The
first ideal
date should be comfortable in a relaxed atmosphere consisting of lunch, dinner, coffee or a glass of wine, in which you can have a decent
conversation plus getting to know each other, hopefully with the result of taking off into a meaningful
future.
I don't believe in monogamy There's no denying that open relationships can work if both parties are in agreement, but unless you've discussed this early on, bringing up the possibility of
future infidelities is probably not the best topic of
conversation for a
first date.