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Not exact matches
I know nothing of him personally, but how you get
from his aggressive, self - absorbed, judgmental, overtly
narcissistic and attention - grabbing self - righteous holier - than - thou on - line persona to someone who is «misunderstood, falsely accused, and wrongly -
abused,» is odd indeed.
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abuse.
This could potentially reduce the motivation of the allied
narcissistic / (borderline) parent for filing false allegations of child
abuse, since these false allegations might result in the child's protective separation
from the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent.
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To protect children
from the
abuse inflicted on them by a
narcissistic parent.
Furthermore, for a
narcissistic / (borderline) parent to induce or elicit
from a child false allegations of sexual
abuse against the other parent represents extremely distorted parenting that rises to the level of severe psychological
abuse of the child.
It takes years and years of legal battling in which the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent delays and delays, throwing up roadblocks, allegations of
abuse, blatantly disregarding court orders without any consequence, until you've spent all your money, you haven't seen your kids in years, and things have gone
from bad to horrible.
While it is possible that judges may still not order a protective separation, it will be extremely hard for them not to order a protective separation when ALL mental health professionals are giving the child a DSM - 5 diagnosis of V995.57 Child Psychological
Abuse, Confirmed, and the entire field of professional psychology is saying that the child's treatment REQUIRES the child's protective separation
from the psychopathology of the allied and supposedly favored
narcissistic / (borderline) parent.
The valid concern is that the
narcissistic targeted parent will externalize responsibility by alleging «parental alienation,» thereby continuing the child's exposure to emotional and psychological
abuse from profound parental empathic failure and nullification of the child's self - authenticity, physical and psychological control and intimidation of the child, or active sexual exploitation of the child, and if the child reports the
abuse the
narcissistic predator simply alleges that it's a «false allegation» because of «parental alienation.»
This pattern may also be associated with a history of pre-divorce domestic violence qualities within the family involving control, dominance, and verbal / emotional
abuse from the
narcissistic / (borderline) / antisocial parent (husband) toward the other parent (wife).
A
narcissistic / (borderline) parent will induce or elicit false allegations
from the child of sexual
abuse victimization by the other parent as a means to exploit these child allegations to achieve power over the situation and the other parent.
The need for a protective separation of the child is made necessary on two grounds, 1) to protect the child
from continued exposure to the psychological child
abuse associated with the pathogenic parenting of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent, and 2) to prevent psychological harm to the child during the active phase of treatment as a result of being turned into a «psychological battleground» by the continued active resistance of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent to the goals of therapy, and
from the continued motivated efforts of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent to maintain the child's symptomatic state even as therapy seeks to resolve the child's symptoms.
What if the favored parent is authentically trying to protect the child
from an emotionally or physically or sexually
abusing narcissistic parent, and the
narcissistic targeted parent is manipulatively using the allegation of «parental alienation» against the favored parent to nullify the favored parent's authentic efforts to protect the child
from abuse?
Two independently established DSM - 5 diagnoses of Child Psychological
Abuse, Confirmed are sufficient to warrant the removal of the child
from the pathogenic parenting of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent, so that the child can be placed in the protective care of the normal - range parent during the period of the child's active treatment and recovery stabilization.
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