I submit that the latter of the two
gets to the heart of the issue discussed here, since being different from everyone else almost necessitates that you ignore everyone else to begin with.
We
discuss the
issues,
get to the real
heart of the challenges, and fix them and then build upon that solid foundation for a wonderful, joyful, passionate relationship, and all
of this can take as little as a few hours together one day, or possibly an entire weekend followed by «checkups»!