey results that flexible jobs have the ability to make specific impacts in areas like self - care, relationships, physical and mental health, and overall
happiness.
But her street cred comes
from her role
as one of the world's first
happiness consultants and a Zappos culture expert.
In our earthly condition, this is immediately obvious to everybody:
happiness on earth, promised
as pledge of heavenly
happiness, does not come
from us, we can not build it nor maintain and master it.
Either sexual stigma gets it
from one end —
as an unfair impediment to
happiness — or the other —
as an arbitrary curb on individuality.
It's not quite right to think of we Americans
as questing after fugitive moments of
happiness; really, we're questing after fleeting respites
from happiness, too, just
as we're oscillating constantly in our strivings for individuality on the one hand and a relief
from individuality on the other.
What is comparatively new is the faith and fervor with which it is pursued and the manner in which all else tends to be regarded
as subordinate to the
happiness that comes
from the satisfaction of wants.
Laws such
as there certain things that can keep us
from obtaining our full potential and
happiness in which God wants to grant to us.
Looking at society
from a modern perspective, there seems to be very little reason not to maximize human
happiness,
as long
as it hurts no one.
Contentment, pleasure, gaiety, even
happiness we can identify
from time to time
as we examine our moods and emotions.
The scriptural witness of the prophecies should be enough
as a basis for faith; Mary did not find the Lord through her quest for his body, but only through answering his personal call to her; she must not cling to his bodily presence, for his life is now on another plane, with the Father who is the Father of all those who follow Jesus because he is his Father who has raised him
from the dead; Thomas is offered sight and touch,
as a gracious concession to his lack of faith; but he does not believe because of this, but because the risen Lord addresses him; and the
happiness of those who have faith without sight is greater.
There's another strain of Christian thought to mention here: joy, which many Christians view
as distinct
from happiness.
Far
from pretending to be constituting a world ex nihilo, the framers appeal to «self - evident truths» such
as the assumed fact that all are created equal and «endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of
Happiness.»
I don't believe your loving me could shut up your heart; it's only adding to what you've been before, not taking away
from it; for it seems to me it's the same with love and
happiness as with sorrow — the more we know of it the better we can feel what other people's lives are or might be, and so we shall only be more tender to»em, and wishful to help»em.
So that Ted and Robin, who never made any sense
as a couple, could reclaim the blue French horn and bring everything full circle, reviving the dysfunctional relationship that served
as the characters» main obstacle to
happiness from the get - go?
(For instance, on the very day on which I write this page, the post brings me some aphorisms
from a worldly-wise old friend in Heidelberg which may serve
as a good contemporaneous expression of Epicureanism: «By the word «
happiness» every human being understands something different.
To lift the economic burdens which depress life and spoil opportunity, to liberate folk
from the slavery of their diseases, to set men free by education
from the Town of Stupidity, which,
as Bunyan rightly says, is only four degrees north of the City of Destruction itself — all these endeavors to give persons a chance to be their best selves are crusades for human emancipation and
happiness.
Begin to drop a providentially active God
from this picture, and we get a vision of life that makes human
happiness central and sees us
as beings whose dignity lies chiefly in enacting that benevolence in ordinary life.
If MacIntyre is captive to the terms of this disjunction, it is because, with Aristotle, he fails to distinguish adequately two branches of knowledge: eudaimonology, the object of which is human
happiness and the means to attain it; and ethics, the object of which is human conduct in the light of reason
as differentiating good
from evil.
The use of Limbo (
from the Latin «limbus», for hem of edge) refers to a state of natural
happiness outside heaven for babies and certain virtuous people, such
as the faithful Jews who lived before Christ.
The only answer I could come up with is pursuing
happiness (
as measured in moments of love and connection) in a way that is least harmful to others journey or even better helps free them
from their pains.
A. Persons, such
as infants, who have not committed actual sin and who, through no fault of theirs, die without baptism, can not enter heaven; but it is the common belief they will go to some place similar to Limbo, where they will be free
from suffering, though deprived of the
happiness of heaven.
I want him to be free not only to pursue his own
happiness, but to love God and his neighbors in the radical way of that rebel
from Nazareth who saved the world not
as a national hero, but
as a crucified enemy of the state.
This is purported to be an improvement over the ancient Greek idea that to be ethical is to value
as the only source of secure
happiness that which can not be taken away
from one, such
as, for example, a simple, ordered, tranquil life, passed mainly in contemplation and the enjoyment of secure friendship — a life relatively immune to disaster.
The simplest moral philosophy of doing unto others
as you have them do unto you is readily understandable by all normal people, just
as a pleasure shared is not halved but doubled but, to the amoralist, the psychopath it has no meaning
as they have no empathy and feel neither the
happiness nor the sadness of others, they are genetically abnormal suffering
from an actual and real physical defect.
He argued that such a life would have
happiness as its end, but he meant something very different
from what we mean by
happiness.
That is what I propose to discuss here: not
from the viewpoint of Sirius,
as the saying is — that is to say, with the lofty detachment of an observer seeing things
from so far off that they fail to touch him — but with the anxious intensity of a son of Earth who draws back in order to be able to see more deeply into the matter and spirit of a movement upon which his
happiness depends.
Rather, I have begun more and more to experience for myself the «joy of the Gospel» that Pope Francis calls us all to proclaim, and which shone out in the lives of the priests who inspired me
as a young man: an extraordinary sense of peace,
happiness and purpose which comes
from encountering Jesus and handing your life over to him.»
The new formula, in consequence, was that man's
happiness and misery come
from God
as the evidence of his favor or disfavor; that one thing supremely pleases God, moral goodness, and one thing supremely he hates, moral evil; that whenever men are fortunate they must have been virtuous and whenever they are wretched they must have transgressed; that all human suffering is thus punishment for sin — «Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?»
The problem lies not with such pleasures
as Turkish Delight; rightly moderated, such pleasures can deliver us
from suffocating self - interest into momentary
happiness.
* I was inspired in part to write this
from a book I'm reading, Peter Sheahan's Making It Happen,
as well
as Daniel Gilbert's Stumbling on
Happiness.
Change can be adventurous, exciting, and full of
happiness as we change
from one thing into something else.
As a philosophy of the «naked public space,» liberalism shifts the crucial political questions away
from happiness and toward freedom and utility.
There is no better example of this than the one being in Scripture who desired to live life
as he wanted, liberated
from all divine control, free to pursue his own
happiness as he defined it.