A lot of divorced
gay people feel a much larger sense of guilt.
I wouldn't be surprised, but has it ever crossed your mind that
gay people feel that they were born that way, and would love to know if science would soon confirm that feeling, regardless of the legal and political whirlwind that they find themselves in?
And
some gay people feel that gay sex is wrong (and many have at some point in their lives), so they are clearly capable of taking a moral stand on the issue (without the physical components of their brains being any different than someone who makes a different choice).
If
some gay people feel that gay sex is wrong but are compelled to do it anyway, that's not an abnormal psychological makeup, that's addiction.
A lot of
gay people feel a deep disconnect from religion because what we hear from the pulpit and what we hear in «the secret place» don't line up.
That is the EXACT revulsion
gay people feel for hetero se.
Not exact matches
Jennifer Finney Boylan, a transgender author who teaches at Barnard College in New York, said in an email that she fears conservatives will now seek to «isolate and marginalize transgender
people» and make them
feel separated from the broader
gay rights movement.
«So if hearing that the CEO of Apple is
gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone who
feels alone, or inspire
people to insist on their equality, then it's worth the trade - off with my own privacy.»
Such a new ecclesiastical body is designed to allow these pathetic human beings, who are so deeply locked into a world that no longer exists, to form a community in which they can continue to hate
gay people, distort
gay people with their hopeless rhetoric and to be part of a religious fellowship in which they can continue to
feel justified in their homophobic prejudices for the rest of their tortured lives.
The horrible thing is... the rejection of homosexuality is what forces the
gay person into shame and guilt... which results in suppression of their natural
feelings... which results in unhealthy, sinful expressions of those
feelings.
I'm interested in how Christine and other Christian
gays and lesbians are able to
feel accepted by
people who believe their relationships are sinful.
Because
gay people are taught from a young age that being
gay is wrong and that having
feelings for someone of the same sex is queer, they suppress those
feelings and (with men especially) those
feelings often get expressed through random sex acts with other men.
From what I gather my friends say they
feel accepted there, too (but unlike y ’ all, they haven't really been able to put into words why attending a place where
people think that being
gay is sinful is ok with them).
And yes, I venture to say the straight
people usually make the
gays feel uneasy, because they're threatened for some reason.
Ginger: there are heteros that have anal, and there are
gay women, which
people seem to ignore; you know the revulsion you
feel for
gay sex?
Not that I am saying
gay people are drug users or gamblers, but those
people also
feel compelled to gamble or use drugs because the life they have witnessed, does that make it right?
The fact that most times
people can't tell who's
gay just makes
people feel more paranoid and fearful (those
gays are everywhere — it's all part of their conspiracy) so they're even more hateful.
So if hearing that the CEO of Apple is
gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone who
feels alone, or inspire
people to insist on their equality, then it's worth the trade - off with my own privacy.»
It's wrong for the public restaurant installation to assert its religious belief particularly much favorable toward Chriatian faith diners; the mood should be like acceptace of all racial, religious backgrounds, and particularly for
gay people not to
feel discriminated and hurt!
There are one type of Christian, Angry Christians, who consistently
feel the need to mock other
peoples se xuality, and post incessantly any time someone mentions the word
gay.
All they're doing is making
people feel guilty for their biology, not unlike «pray away the
gay»
David, I really appreciate this post, particularly that you highlight that not only
gay people are those who
feel like the church puts them into a bind of not living into who they fully are or are pushed to the perimeter if they live with the integrity that says sometimes the Christian life is brutally hard and life in general can be messy.
They, personally, find it «distasteful» (although it is AMAZING how many prominent anti-
gay people end up being exposed as
gay), and, because they can use their delusion to justify such an inhuman and anti-American stance, they
feel the need to force their stupidity on everyone else.
If she
feels it is wrong for
gay people to get married, she has the religious freedom to believe this.
But even that doesn't matter because you can't stop
people from being
gay, you can't legislate
feelings.
If you really do not hate
gay people, perhaps you might consider dissecting what you just said and ask yourself, If somebody substituted heterosexual for
gay and said the same thing to you, would you
feel loved or despised?
Furthermore, this culture war has presented
people like Justin, and
people like Cindy — a mom who contacted Justin in a panic after learning her son was
gay, knowing that her church was the last place she could turn if she wanted her son to
feel loved and supported — with a dangerous false dichotomy: It's
gays vs. Christians.
He said: «To most English
people under 40 a discussion of
gay bishops or same - sex marriage
feels as relevant and inviting as one about women being allowed to drive in Saudi Arabia.»
Kids need to be free to make up their own minds... There will be
people who through matters of conscience
feel like they want to identify as
gay but stay celibate.
I can transform a woman
person, a Jewish
person, a black
person, a
gay person, an oriental
person, a precious child into A bitch, a kike, a nigger, a bull dyke, a faggot, a chink, a selfish little bastard I bring pain that is chronic A pain that will not go away I am the hunter that stalks you night and day Every day everywhere I have no boundaries You try to hide from me But you can not Because I live inside of you I make you
feel hopeless Like there is no way out MY NAME IS TOXIC SHAME
Yet, as Bishop Spong points out, if it was a
gay male who taught the Christian church what the love of God means, who defined grace for all
people; and who, tortured and rejected as he must have
felt, came to understand what resurrection means as God's vindicating act, then in a sense we do owe him a debt of gratitude.
So
gay people are in their emotions /
feelings / bodies / sexuality broken and any expression of their sexuality is an expression of that brokenness.
But I
feel like in that opinion, I get judged by the same Christians who want to ensure that
people who are
gay «know how evil they are» because I'm not being «bold» enough.
Thibault agrees with the message, and
feels that
gay people who act on their homosexual urges should not be eligible for all of the sacraments of the Catholic church.
(But when
people start telling us why they think being
gay is harmful, I'm not sure that will end the yelling — it's much more personal and could be even more heated as we
feel slurred by
people who have no first, and sometimes even no second - hand, experience of what it means and what it is like to be
gay.)
When discussing homosexuality, Christians should seek to create «gut - wrenching, jaw - clenching, hand - over-your-mouth, «I
feel dirty» moral outrage» regarding
gay and lesbian
people seeking to get married.
I
feel your pain and grief at what the church has done, and am so thankful there are
people out there like you working hand in hand with
gay Christians to heal the church.
Instead, he invites those who may already have hostile
feelings toward
gay and lesbian
people to indulge their revulsion and anger.
I don't have a problem with a
gay person choosing to be celibate if that is what they
feel called to, anymore than I would have a problem with a straight
person that chooses to be celibate.
And I
feel it is the responsibility of us
gay people not to want to have «marriage» because we
feel we need this to be equal but to really imagine how a
gay relationship can become a blessing not only to the partners but also to the greater society and define it as something new and leave marriage as what it is — a holy union between a man and a woman.
Heres what I want to know, why is it that many
people feel physically, emotionally & spiritually repulsed by the idea of
gay sex.
The
feelings that
gays have for
people are the same as those that straights have.
If a
person has inappropriate urges (by that I don't mean
gay, this is Pedophilia folks) they could see the church and it's celibacy rules as a kind of sanctuary where they may
feel they can hide from their problem & hope God cures them.
If the religious
people who
feel that
gay marriage is wrong understood that that opinion applies onto the themselves and not to
people who believe differently then there would be little interest in what religious
people of any description believed in (as an example).
Does it hurt your
feelings that
gay people want to get married?
And the same logic should make it clear, of course, that all sorts of other kinds of
people — childless
gay people, infertile
people,
people who do not
feel called to parenthood — can become every bit as mature (or immature) as a parent of six, as long as they can find some substitute discipline for repeatedly placing someone or something else at the center of their lives.
GLBTQ Celibacy... a movement that is trending and gaining increased momentum as folks get on board.. - LIE, because over 53 % of
people in America now
feel gays should have their civil right to get married.
The concern I have is that I
feel Anderson Cooper pursues
people and groups who oppose the
gay rights movement more often than any other cause in his show.
ok well in the bible it is against divorce also but god forgives to but it is still wrong and yes i am from nc and i do live in catawba country where this took place but i do nt have to sit around and watch
people make out with each other and u know lesbians and
gays should read the bible more pentcosal think the same way about that it is wrong for a man and man to be togather and a woman and woman to be togather and some of you
people are just plan stupid and i think that some of you just need to think it is god place to judge this pastor and it might be old fashion but back in the ol days we did nt have all this volice and all these crimes but look now there is alot of crime and volice and all we are doing is mad that a pastor said how he
felt about
gays and lesbiens
I have several
gay family members, but I have no problem with
people who's beliefs are different (as long as they are not discriminating against others) I also know several openly
gay / lesbians that work for Chick - fil - A and have
felt very comfortable there, at least until others started causing an uproar.