Protect
him from self judgment and criticism At the end of the session, Steve reported feeling energized and highly motivated.
Not exact matches
Here's what to look for to be more
self - aware about your own fear, including when to accept it and how to prevent it
from clouding your
judgment.
Our sense of our own
self - worth and our own
self - confidence is derived
from judgments about our peer group.
What is false in the
self - image, that is, what does not accord with our knowledge or sense of reality, what is intolerably beyond our power to sustain, what has been created in order to protect us
from hurts, and what reflects our genuine
self — all this can in a measure be brought into the light of a new
judgment.
On the other hand, the chief problem with the view of the new reformers is that it fails to recognize that a sexual
self, liberated
from undertakings that have a moral claim upon it prior to any of its particular intentions and choices, has no satisfactory way to make moral
judgments about what it intends, chooses, promises, and then undertakes.
Luther's theology seeks to stay close to the perspective of the
self addressed by God's words of
judgment and promise; Aquinas» theology seeks to view all things as much as possible
from the viewpoint of God's all - encompassing wisdom, in which the human mind is allowed to participate.
You can not seperate Israel
from her history and their Elohim, and claim them for your
selves, and not expect
judgment for such blaphemy.
But unfortunately new really is anything
from that politician
self - proclaimed «apostle» Paul and forward where we see division,
judgment, disenfranchisement, and all the weird stuff that the Catholics, evangelicals, bible thumpers, etc. start to corrupt the simple lessons of Jesus, regardless of how important a person you see him as.
When moral rules and
selves are abstracted
from the normative traditions that give them substance and the social contexts that makes them concrete, «values» become little more than sentiments, moral
judgments, expressions of individual preference.
If the authentic
self is defined largely through its autonomy
from the collective standards of social propriety and aesthetic
judgment, then conformity to collective expectations is a sign of the
self's distortion and even corruption.
We have learned
from the Enlightenment and its Marxist negative image some bad lessons: a
self - righteous view of human nature, individual or collective, a good - evil dichotomy in our
judgment on others and in our social action, a shallow sense of human community, and an exaggerated confidence in the power of human beings to manage and control their own destinies.
Guilt, fanaticism,
self - righteousness,
judgment of «success» or «failure,» the incessant language of «should» all can keep us
from hearing the gentle lessons that fasting can teach.
1 Taking the thought in its naked absoluteness, not reflecting upon possible variations in the soul's preexistent state, we find this Greek conception recurring in both an older and more recent speculation: an eternal creation; an eternal procession
from the Father; an eternal coming into being of the Deity; an eternal
self - sacrifice; a past resurrection; a past
judgment.
This
judgment should be based on enlightened
self - interest: Would a vote to grant personhood benefit the rest of us, or harm us (for example, by preventing us
from doing lethal experiments on this human that could add to our medical knowledge)?
Brian's been great lately at building the farm system, but there are areas where his
judgment is questionable (although one can never be confident in assigning culpability in a front office where the owners seem to rely on
self - effacing loyalty
from employees; i.e., fall on your sword if you want to work here, and you didn't hear it
from us).
The higher
self allows you to make more sound
judgments, ability to forgive, and to see things
from your child's point of view.
But for me, this is a great way to get out
from under your own
self -
judgment and just write straight through to the end.
It is deeply unfortunate that your stories serve as object lessons of the dangers of homebirth, but, in my
judgment, the loss is compounded if we refuse to learn
from these deaths, if we refuse to acknowledge just how common they are, if we let substandard
self - proclaimed «midwives» continue practicing, and if we allow organizations like MANA (the Midwives Alliance of North America) to get away with hiding serial «babyslaugher,» the newborn equivalent of unintentional manslaughter deaths.
It is deeply unfortunate that your story serves as an object lesson of the dangers of homebirth, but, in my
judgment, the loss is compounded if we refuse to learn
from these deaths, if we refuse to acknowledge just how common they are, and if we let substandard
self - proclaimed «midwives» continue practicing.
Unfortunately, as parents, there is a huge looming cloud of
judgment that we feel
from all directions: Some there, some imagined, some
self - inflicted.
How do we separate the
self from the other, make moral
judgments, or decide how much money to save for retirement?
If we can be thoroughly engaged in the pleasure that stems
from a great cappuccino, the chalky ceramic mug, the airy foam, the milky goodness that lies beneath, the rich fragrance rising in the steam, the warmth traveling
from your fingertips to the root of your heart, the chatter in the cafe swimming all around you... and you haven't even had a sip yet... If we can be thoroughly engaged in the tears that spring up after a long, trying Tuesday, allowing our sorrow and
self - pity to flood forth without
judgment or frustration, saturating ourselves with empathy and
self - comfort, treating our pain as we would a loved one's... we are not denying our pain, we are relishing it, we are feeling it, and we are opening ourselves up to the immense pleasure we can feel once the pain has passed.
The truth is that nothing good ever comes
from self -
judgment or
judgment of others.
Years ago, I realized that much of my anxiety was coming
from self -
judgments and
judgments of others.
Feeling love for our skin releases us
from the
self -
judgment that so often robs us of the opportunity of responding to our life with clarity and intention.
Within this bubble of collective denial, the two main characters are isolated
from judgment of their chauvinistic actions and attitude, simply by virtue of lacking any tangible sense of
self - awareness.
Far
from being an exact science, the method they chose, as we shall see, was profoundly subjective, a matter of
judgment by and for
self - interested parties.
«Global competence is the capacity to analyse global and intercultural issues critically and
from multiple perspectives, to understand how differences affect perceptions,
judgments, and ideas of
self and others, and to engage in open, appropriate and effective interactions with others
from different backgrounds on the basis of a shared respect for human dignity.»
Given the vantage point of the performer looking out onto the audience, the viewer is forced to be the focus of
self - conscious awareness, and must interpret the variety of expressions of the theatergoers that range
from boredom and
judgment to concentration and enjoyment.
If and when future human evolution produces greater prefrontal capacity we will see a shift in human behavior away
from self -, family -, and tribal - centered and selfish, near - term
judgment to much more inclusive, caring and sharing behavior.
DBT groups are helpful for those in recovery as participants learn skills to work through painful feelings without a substance, decrease addictive behaviors, get unstuck
from emotional or behavioral patterns, learn to be present in the moment and participate fully in life, let go of shame and
judgments of
self and others, and utilize assertive communication.
Through this relationship, I'm able to offer compassion, respect and encouragement, free
from judgment for those seeking an opportunity to gain greater
self awareness, grow as individuals and develop healthier, more fulfilling lives.»
To deal with this shame or
self -
judgment, he therefore hides his need for comfort and reassurance both
from himself and
from his wife.
People are already amazing but sometimes life experiences, circumstances, illness and relationships can impose clouded
judgment, maladaptive behavior, poor
self esteem and obstacles
from achieving what we truly desire and deserve.
Children base their
self - concepts on feedback they receive
from others as well as their own
judgments.
My goal is to provide a
judgment - free place where you can feel safe to discover your true
self, to heal
from past hurts and to elicit needed change in your life.
Finally, in most cases I have encountered, suffering originate
from internalized
self rejection, alienation, and
judgment.