The contractions were very strong at this point and when I did get checked, the nurse asked me if I was planning on
getting an epidural because if I was then it was too late!
My mom has had two very easy births and one «sunny - side up» one where
she got an epidural because she wasn't progressing due to the pain.
Later, several people even speculated about whether
I got an epidural because my provider pressured me, I was not allowed to labor at home, or I didn't get to relax in a whirlpool.
While transitioning an hour into labor I did sign to
get an epidural because I thought with first baby this labor was going to last 12 hours and I couldn't take the pain for that long.
Not exact matches
This feeling that you were less of a woman
because you had an
epidural has simply
got to stop.
I'm certainly not saying that
epidurals don't have their place or that nobody should have one, but I think one should educate one's self before taking on the risks that are involved in receiving one and not
get it just
because that's what «everybody» does.
Had to
get one
because of my
epidural.
Rupturing your membranes also puts you on a clock, has a greater chance of cord prolapse meaning emergency, increases your risk of infection and takes away your baby's buffer to the strong contractions caused by Pitocin, your
epidural can slow labor, making you unable to move and / or push effectively, doesn't allow for proper fetal descent, you will most likely have a catheter placed to your bladder, increasing risk of bladder infections, and if all else fails, at 5PM, you will have a C / S at 5PM before your baby
gets too tired or sick to continue laboring (
because the doctor is tired of waiting).
Many women who have home births
get transferred to a hospital anyway, usually
because the labour is taking too long or
because they need pain medication such as an
epidural.
To those women who haven't really given birth
because they've had a C - section, to those women who gave in to the pain and
got an
epidural, to anyone who doesn't understand that only breastfed babies are truly bonded to their mothers...
Of course they give in and
get an
epidural at the drop of a hat
because they don't realize that there's a difference between good pain and bad pain.
Needing an
epidural because you've been in physical agony for hours and you just can't take it anymore is traumatic —
because you were in agony for hours, not
because you
got the
epidural.
--
Because labor may have progressed so much that
getting an
epidural just isn't a possibility.
I am strong
because after 32 hours of labor, I decided to
get an
epidural even though it was against my birth plan.
Because I had an epidural that was quite mild because I got it at
Because I had an
epidural that was quite mild
because I got it at
because I
got it at 10 +2.
We're not sure if her eyes are closed
because she is trying to bear through a contraction or
because the
epidural has calmed them down and allowed her to sleep, but we definitely
get a sense of the peace of the moment — and that just helps build the excitement.
Instead, due to high blood pressure, I was sent to triage on a Wednesday afternoon at 37 weeks, spent a night being monitored, then had a balloon put inside my cervix for 12 hours to «ripen» it, then received pitocin (and an
epidural,
because by that point I was too frightened of what
getting my water broken would feel like), threw up numerous times, developed a fever, was informed that I might or might not be
getting a C - section, eventually pushed for 45 minutes and then had my son, on a Friday night.
While I know there's a whole movement out there trying to shame moms who do
get an
epidural (which I call bullsh*t on,
because mothers need to do what they feel is best for their body.
If you
get an
epidural, it's possible that your let down effect will be hindered
because of the
epidural interfering with the production of oxytocin.
At the 21 hour mark I
got my
epidural (I had been begging for the
epidural since hour 8 or 9 but was told I couldn't have it
because they didn't want to «stall» my labor... I was stuck at 3.5 cm for the entire 21 hours prior to receiving my
epidural, to this day I don't understand why I had to suffer without pain medication, I was already failing to progress, what damage could an
epidural have done?)
I had my husband read this
because I wanted him to read that part about the
epidural and when he
got there he started gut laughing
because he remembers that reaction too!
It may also be
because epidurals numb the pelvic muscles and the vagina, so the brain doesn't
get the message to send a super surge of oxytocin to
get baby out.
Sometimes women who otherwise didn't plan on
getting an
epidural end up
getting one
because they can't handle the stronger, closer contractions, especially when they aren't able to move around fully.